How do you want others to treat you, and how do you want people around you to treat you?

Do unto others as you would like them to be treated. So at no time should we complain about others, but reflect on ourselves. Then change your words and actions from the inside out.

Interpersonal relationship. It is a kind of social relationship established by people in the process of production or life activities.

This kind of relationship will have an impact on people's psychology and will form a certain sense of distance in people's psychology.

It is the direct psychological relationship or distance that people have in their interactions, and it reflects the psychological state of an individual seeking to meet his or her social needs.

Sociology defines interpersonal relationship as a kind of social relationship established by people in the process of production or life activities. Psychology defines interpersonal relationships as direct psychological connections that people make in their interactions.

Chinese often refers to the general term of interpersonal relationships, also known as "interpersonal communication", including kinship.

Friendship, student-student relationship, teacher-student relationship, employment relationship.

Comrade-in-arms, colleague and leader and led, etc.

Human beings are social animals, each individual has its own unique thoughts, background, attitudes, personality, behavior patterns and values, but interpersonal relationships have a great impact on everyone's mood, life and work, and even have a great impact on the organizational atmosphere, organizational communication, organizational operation, organizational efficiency and the relationship between individuals and organizations.

1.Introduce yourself.

Introduce yourself in a concise, appropriate and creative way. No matter what kind of social situation you are in, the first lesson you want to expand your relationships is to learn to introduce yourself. Try to win by surprise. Let the other person remember you firmly, and remember the positive image.

2.Delightful style.

Develop a cheerful, lively personality and make the other person feel that it is a pleasure to be with you.

3.Humorous and funny.

Cultivate humorous words and deeds, humorous without losing proportion, funny without being frivolous, and giving people the enjoyment of beauty. Be humble in your dealings with others, be kind and respectful, otherwise things will backfire.

4.Look for topics.

Why do we often miss out on so many opportunities to make connections? It's because we often use those ** periods to rack our brains, but we still can't squeeze out a suitable opening sentence. Whether it's active or passive, you can open the conversation box handy.

Once you can reach this state, no matter where you are left behind, you will be able to quickly enter the situation, expand your popularity as you like, and create one excellent development opportunity after another for yourself in life and career.

5.Remember others.

Remember someone's first name or last name, take the initiative to greet people, and address them appropriately so that others feel polite and valued, giving people the impression of being approachable.

6.Calm.

No matter what kind of argument there is, you must be calm and not complain, so that not only will you be happy and self-contained, but others will also be happy.

7.Perfect yourself.

Build yourself into a useful person, someone who has a beneficial influence on others.

Hello! First of all, I want him or her to love himself, treat himself sincerely, even if he doesn't like it, show it with sincerity, and don't go against his own wishes, like is like, and if he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it.

In this way, we can all face it calmly, and no one will fail anyone in this life.

If there is fate, we will see you again in the next life.

I want others to treat me with optimism, to improve my personal thinking, to make myself better.

Of course, you hope that others will be good to you, and others are good to you, not what you hope to be good, but what you strive for.

When people get along, they want to respect each other, speak calmly, and treat each other sincerely.

I hope that what the people around you will do to you will do to others first.

If you want others to understand you, you must first understand others; If you want others to pay attention to you, you should care about others first; If you want others to defend you, you should help others first; If you want others to respect you, you should value others first; If you want others to forgive you, you should tolerate others first; If you want others to appreciate you, you must first learn to be a human being.

Feelings are always mutual, and mutual goodness is like a boiling point, which can be earth-shattering and passionate; The mutual cold is like a freezing point, but the sky is cold, freezing three feet.

Summary: Whether it is relatives, friends, or lovers, a truth can be exchanged for a heart; A sincerity can be exchanged for a love; A cherishment can be exchanged for an eternity! People help others, the heart depends on the heart, friends can keep, in order to be in the same boat through thick and thin. Warmth, heart-to-heart, feelings can be had, in order to last forever!

I want the people around me to do what I say, they want me to be happy when I'm angry, they want to be happy with me when I'm happy, they want to buy me food when I'm hungry, they want to buy me water when I'm thirsty, that's what I say, I want the people around me to do the same to me.

I hope the people around me can be kind to me. Because I am a timid person, I will feel that I have done something wrong if others are a little harsh, so I hope that the people around me can be kind to me, so that I have more confidence to face the unknown world and unknown things. Give yourself some confidence, do what needs to be done, and do these things well.

I hope that the people around me will be straightforward with me, don't have anything to hide, say anything, we can all solve it, I will correct any problems I have, and you also need to correct them, only in this way can I make real friends and become real brothers.

There are no other requirements for the people around you, you have to treat me well, don't deceive me, hide it, I'm the most annoying person to lie to me, if others lie to me, then we really may not have a chance to be friends, because you triggered my bottom line, I will not choose such a person to be my friend.

I think I hope that the people around me are very good to me, they can understand your difficulties very well, then they can get along with you very well, very happy, there will not be a lot of estrangement between you, and you will not feel very tired of getting along with each other.

I hope that the people around me are very me, and I can point out any shortcomings to me, so that I can improve myself, make myself better, and become an excellent person, and I also hope that the people around me have some inner troubles for me.

Gentle and loving, to be peaceful with me, to make friends with me on an equal footing, and to care for each other, so that I can really fit in with the surroundings, can help each other in times of crisis, support each other, and can rest assured to give each other back.

I want people around me to be genuine, and I want to be honest with them. It is very difficult to get true friendship in this society, and the real premise is to have sincere fellowship, and if you meet it, I think it is worth cherishing for a lifetime.

