After the start of a new relationship, I thought of my ex boyfriend again

Updated on psychology 2024-07-08
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If it still doesn't hurt, if it's really hurt, you'll learn to let go.

    People are like this, if they don't go to the extreme, they will always leave an assumption for themselves, and they will have to tear their faces before they completely let go of their hands.

    Let's fall in love. People just grow up in different relationships. You don't need to forget your previous boyfriend, because some memories are beautiful after all. Wouldn't it be nice to treasure it up?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's been a year since I broke up. I still can't forget it. After all, there was such a period. But when it comes into contact with feelings. I still don't think about it. But I'm sure I don't love anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think the past tense is the past tense, and there is no going back. Bury the past to the bottom of your heart as he is good to you now, then cherish him! If it's not good for you, just turn your head in style! There is no grass at the end of the world, and one person can live freely.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal, take your time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Take your time, don't be in a hurry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to start a relationship to forget him, then you will only hurt yourself and your current boyfriend, you can't always remember the good of your ex-boyfriend, they each have their own strengths, as long as you don't compare them, put your heart back on your current boyfriend to understand who you want in your own heart!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Try to accept your current boyfriend. Cherish the moment and cherish the people in front of you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After having a new love, the man usually thinks of the ex, and the responsibility is actually the type that the man likes, but for some reason, they are not together, and the new love must have something in common with the ex-girlfriend, and the man will like it, or it is the complete opposite, the man may also be attracted, but no matter what? Men usually don't forget the people they once liked.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After a man breaks up with his ex, if it doesn't take long for him to have a new love, the man's feelings for his new love may not be as deep as his original ex. Do men miss their exes when they have a new love? The answer is yes.

    Even if a man has a new girlfriend, he will still have an ex in his heart.

    Men occasionally think of their exes after they have a new partner. Generally speaking, men are more likely to think of their ex when their relationship with their new love is in trouble.

    When a man is dating a new love, if he finds that the two have discordant personalities, they are always conflicted and awkward, or in the process of getting along with the new love, he finds that the new love is different from what he imagined. Whenever this happens, a man unconsciously thinks of his ex. He even imagines what would have happened if he hadn't broken up with his ex in the first place.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, I think there are two possibilities for such a behavior of a boyfriend:1He has already had a new partner, he knew her before he separated from you, and the breakup was also because of this 2

    He left you very sad, this empty time made him very uncomfortable, so he quickly found one, so that they may not last long, because they will not be able to adjust their mentality so quickly to accept new feelings after getting out of a relationship, as for the ex will remember but will not look back.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After a boy has a new love, he sometimes thinks of his ex, because he has a good relationship with his ex after all, so even if a boy has a new love, sometimes he will think of his ex and some of the benefits of his ex.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As a boy, I can tell you very clearly that even if a boy has a new love, he will occasionally think of his old love, and the old love will be deliberately hidden in the depths of his heart, and he will only think of it at certain times.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the new love brings only fatigue to the man, it will be a contrast in his heart, and the man will naturally think of his ex.

    What a man can really remember for a long time is not necessarily his ex, but a woman who is wholeheartedly good to him will definitely be able to make him remember.

    If the current one will only bring tired emotions to the man, and he doesn't care about his feelings at all, and he will always be unscrupulous with his little temper, then such a woman will not be loved in the heart of the man.

    A man says he likes it, but there will also be a contrast in his heart, if his ex is an empathetic woman who can help him, then this contrast in the man's heart will be even stronger, so he will often think of his ex's goodness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When a man has a new love, he will definitely not think of his ex, because when he has a new love, he will put his heart on the new love.

    So a man who has a new love will definitely not think of his ex, because the two of them are over.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After a man has a new love, of course he will think of his ex, because the current new love is not as good as his ex, so he takes care of it. I don't care about him as much as my ex, so I think of my ex, if the new love is higher than my ex and his face is better, it will slowly drain over time. Forget about the little ex.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    More or less I will remember, but I don't know if it is good or bad to think of him. But no matter whether it's good or bad, I always remember that after all, people have feelings. Unless they were supposed to get along, there was no emotion!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After a boy has a new love, he will not think of his ex for the time being, unless his current lover is not as good as his ex, he will think of his ex.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe, if the new love is not as good as the ex, he will miss the ex very much, if the current one is much better than the ex, then he will not miss it, but feel that the decision he made is very wise.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After a boy has a new love, if the new love is better than the ex, he will not think about the ex, and if the new love is not as good as the ex, and it is much worse than the ex, it will think of the ex. I still think my ex is good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Boys will think of their ex when they have a new love, especially when the current one encounters something they have done or been to with their ex, they will often think of their ex at this time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Whether it's a boy or a girl, when you have a new partner, you will want to think of your ex once in a while.

    After all, our ex has grown up with us, whether it is harm or protection, it is an experience. It's normal to think about it.

    If you get along better with the current one, then you will think less of your predecessor, and this depends on your personal situation.

