Is it reasonable for the husband to do housework and the wife to struggle?

I don't think it's reasonable, although it is said that men and women are equal, but everyone knows in their hearts, can men and women really be equal? At least not in China now, your situation is likely to have problems after a long time, and even if you are fine, other people's eyes and gossip are unbearable for a man, I don't understand why your husband doesn't look for a job, no matter how much money you have, at least you can't rely on your wife to support you, right? Most of today's families are husband and wife who both go out to work to make money, how can one of them stay at home every day, even if it is a housewife, it is a bit unreasonable, let alone a man.

For the family, as long as the husband and wife are affectionate, there will be no reasonable and unreasonable arguments. The Chinese tradition is that the husband supports the family, and the reason why there are housewives stems from this. China's social transformation, so that many workers laid off unemployed, created so many "housewives and men", this is not his original intention, is the disadvantages of social change, ** will be considered as a whole, your husband will not be unemployed at home for a long time, through two-way efforts, will definitely find a suitable job.

I hope you don't have prejudice against your husband, but persuade him to find employment channels as soon as possible.

If you're always a small business and one person doesn't have enough salary, that's not reasonable. If people reach middle age, they will develop into a big career, and later there will always be one party to sacrifice, for example, one party often travels, and the other party can only do the most punctual work in and out of work, otherwise both will work separately for careers, and the child's grades will be very poor.

Reasonable, in modern society, husband and wife have a different division of labor between husband and wife, and it has nothing to do with gender, so we husband and wife don't think it's inappropriate.

It can't be said to be unreasonable! ~·

The reason why women go to work to be strong women is that they are not right now, after all, it is a patriarchal society.

Letting a woman support a family and a man being a housewife at home only shows that the man's education is poor! ~~

He could have worked hard at home to study! ~

Increase your knowledge! ~~

I'm going to raise her then.

Plausible. I'm also sitting at home now, but I'm not free when I spend money, and I don't feel good.

How unreasonable, only the authorities know, as long as one of the families will make money.

Personally, I think it will, the housework is shared by both parties.

After getting married, both men and women will face a major problem, household chores. Each side does more and less, and it feels unbalanced. The housework of the family formed by two people should be shared by two people and should be reasonably distributed, so how to divide the housework between men and women is the most reasonable?

First, the two sides can decide the division of housework through communication, some rough work in life, tiring work, can be done by boys, some fine work, can be done by girls, and can also be free to choose between men and women, choose what they like and are good at in that aspect of housework, two people touch the code and distribute it equally, one person and a half.

Second, both men and women can do housework together, when one person is busy, the other laughing rock should never do it, over time, it will make the person doing housework have an unbalanced psychology, and it will not be conducive to the family and Zaoyan in the long run. Let's do it together and make our little home clean, which will make the relationship between the two people better and better.

The third and most important point is that boys should never think that housework is what girls should do, the essence of married life is tolerance and understanding, you can take the initiative to take on housework when your other half feels very tired, not only will make the other half feel very happy, she will be better and better for you.

Scientific studies have shown that the man's initiative to do housework will improve the wife's happiness a lot. For the sake of the happiness of their wives and the harmony of their families, it is recommended that boys do as much housework as possible.

While raising the family, men should divide the household chores equally. If only one party is doing the housework, then it must be tiring. When a man joins in the housework, he will also make the family happy.

First of all, because it is different from the past, it is not only men who are making money to support the family, but also the vast majority of families, and women are the same, and they are also sharing the responsibility and obligation of making money to support the family, so we should not blindly think that housework is a woman's business on this issue, and as a man, we should also help their wives and lovers share the housework.

Secondly, if in daily life, many men think that their income is relatively high, and they work hard outside, so they push the housework to their wives, then it is obviously unfair, and an important premise for the relationship between husband and wife to be well maintained is to understand each other, tolerate each other and understand each other, and the equal division of housework is an important means and premise to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, both men and women have the responsibility and obligation to share the burden of the family, Making money to support the family is not only a man's business, but also a woman's business, and doing housework is not only a woman's patent, but also a man's participation in the common order, so that each other's hearts can be balanced, and the relationship between husband and wife can be promoted.

On the other hand, even if a man's salary and income are relatively high, this should not be an excuse and reason for a man to avoid housework, even if his wife works to make less money, but he is also working hard for the family, so as a man should be more considerate of his wife, of course, the distribution of housework should not be too calculating, in line with the principle of more work for those who can do more, who has the time and energy to do more, However, the other party must not completely dump the housework on his wife because his wife usually does more housework, which is obviously irresponsible, and will also affect the behavior and attitude of the husband and wife's feelings, and they must change.

Therefore, men should divide the housework equally, so that the family will be happy.

