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In the marriage book, it is said that the two best magic weapons for two people to be together: tolerance, loyalty...
If she betrays you, then you have to find the reason, first of all, find your own reason, if you feel that there is nothing wrong with you that you have done her badly. is worthy of her, that explanation is her own reason. There are many reasons for betrayal, and you have to see what kind of person she is.
If you really love her and she loves you, give her another chance and give yourself a chance. If she is like this again, you can no longer tolerate it, so break up before you get married. But if she is that kind of person by nature, you have to think about it, if the love is very deep, you can't let go.
And if you choose to get married, then you must be psychologically prepared to tolerate her for the rest of your life until she wakes up. I hope that a lover can grow old together.
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Whoever hasn't made a mistake will pass the past.
We should look forward, instead of struggling so painfully now, it is better to put our energy into work and life, I believe that as long as you treat her well, she will understand, thank you for your kindness.
Don't keep yourself and her tightly in control, let go and make it easier for everyone, so that your relationship can be better stabilized.
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If you can forgive him generously, and you will not hold a grudge against this matter in the future, and you will not let yourself accommodate yourself for this matter and make yourself uncomfortable, then you continue. But you shouldn't be this kind of person, and you don't often get short-term. Even if you forgive him now and get married, it is inevitable that you will mention it later, and when you think of it, you will inevitably quarrel and get angry in the future, and you will not be able to get a divorce, which will be a huge harm to you, her and her children.
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Although she has backboarded you, you don't have to doubt her all the time.
Just because he made mistakes in the past doesn't mean he'll always be a bad person.
Try to think on the bright side.
Don't think badly.
It's actually time for you all to talk about marriage, so let's go on.
Don't break up because of that.
That would have hit her hard.
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It's okay, it's normal, it shows that you are a very manly person, I'm sure you are a person who pursues perfection, but if you are good with him, you should believe her, after all, everyone makes mistakes, men are also easy to make mistakes, and they should tolerate each other.
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If you feel that you can't trust her anymore, then break up, the long pain is better than the short pain, don't wronged yourself.
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