Sometimes I feel that I am very easy-going, I don't care about things, so I don't get taken seriously, and it has something to do with my personality.

A picky eater, his family will always notice his habits in the diet, and he is not cared about and valued at will.

Because I also have to be a person with personality so many times, if I like it, I like it, I don't like it, I don't like it, and I don't need to think about my inner feelings for anyone.

If people are more easy-going, it will become a habit, but if they are not easy-going once or twice, they will be considered ignorant.

But people who have been ignoring other people's feelings and doing their own thing, everyone is tolerated and understood, so it's still a bit unfair.

Yueyue told me that she couldn't figure out why some people were so stingy, and took others as intentional and didn't know how to forgive her Unintentionally broke a small collection at the same table, and as a result, she was reprimanded, and it was regarded as a story, and told me about the scene of the incident, she was also surprised, if the classmate forgave him, it would make her feel more guilty, but the classmate went crazy and scolded him, she must be something that people like, and it is normal to be so angry, so she can only bear to be scolded, Then she nodded and apologized, and then she felt that if it was me, I would also forgive his classmates, although she would also be sad because she was going to what she liked, but she would understand that people are not gods, and there are times when she is not careful, she will not scold others, but when the same thing happens to another person, she will have a different attitude.

I think I'm just a person like Yueyue, who thinks of people as kind and friendly without heart and lungs, and never leaves the slightest thought to think about people.

But we have become inseparable friends as if we were attracted by a magnet, which is called gathering like and people by group, right?

What kind of attitude you have to treat friends, what kind of friends you will gain, when you respect others, be trustworthy, easy-going, and friendly. The people around you will also use the same method to give back to you, provided that you first give your sincerity, pay your sincerity, pay your actions, and treat others as you want them to treat you.

I have always envied the company of friends when others go in and out, there are friends to celebrate on birthdays, and when I encounter difficulties, there will be many friends who volunteer to help.

I've always wanted to have a few true friends, but I've never done anything for it, just waiting silently in the same place, thinking that there will always be someone who will discover their strengths, appreciate themselves, and take the initiative to care about themselves and become their friends.

I never understand why I don't have any true friends. It was only now that I realized that I had always cared only about myself, and what I cared about was my own business, and I had never taken the initiative to care about others, nor did I have the slightest interest in other people's affairs.

I want to be accompanied by others, but I have no interest in the suggestions made by others; I want to receive birthday wishes from others, but I never remember what their birthday is; I want to have friends to help me when I encounter difficulties, but I don't want to give my time and sincerity to maintain a friendship.

I don't understand the truth that "if you want others to give it to you, you have to give it to others first", and in the end you can only take care of yourself.

If you show an attitude of indifference and disinterest to others, they will not be interested in your affairs, and naturally they will not pay much attention.

You have to do unto others as you would like them to be treated.

So, by taking the initiative to care about others, showing genuine interest in their affairs, and appreciating the good in them from the bottom of our hearts, it will be easier for us to make friends.

Almost everyone we meet, feels like they're good at something. And those aspects, we can sincerely appreciate.

Agree with them, recognize the value of their leaders, let them gain a sense of self-respect, and they will reciprocate our sincerity and care.

Our appreciation should come from the heart, not from insincere flattery. No one wants to be recognized and praised by others who are not worthless.

No one wants others to show false praise for themselves, only sincerity, this power of appreciation from the heart, can make others feel your sincerity, and also make others feel his importance.

If we want others to value ourselves and care about ourselves, we must first learn to value others, care for others, and make others feel important.

It's not a difficult thing to do, a person's actions are more expressive than his words, and a smile from the heart is always welcome.

For someone who is still a stranger, a heartfelt smile, sincere compliments, remembering the other person's name and what they care about, being a good listener, and encouraging others to talk more about what they are interested in will be a good start.

In the process of getting along with others, we should not forget to encourage and praise others, whether it is family, friends, partners, or people who are not familiar with each other, talk about topics that interest them, appreciate their strengths, recognize their value, and make them feel important, so that we will encounter fewer conflicts and will be more popular with others.

Do unto others as you would like them to be treated. Give others kindness and respect, and others will return your kindness and respect. If you want others to care about you, you must first learn to care and not judge others.

Throughout our lives, we seek the approval of others as a way to demonstrate our self-worth. Don't tell me you don't care what other people think, I don't believe unless you're a saint.

While we pursue the continuous recognition of others, we must do the following things:

If you want to realize your self-worth, you must first live yourself well. Establish your own goals in life and be full of vision for the future. Focus on solving your own problems, and the future will be promising!

At work, to be a "delicate" person, go all out to work at the same time, we must be good at dealing with various relationships in the workplace, respond to various contradictions, and make the best use of things and talents.

With unconditional love, respect and acceptance of your family. For partners, replace blame with respect and control with acceptance; For children, it is to live themselves well first and strive to be a role model for them.

At the beginning of human beings, nature is good, and being kind to others is to give full play to the nature of hungry human beings. Be kind to people who don't like you, who you don't like. Because they are a mirror of you, helping you to understand your imperfections, so as to examine yourself and achieve self-breakthrough again and again.

Only when a person understands his own life can he understand how to get along with others.

To reconcile a person with oneself is to reconcile with the whole world.

Only when a person has the courage to accept his own imperfections can he accept the imperfections of others.

How you want others to see you is to treat them the way they want them to be carried by them.