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Everyone is selfish for their own selfish desires.
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I have always believed that the human heart is not all cold.
The vast majority of human beings in the world are full of good intentions, just as "there are always more good people than bad people", and "justice will be late but not absent"."Light will triumph over darkness". In the awakening era, Mr. Gu Hongming used the word "gentle" to describe the Chinese, and the Chinese are gentle in their bones and are a powerful force that unites the Chinese nation. This kind of personality leads people's hearts to goodness and beauty, everyone contributes a force, irrigates a drop of water, so the land of China stretches along the land, enjoys the spring breeze, and blooms the flowers of the wild peoples all over the mountains.
From it, we saw that when the epidemic swept the land of China, thousands of compatriots took the initiative to ask for help, went upstream, held the banquet to defend the country, and sacrificed the small self to achieve the big self"The demeanor reflects the warmth of the human heart, because I can't bear the helplessness and suffering of my compatriots, so thousands of me have stood up. When Zhengzhou was hit by heavy rains and floods, the whole country was united, and we saw that the ** spontaneous donations of materials released by various platforms on Weibo and Douyin, there were truckloads of vegetables freshly harvested by farmers from the fields, a large number of fruits picked in the orchards, and the most important thing is the sincere concern of the people in other towns for the people in the disaster area. Among them, the old domestic brand Hongxing Erke, which surprised us the most and therefore "became famous", donated 50 million yuan to aid Zhengzhou in one fell swoop.
I will always be moved by the kindness of people's hearts.
Of course, not really, in the sensational Tangshan incident that shook the whole network, we abused, saddened the indifference of the bystanders, produced disappointment, and even shamelessness, we were too eager for everyone to have a good death, and when a little contrary to the incident occurred, our feelings would be magnified and doubled. But I still want to say that when the vast majority of an event is a good direction, please be firm and believe that people's hearts will not be indifferent, kindness will always be more than indifference, and we should also be warm people!
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Sometimes, your casual words warm my whole heart.
- I don't think people's hearts are really indifferent
Is the human heart really cold? Maybe we always have this kind of doubtAs we get older, we experience more and more things, and maybe the coincidence of some things will always make our hearts chill and feel unpredictable, but to believe,There are still a lot of good people in this world。There are certainly people who are indifferent, butMost people are still kind at heart, and there will always be someone to help you when you need it, even if it's a stranger.
When we meet an elderly person on the bus, we will give up our seats, and if someone walks and drops something, we will kindly remind them, aren't these all manifestations of kindness? No one is born indifferent, but it may have been hit or changed by bad encounters, I have to admit that people will become, but I believe that people are good in their hearts, and no matter how bad they are, they will have a good side, at least once they were.
<> growing up, we have been helped by many people and helped many people, even strangersWe'll still be willing to help. People's hearts are not indifferent, and those good people and good deeds that move China existHow many people go to the Hope Primary School every year to help the children in the mountains get out of the mountains, how many people work hard to become volunteers every year, and there are medical workers who take care of us, these are all manifestations of people's kindness.
On the other hand, at present, there are also many criminals who are doing shady things, such as child abduction, drug trafficking, robbery, etc., these examples are also common in our daily lifeWith the improvement of China's laws, I believe that our country will be more stable for a long time, and the people's lives will be happier.
<>We can't ask others to do anything, but we can ask ourselves to do somethingWe can't prevent bad things from happening, but we can regret them to increase the occurrence of good things, and when we meet people in need, we can lend a helping hand to help them tide over the difficulties within our ability, which is not a manifestation of the warmth of people's hearts。This kind of thing is all relativeGood people are always rewarded, and there are people who help us when we need help.
The human heart is warm and kind, not all of them are indifferentAlways believe that there are still many good people and bad people in this worldWe can't stand on the moral and legal high ground to punish those who are not good, but we can do a little bit of good in our daily lives
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The human heart is up, the human nature is down, and you should never test the human nature. That's the case in today's societyLack of temperature has long been the norm, people's indifference is a fact。But what are the factors that make people apathetic and disillusioned in today's society?
Today, as a college student, I am the reason why people are so indifferent in today's society.
At the beginning of man, nature is evil. - Xunzi Sexual Evil".
1. Indifference is human nature
The famous psychologist Sigmund Freud once said that human personality is mainly divided into three parts, namely id, ego, and superego, and the most basic ego is the most truly exposed human nature, which refers to human nature composed of innate instincts, desires, basic physiological needs, etc.
The most basic reaction of the combustion energy of this world is the true portrayal of the self. When people encounter problems, the most subconscious reaction is self, and then weigh the pros and cons in combination with reality to deal with it, so people's apathy is a biological function from a psychological level.
And in the current society, it is not uncommon for good deeds to be trampled on and good deeds to be framed, so people will always seek the protection of their inner instincts and face the society in realistic choices, so that they will become closed and indifferent.
Second, social change has exacerbated apathy
In this materialistic society, money comes first, and profit comes first. In the past, people may pay silently in order to do a good deed, and selflessly dedicate themselves in order to accumulate merit, and enthusiasm and warmth fill the whole society. But nowadays, people are chasing fame and fortune, the lack of empathy and the acceleration of the social rhythm, few people are willing to stop and lend a helping hand to help others.
Third, the lack of trust is the root cause of indifference
As the old saying goes: "You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to defend people." "Insincerity and dishonesty between people often lead to a lack of trust. If people lack the most basic trust, then no one will have a warm heart and a good heart.
