Can anyone help me with the relationship between work and character

Your personality is more introverted, but it doesn't matter, my job is not as good as yours, I work in a shopping mall. I've heard a lot of colleagues tell me that when they first started, some of them couldn't even say the simple word "welcome", and even customers who wanted to buy something didn't buy it when she said it. I also thought about this situation before I got employed (my personality is not particularly lively), but in fact, I didn't encounter such a situation after class, why?

I'm here to give you some of my thoughts! You just said that you are very introverted, and I personally think that it is a mistake for you to think that way. A positioning error.

I think that how I position myself will play an important role in my future development! In my first job, I positioned myself as an inexperienced newcomer. It turned out to be a failure!

After only two days, I couldn't do it anymore. The second time I went to look for a job, I directly said that I had worked in such and such a unit for a month! When the people next to me no longer looked at me with questioning eyes, I also found that there are actually many things I can do, and the potential of people is really unlimited, as long as you are willing to develop it.

You have to refuse to position yourself as a particularly introverted person from now on, and if you do it again, you will go in that direction in the future! Tell yourself that although my personality is not particularly lively, there is nothing wrong with being introverted, as long as it is not a cowardly and withdrawn character! Work hard to do a good job, even if you can't integrate the body as soon as possible, remember to always maintain self-confidence and sincerity, these two points can already create a little personality charm!

What's the big deal about sweeping the floor for a day, people and people have different adaptability, I can't adapt to it quickly and slowly adapt, and the stupid bird flies first. I will use two years to do what others can do well in one year, anyway, as long as my pace does not stop, I can surpass others sooner or later! Don't be nervous, once you are nervous, it will be bad.

Remember to take it easy. You don't have to think about what you're suitable for, if people think about it like that, I'm afraid that the number of people sweeping the streets will increase greatly. Doing things is not about what I adapt to, but about how I adapt.

First, close your eyes and imagine yourself in a dark environment (representing your current environment, the predicament you are facing) with a faint sun above your head that is not very bright (representing your will), and then imagine that the sun above you is starting to glow, at first a faint and inconspicuous light. And then slowly, slowly, the light begins to become stronger, until the light pierces your entire body, until your entire body is shining (representing metamorphosis), which is a psychological suggestion in psychology**. Doing it often when you are quiet will have a great effect on people's psychology.

You can also throw away all your previous perceptions of yourself, imagine that your temperament and everything has changed from the inside out, or you can imagine yourself as an image of a character you usually admire. This is not self-deception, but the power of example.

It is impossible to find a job that suits you, you have to adapt to the job yourself.

At the age of 18, I analyzed myself so thoroughly, I admire that you have superhuman qualities in psychological and personality analysis, and it is recommended that you work as a psychoanalyst and counselor.

Seemingly perfect is actually a contradiction, and being a philosopher or a lawyer is trying to show or mock anyone.18 If you can analyze yourself so thoroughly, why can't you analyze what you are suitable for?