1. Both husband and wife need to do housework.

As a husband and wife, after entering the marriage, they should understand that all housework needs to be shared by two people, not the responsibility of one person, and only by doing housework together can two people cultivate each other's feelings.

If a husband and wife both ask one person to take on all the housework in their lives, it will not only put a lot of pressure on each other, but also hurt each other's feelings, and one result of this is that the marriage of two people cannot be happy, which is a situation of filial piety that needs to be avoided.

Therefore, both husbands and wives should do housework, and they must do what they can to make the relationship between each other better, and the relationship between the two people can be deeper, and finally there can be a good result.

2. Who is idle between husband and wife and who does housework.

In real life, there is such a phenomenon in Bi Tang's manuscript, the wife is very tired after work, but at this time, the husband does not help his wife to share the housework, not only does not help his wife cook and do housework, but arranges his wife to do a lot of things, which is very disadvantageous.

This behavior of the husband will make the wife chill, and it will also make the wife doubt each other's feelings, and finally make the marriage of the two people unable to have a good result.

Husbands and wives should learn to share the pressure for each other in life, if they find that their lover is very tired, at this time they should not let each other do housework, but should do housework by themselves, so that the relationship between the two people can be deeper, and each other can always be in love.

In fact, my husband and I have never discussed how to divide the housework and who should bear how much, such a question, I think it is quite strange when I think about it. The two of us do the housework and silently follow about a few rules:

1. Do what you can do easily. For example, when you see that the stove is dirty, you wipe it off, you won't deliberately interrupt what the other party is doing, and you will call him over and give him a lecture, why don't you wipe it, balabala. What can be erased in one minute, never waste five minutes arguing.

2. Pay more attention to whether the other party is comfortable, rather than objectively right or wrong. Once, I had menstrual cramps for a whole week, and I didn't do any housework, so he did it all silently and wiped the toilet properly. If he is the kind of person who admits death, and pulls me when I am tired and uncomfortable, and asks me to share my half, I will be very sad.

Occasionally, when he is too busy at work and forgets what to do, I will help him finish it, because accident is not the norm, and I know that he doesn't mean it, so I won't make it difficult for him.

3. Segmentation in a broad sense. If housework can be perfectly divided, then why not work half and have children in half? Contribution to the family is not limited to housework, so I personally think that either all the projects are divided in half, or I think about how to maximize the contribution to the family and do what I can.

4. Provide convenience when the other party is doing housework. It's not like I'm pretending, I have three different vacuum cleaners. He wouldn't feel that sucking the ground was solved anyway, so he was particularly suspicious and ate melon seeds on the carpet.

5. If both parties are lazy in stages, then ask a cleaner, so that although it costs a little money, it can indeed avoid family conflicts.

You don't even have to think about this kind of thing, doing wild housework is everyone's family obligation, if you don't do it, how can you do it, can you make five million a month or do you have a mountain of gold in your mother's family, think about yourself as an ordinary person who can't be an ordinary person, that's all. What right do you have not to do housework?

It is also necessary to do it together, so that the relationship between husband and wife can be enhanced, and mutual help and mutual understanding can be achieved.

This housework can be done by negotiating a good division of work, but if one party has more work, the other party should also share more.

While a man is raising a family, he should still share some household chores when he has free time or when he is at home.

Often some people may think that men often work outside for a day, and at the same time the pressure is stupid and very big, and when they get home, they should be good to disturb and relax, basically some people don't know how to do housework when they go home, but in fact, they often ignore that housework is not a single person's business, but should be handled by everyone. In fact, housework and food do not see any workload, but it is real, including cleaning and tidying up the house, as well as the cleaning of foreign objects, etc., the most troublesome, such as the kitchen, sorry for the work, this is actually quite tiring, and often can't see any results, it seems to be a very ordinary, accustomed thing. Some men may even be a little machismo, thinking that after a hard day of working outside, I should not do it myself but have a wife to do it.

But they often ignore housework, housework is actually housework, that is, it should be the whole family, so both parties should share some of it, and they should share more than 50% of it, and they will have a harmonious home. Otherwise, if the wife also comes home from working outside the home, and expects someone to help them run the house well, and also wants to rest and relax, then there will be some disputes in the housework and affect the life of the family.

And even if some full-time mothers are at home, they actually have to take care of their children at home, if they let them do all the housework all day, because there is no spare time when they take care of the children, they have to keep an eye on the children, every move, so if they do housework again, the final choice is more tired, and at the same time, the man can take the initiative to increase some housework while raising the family, it will also make the wife feel more warm, and it can also reflect the warmth of the home.

Therefore, while raising a family, men should still take the initiative to share some housework, especially some heavy physical work, such as mopping the floor and cleaning up the kitchen, etc., all of which need men to help.