    Regardless of whether the boy will think of his ex or not, he should respect each other and be more tolerant.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Well, after having a new love, he will occasionally think of his ex, and he must have a certain comparison between his current and his predecessor, hoping that it is better to find the current than his predecessor.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the boy's new love is better than his ex, the boy may forget about his ex. But it is also possible that it will be remembered at the chance time. Once the new love is not as good as his ex, it is difficult for him to forget his ex.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, especially when the new love is inferior to the ex in some aspects, but if you are in the honeymoon period with the new love, it is estimated that you will not think of the ex.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Do guys think of their ex when they have a new love? If the guy gets along very well with his new love, he won't think about it, because everyone will be unhappy, and when she is unhappy, maybe!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It should be, most people will think of their ex, because she is also part of the memory, whether it is good or bad, it is hard to forget, especially if you will do the same thing as her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When a guy has a new love, he may forget about his ex-girlfriend. But in the course of life. Occasionally, he also thinks of his ex-girlfriend's goodness.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Generally, I don't think of my ex again, unless this new love is not as good as my ex, then I think of my ex well.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, it depends on whether your new love is good to you, if it is not as good as your ex, you will definitely remember that your ex is good.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If a boy has a new love, he will forget his old love in the future, so it is still difficult for them to remember their ex.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When a guy has a new love, do he think of his ex? Because the boy has a new love, of course he doesn't like his ex. So I don't think of my ex.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When a boy has a new love, he will also think of his ex, because he will make comparisons in his heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the exe of the boy in question is an emotional person himself, and he has not completely let go of the previous relationship after the breakup, it is easy to miss the ex, and if the ex also misses the boy and makes contact, it will have more negative effects, and the quality of the relationship between the boy and the new love will be worse, which will accelerate the breakdown of the new relationship.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    More or less, but some people don't think about it, it depends on what kind of girl the ex is, these are not easy to say, but if you choose to be with you, you have to trust each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It depends on whether the man's feelings for his ex are deep, if he broke up because of his reasons, and the man has a deep affection for his ex, even if he has a new love, there is still a place in his heart reserved for his ex.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It shouldn't be, this kind of man must only hear the newcomer laughing, and the old man crying.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This kind of thing depends on what kind of person the man is, and a lustful man will not miss his ex.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Sometimes it is normal to think about it occasionally, and it must have been together to have loved each other and had feelings.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I can think about it, and it's normal to believe that I want to think about it.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't you understand the truth of liking the new and hating the old? If he misses his ex, can he still find a new love?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    When you have a new boyfriend, you will still think of your ex, and this is because people's memory is an involuntary thing, and they will not forget it casually because you want to.

    There are many experiences in life that cannot be forgotten, some things make us fly to the sky happily, and some things make us fall into the eighteen layers of hell painfully, these pictures are clearly imprinted in our minds, and they cannot be changed, just like we can't forget to dress and eat.

    The more you try to forget, the clearer it becomes

    After a breakup, we may all want to forget about a relationship, and the happiness of the past will become a thorn in our hearts at this time, leaving us breathless. However, sometimes we find that it is all in vain, and the more we try to let go of a person, the clearer and clearer the outline of that person becomes.

    People's memory is really involuntary, there are some things we don't want to forget but forget, never remembered, and some things we want to forget but can never let go, maybe this has a lot to do with people's emotional ups and downs, those things that can make our emotions fluctuate are impossible to forget.

    The things that were once with that person, whether it was pain or happiness, are so fresh in my memory, it is impossible to forget them in a short time, and stop resisting in vain.

    Man is not completely cut off from the past

    Even if we have broken up with our ex and started a new relationship, our memories are linear, like a flowing river, and it is impossible to completely disconnect everything in the past with a new boyfriend now, and the human brain is not formatted all at once when the computer says delete it.

    Everyone can't completely cut off the past, even if we have new emotions now, it is based on the accumulation of the previous emotion that will allow us to keep everything we have today, so there is no way to completely get rid of the past relationship in this development process.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It means that you are not satisfied with your current boyfriend, or even inferior to your ex, so you will unconsciously compare with your ex, and then you will think of your ex.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think this phenomenon is normal. Because even if you have a new boyfriend, you will still want a new boyfriend compared to your previous boyfriend. If the new boyfriend is not as good as the ex, then he will always think about the good of the ex.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you think about it a lot, or if you compare it with your current one, it means that you haven't let it go yet. If you think about it very occasionally, it's normal, after all, you have known each other.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I feel that it is normal to think of an ex-boyfriend, no one forgets a person so quickly, as long as it takes a long time, it will be better, he always has memories in your heart.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It doesn't take long for a man to have a new love after breaking up with his ex, and many people may think that this kind of man must no longer love his ex. However, having a new love after a man breaks up does not mean that he does not care about his ex at all. Some men who find a new love after a breakup may just want to force themselves to move on from their last relationship as soon as possible.

    And some men, the relationship with their new love may not be as deep as that of their ex.

    Therefore, many men will still miss their ex after they have a new love. This kind of man is still not able to let go of his ex. In the deepest part of their hearts, they actually still love their ex.

    However, there is also a kind of man, although they no longer love their ex, and they are dating new lovers because they like each other. However, this kind of man also occasionally thinks of his ex. Such a man will generally think of his ex from time to time in such situations.

    The first situation is when he is at odds with his new love. When a man has a quarrel and unhappiness with his new love, he is most likely to think of his ex. He will unconsciously compare his new love with his ex in his heart, and he may feel that if he is an ex, he will not be as vexatious as his new love.

    can make a man occasionally think of his ex, and there is another situation, that is, when he sees things and thinks about people or touches the scene. Sometimes when a man goes to a certain place with his new love, or does something, he suddenly remembers that he has done the same thing with his ex before, and at this time, the man will unconsciously think of his ex. If he still has something that his ex gave him before, then when he sees it, it is easy for him to think of his ex.

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