How to propose a breakup to a depressed boyfriend?

I think the psychology of the depressed boyfriend who proposed to break up is because he feels that he has depression himself, so he is afraid of affecting you. I didn't want to hurt you, so I proposed to break up, I don't think it's appropriate to be with such a sick person, so breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing, I think this is good.

When the depressed boyfriend mentions breaking up, he may be cranky in his heart, but he still can't guess the specifics, so it's better to ask him directly for good communication.

Leave directly, don't tell him to break up directly. Tell him to go to a distant place. Then the contact was severed.

People with depression problems will also become irritable and angry when dealing with love, and there is no way to concentrate well, and they will always feel very flustered about the future with their other half, and they will feel uneasy, and there is no way to continue their feelings well.

Once the feelings go deeper, they start to run away. Or start ruining the relationship through aggressive behavior. Here's why:

They are very fragile and at the same time extremely strong. The reason for being strong may be that when you are weak at a young age, you are powerless to resist and change the bad luck that happens to you, so you will be extra strong when you grow up. Don't allow yourself to be a little vulnerable.

The relationship with the lover seems to have become what they think is a "weakness" and "weakness", and they are afraid that they will be hurt because of their weakness, so they will take the initiative to cut off the estrangement or destroy the relationship to maintain their sense of security.

Falling in love with a depressed person is an extremely exhausting thing because he can't control his emotions at all. First of all, it is important to emphasize that depressed mood is not the same as depression. He can be very cheerful and confident on the surface, not at all like the depression that everyone imagines.

There is even a type of depression that is manic, which can make people motivated to become workaholics.

To put it simply, you have to always be clear that even though he seems to be fine, he is sick. And you have to not have any excessive negative reactions when he hurts you. Because it is not his intention, but if you show negative emotions, it will lead him into a darker abyss because of self-blame.

You need to endure being hurt by someone who can't control yourself, and at the same time, you can't run away from it, you can't give up. Such a demanding requirement. So I don't recommend falling in love with a depressed person without being mentally prepared.

Negative manifestations of depression in love.

1. Lose interest in hobbies, even hobbies, and daily activities with your lover in the past, and be listless all day long.

2. After being with a lover, life becomes lazy, unkempt, and unenterprising.

3. When sleeping with lovers, long-term insomnia, especially characterized by early awakening, lasts for weeks or even months.

If it's from your boyfriend's point of view, I don't think we should break up. Because this will cause more psychological pressure on him. But from your point of view, if you love him enough, I don't mind if you break up with him, and I'm sure you can both get through this together.

But if you don't count the shouts that then Potato Yuye likes him, leave early. Depression is not terrible, what is terrible is to destroy when he is depressed, and when he is in his most difficult time, there is no one to accompany him. But if your boyfriend is doing something that hurts you, then you have to protect yourself.

If he had depression before, you should really break up, because there will definitely be no result with this kind of man in the end, but if his depression is caused by you, you may have to accompany him for a while, hoping to make him get better quickly.

Depression is generally manifested as depression, panic, anxiety, fear, depression, reluctance, rethinking, feeling that life is meaningless, you should be by his side, actively enlightened, cooperate, relax, relieve stress, divert attention to do something meaningful in the town, pay attention to the other party's words and rude things, be patient, and try to understand.

Depression is generally manifested by depression, panic, anxiety, fear, depression, reluctance to socialize, and a lack of meaningfulness in life.

Severe cases are more inclined to commit suicide, they should stay with their boyfriends, be actively enlightened, cooperate, relax their minds, relieve stress, divert their attention to do something meaningful, pay attention to the other party's words and do things for several lifetimes, be patient, and try to understand.

You can help him** but if you consume yourself internally, you have to be rational.

Your ex-boyfriend is depressed after breaking up with you, should you get along? Maybe he loves you too much and becomes depressed. Maybe he's a guy who can't stand a blow and can't dig back at the slightest setback.

First of all, love is not pity, it is pity. Even if you pity him for a while and suffer from depression, what about later? You have to think about it, if you still can't bear it, just leave, don't pull and pull, it's good for both of you.

If you think that you love him very much and can't do without him, and you want to accompany him through this saddest time, then please be extremely determined.

Girl, you have to remember that no matter what you decide, don't regret it, and you don't need to feel guilty, no one is sorry for anyone, life is so short, and the first thing we have to think about throughout our lives is to be responsible for ourselves. I hope your boyfriend's condition will be controlled as soon as possible, and I also wish the girl that you find a lover and be happy for the rest of your life, it must be reasonable to separate, such as not loving each other, for example, you can't accept each other's shortcomings, so you choose to break up. If there is not much conflict between you, just a quarrel and a breakup, I think the situation can be reconciled.

But the premise is that you still love him, and if he is just depressed for a while, then don't reconcile, because after a while he will come out.

If you still love him and feel sorry for him now, then don't hesitate to agree. Because you think that what you miss is just one person, only one day you will find that it is a love. Maybe I haven't met again in this life, and if I miss it, it's a lifetime.

In love, everyone is full of pain, in one person's wounds, and in another**. Some people heal their wounds by themselves, crying secretly, and quietly licking their wounds. And I don't know how long this painful period will take, and some of them are looking for it again before they can taste the taste of injury, and even turn around and take another person's hand.

