Why does Yingda hate Song Dandan? Why did Yingda count Song Dandan?

Song Dandan and Yingda, this piece of grievances and grievances that are not sorted out and messy, has been concerned by everyone, the two are world friends, Yingda's father Ying Ruocheng is a famous translator who graduated from the Department of Foreign Affairs of Tsinghua University, served as the vice minister of culture, his grandfather was the president of Shanghai Jiao Tong University, his mother's translation level is very high, and he is also involved in performance and literature and art, Song Dandan's father is the secretary of the Beijing Federation of Literary and Art Circles, because both parents are in the cultural circle, so the two of them met very early.

Song Dandan failed in the college entrance examination, went to apply for Beijing Renyi, became a student of the performance training class, graduated in 1984, and won the Beijing ** Commendation Outstanding Actor Award in one fell swoop with Lingzhi in "Red and White Weddings". 89 was a turning point in Song Dandan's life, when the Spring Festival Gala team pulled her to play "Blind Date for a Lazy Man", she was very reluctant at that time, saying that she was obviously an elegant artist, how could she play a hypocritical role. How can I have the face to return to the theater in the future.

As a result, she became popular all over China with the sentence "My name is Wei Shufen, female, 29 years old, unmarried".

In 1987, Yingda and Song Dandan both ended their first marriage and met again during the rehearsal of the drama "Arsonist". During the rehearsal, Song Dandan asked Yingda, I forgot to bring a water cup, can I use yours, I'm not sick, Yingda said, of course I can, but I'm sick. In this way, Song Dandan was amused, and discovered the advantages of Yingda's humor and witty, Yingda also discovered Song Dandan's beautiful and hearty personality and appearance, the love between the two began to sprout, in 89, the two got married, two years later, Batu was born, Yingda is not good at housework, and the burden of housework is pressed on Song Dandan.

The toilet at home was broken, and the decoration and son's education were all borne by Song Dandan alone. also has to take care of her career, and the performance fee has risen from 1,000 to 5,000, becoming the queen of sketches.

Why does Yingda hate Song Dandan? Because the two of them were husband and wife and had a child together, and Yingda abandoned Song Dandan, Ningda wanted to see the child and his grandson, but now Song Dandan didn't let him, so he hated Song Dandan.

Song Dandan. After the divorce, I wrote a book, very frankly talked about the life after marriage, after getting married, the two of them got together less and left more because of work, plus they had to take care of the children, Song Dandan felt very tired, and life was also very empty, under the pressure of this loneliness over time, she actually made a mistake first, and had a relationship with another man in marriage, but she understood very well that once this kind of thing happened, even if she returned to the family, it would be a harm to everyone, so she made a mistake on the third day to Yingda.

There was a showdown. On the one hand, they admired Song Dandan's courage, but on the other hand, they also felt that they were too honest, because because of her frankness, Yingda completely angered Yingda, because Yingda's family concept is still relatively traditional, he can tolerate Song Dandan's betrayal, but he can't bear Song Dandan's family affairs, which is an insult for a man like him, so after the divorce, Yingda angrily accused Song Dandan in front of ** for the first time.

Perhaps because of this incident, Song Dandan and Yingda did not give in to each other and complained to each other.

Yingda's approach is actually very unkind, and if you get divorced, you have to count your ex-wife. And Yingda is partial to the younger son for the two children. It can only be said that after the divorce, it is better to leave some dignity for each other.

Yingda's approach is actually very inauthentic, after all, he has divorced Song Dandan, and Song Dandan has never said that he is not, but Yingda still thinks that Song Dandan is not good at educating his son, and blindly accuses Song Dandan of not being good at educating children.

You must know that the two of them are already divorced, if you don't want to talk about each other, you can completely avoid this issue, instead of going up to Qi's accusation of your ex-wife, which also shows that Yingda's mind is not so broad-minded.

Since Yingda had her youngest son Yingrudi, she didn't care much about her eldest son Batu, and even when she asked Yingda if she was willing to use her own resources to help her eldest son, Yingda chose to refuse any questions about her eldest son Batu.

Even when Batu didn't have any works, Yingda was still saying that it was the result of Song Dandan's failure in education, it can be said that Yingda gave his eldest son Batu very little paternal love, and Yingda even felt that Song Dandan didn't give him the opportunity to care for Batu, which was really a bit too partial.

No matter what reason the two divorced at the beginning, since they are divorced, leave some dignity for each other, after all, they have loved each other at the beginning, especially those couples who have children, they should look at the face of the children and leave some dignity for each other.

After all, divorce between husband and wife, the child is very innocent, really don't involve the contradiction between the two adults to the child, which is very detrimental to the child's growth, and may even affect the child's life.

Yingda's accusation of Song Dandan's poor education actually shows that Yingda is not generous and kind enough, and Yingda's call for his own behavior is a bit biased towards the younger son, so after the divorce of the husband and wife, they should still leave each other some decency, so as to at least reduce the harm to the child.