At present, in society, helping the elderly is falsely accused, helping children who have fallen into the water is said to be hype, and helping people living on the street is said to be showing off their wealth. These events have made it impossible for people today to be enthusiastic, but they are treated like this for their good intentions, and I think that whoever they are will become an indifferent person who does not care about themselves.
I think that the indifference of people's hearts is not achieved in a day, and the embankment of thousands of miles collapses in the anthill. But I also believe that as long as each of us is a little kinder and warm-hearted, then this situation will definitely be alleviated in the near future!
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It is said that at the beginning of human beings, nature is good, but we will see a lot of chilling news on the news, or see the indifference of human nature. But I believe that most people are zealous at heart.
The ideal winter must have a heavy snowfall, a large white expanse, nothing to do with the cold, only a pure heart.
Winters in the south are naturally not too cold, but winters in red fruits can sometimes be extremely cold. I don't know if it's the change of seasons or the loneliness in my heart? People's hearts are really cold, how enthusiastic they are when they use you, how cold they are when they don't use you, the coolest is not people's hearts, and the most cheap is feelings.
People's hearts are really cold, how enthusiastic they are when they use you, how cold they are when they don't use you, Xingqing is the coolest but people's hearts, and the most cheap is feelings.
Whether you are depressed or not as good as others, you should learn to calm down and ask yourself what else you can do, instead of letting the bad emotions such as panic, disbelief, and unwillingness drain all your enthusiasm and concentration.
I don't think that people's mental maturity is becoming more and more tolerant and inclusive, and they can accept anything. I think it should be a gradual process of culling. Know what is most important to you. Know what is not important. Then, be a simple person.
<> people are not all indifferent. The people and things I have experienced have taught me that no matter what kind of era, no matter what kind of social environment, there are always evil people and good people around everyone. In this era, people who are indifferent and numb abound.
"Walking in the White Night" wrote, "There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart. ”
Mr. Lu Xun also once had such a sentence: ".I have always been unafraid to speculate on the Chinese with the worst malice. However, I didn't expect it, and I don't believe that it would be inferior to this point. ”
The group of people in Lu Xun's pen is really terrible, but they are really alive. It's hard to believe that in this era, there are still such malicious people around us, not one or two, but a group of people, not once, but again and again, pricking our nerves and challenging moral customs.
The tragedy has happened, and I hope it will not happen again in the future.
People who are in trouble, please don't be overwhelmed by grief, you have to understandThe relatives are painful, and the enemies are fast. No matter how hard it is, as long as you don't get knocked down by yourself, there will always be hope.
Also, no matter how sinister and cold the world is, there are always some people whose hearts are warm. After all, evil does not prevail over good. In the end, I hope that no matter how many roads you have traveled, your heart will still be soft and you will still believe in warmth.
People are only willing to help those who work hard, and despise those "beggars" who deliberately sell their wounds. So, when you are helpless, when you encounter difficulties, don't complain about the indifference of society to you, ask yourself if you have helped yourself and worked hard. Even you are not willing to work hard, why should you complain that others ignore your love.
God help those who help themselves, otherwise no one can help you, no matter how much you need help!
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the emergence of social apathy; It is a change caused by changes in socio-economic relations, and people's perception of the same thing will vary depending on their economic status. The lack of moral education will also produce the phenomenon of social indifference, which will make the masses of society have a weak sense of morality and be unable to adhere to the bottom line of morality, which will lead to the phenomenon of social indifference from the city. The disorder of social moral value orientation, the lack of social moral protection, and the negative influence of traditional moral culture are also manifestations of social indifference.
Elephant important original circle.
1) The impact of socio-economic and social structural development.
Since the beginning of reform and opening up, the social economy has developed at a relatively rapid pace, and social wealth is accumulating at an astonishing rate. When people rely on their own abilities and resources to obtain economic benefits, there are disparities between individuals in each society because of their abilities and the resources they have learned. Since people only limit their sights to their own exclusive interests, this has led people to develop a relatively narrow and closed view of interests.
When people see other weaker former individuals or groups suffering difficulties or troubles, the stronger part of the people is first concerned about their own interests, if not directly.
If the relationship of interests is concerned, it will be bypassed, which will form a phenomenon of indifference.
2) The psychological role of the public When an individual encounters a crisis in the society and receives help from others, but is framed as the perpetrator by the rescued, this will leave a bad influence on other members of the society, and the psychology of the public will think that good people are not rewarded, so they will not.
Consciously reject helping others.
3) Lack of Moral Education The lack of moral education is another important reason for the phenomenon of social apathy, and all kinds of educational institutions pay more attention to the cultivation of professional qualities and ignore the cultivation and education of morality.
and socially desired behavior.
IV. The Influence of Traditional Concepts of Thinking Ancient precepts or proverbs, such as "nothing to do with oneself and hang high on one's own," and "it is better to do one thing than one thing less," are the traditional philosophies of the Chinese. Under the influence of this philosophy of life, people do not care about the suffering of others, but only seek self-preservation, whether it is rescue under normal circumstances, or when danger comes and requires a certain amount of alcohol, they are difficult to stand up, but only to disappear.
Look, wait, or avoid. These relatively backward traditional ideologies contribute to social apathy.
5) Educational attainment, practical factors and institutional factors.
The reason for the phenomenon of social apathy is that the education level of the public, the practical factors and the mechanism of the people are revered, the education level of the people is the code of conduct of the people, the reality of the coupons will directly affect whether people will interfere with the social phenomenon, and the market mechanism factor is that people are loyal to the society after their behavior, and the social infiltration will be public.
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