And some people can't extricate themselves for a long time and can't forget, which can't help but say that he "she" is really hurt seriously.

Divide and combine, noisy and noisy is the most common in love, because there is affection, it will be noisy, because of love will say yes to leave, but the limbs are forgiven because of your smile. So everyone's love is roughly the same, there are joys and pains. As for leaving or continuing, the most important thing is to love or not to love, and this is the best answer!

At last. Girl, you have to remember that no matter what you decide, don't regret it, and you don't need to feel guilty, no one is sorry for anyone, life is so short, and the first thing we have to think about throughout our lives is to be responsible for ourselves. I hope your boyfriend's condition is under control as soon as possible, and I wish you a happy lover for the rest of your life.

Love must not be concealed, not disguised, but sincere, understanding, tolerance, and love. So if he really loves you, he won't mind depression.

And they will care and love you more. I often see such couples, seeing a doctor or even being hospitalized**, sometimes our relationship may need to be tested with attention, and repeated cover-ups can only make you harder, you need to spend a lot of energy to worry about being discovered by your boyfriend to find out your secret, such a result can only make your already insufficient energy consume more, more depressed, more painful, and easy to aggravate your depression symptoms.

Emotional things are often just good with fate, the condition must be able to **, after ** moderate depression must be able to achieve remission, or even complete remission, and as long as you adhere to the norms, your life is still in your own control. It is said how severe depression is and how difficult it is to alleviate depression, but what you have to know is that there are of course many patients with depression who have reached complete remission in medical norms, that is, after passing the Hamilton Depression Rating Scale.

The rating is below 7 points. As long as you want to, as long as you don't give up and face everything positively, your future must be in your own hands.

If two people really love each other, I don't think there is anything that can't be borne together, after all, they will live together in the future. If he can't accept this frustration, then don't waste your time with him. In fact, telling him is correct, and you can also avoid some unintentional actions that indirectly hurt you without him knowing.

And if you don't tell him now, he will find out for himself later, which will also affect the trust of each other. I hope it can help you, and what I want to tell you is that the world is really beautiful, go out and see the outside world.

Depression is not terrible, what is terrible is that some people give up hope of life. I was the same as you for a while, and now I'm coming out. I hope you will also be soon**, I hope it will be helpful to you.

You shouldn't break up with your boyfriend. Depression can be cured, cooperate well, everything is fine, stay together, don't think about what you have, and you haven't changed anything else if you break up.

Since you are working hard, love should also belong to you, since you have stopped taking the drug, but the influence of the original family suggests further psychological counseling to sort out. You are afraid of hurting him, and if you push him away and love you, you are actually hurting him. It varies from person to person.

It is also completely understandable if he is not willing to accompany you, no one is obliged to spend time with a pessimistic person.

There's no need to break up with your boyfriend, you're already suffering from severe depression, and breaking up could make your condition worse. If your boyfriend is willing to accompany you through this difficult situation, maybe you will get better faster.

You shouldn't break up with him, I know you may be thinking about the boy, but as long as the boy doesn't want to abandon you, then I don't recommend that the two of you break up, because you two still have a good future, and you have depression then you work hard to overcome it.

Hello dear, if you just have severe depression and want to break up with your boyfriend, if he really loves you, he will definitely not want to break up with you.

You shouldn't break up, he can have the right to know that you are sick to see his attitude, breaking up is not your business alone, your boyfriend may be able to help you get out of depression.

It mainly depends on how your boyfriend treats you. If he knows that you are depressed and takes more care of you, this kind of man is worthy of being entrusted with him for life and should continue to be with him. If he starts to dislike you, and he always avoids you, then just break up and don't bother him.

I don't think so, after all, depression needs more love, understanding and companionship from others. At this time, you need him very much, and it is also a test of your feelings, depression is okay, you don't need to be separated from him.

Hello! If you can be sure that you really have severe depression. Then it is really recommended that you break up with your boyfriend, because your later relationship will become more and more difficult, and it may eventually lead to your depression worsening.

Hello friend, depression can be cured, as long as you go to the regular hospital psychology department to receive a regular **, this disease is actually very scary, because there are suicidal thoughts, at this time it depends on what your boyfriend thinks, if he can accept it, then there is no need to break up.

Girl, if you are really depressed and the situation is more serious, I advise you to put your mood and feelings first. Be sure to make yourself happy first. Then you will have the energy to love others.

If you feel that you are hurting him by being with him, then this guilt will hurt you.

If you have depression and the symptoms are not relieved, you can communicate with your boyfriend at this time, if your boyfriend is considering breaking up, so that they will not hurt each other.

If your boyfriend is the cause of your fault, then you should take the initiative to break up with your boyfriend.

Only when you leave this man, then your life will become happier.

So first of all, you have to think about what the real reason is, and then make a decision so that you don't regret it.

I think you shouldn't break up at this time, you should let your boyfriend accompany you well, and you need this kind of companionship the most at this time.

I think if you feel that you don't like your boyfriend now, you can definitely break up with your boyfriend, and if you feel that you are going to hurt your boyfriend, then you can break up with your boyfriend directly.

I don't think so, because breaking up with your boyfriend could make your condition worse.