Chased a man for 5 months What to do if he ignores him

So now try to treat him coldly. Didn't you say, don't answer, don't reply to messages, then now**don't fight, don't send messages, and how you usually get along with your friends, you don't care about anything, of course, he really has feelings for you, and he will show it.

Don't tie a man too tightly, they don't like to be tied up, you chase too hard, but become a problem for him, he will run away from you because of it! Relax and let him buffer, be friends first, and when he feels something, he will say it to you!

I'm sorry, but it may really be you.

He crossed you.

I don't know how you chased it...

It takes a lot of skill to do this...

He doesn't answer your ** and doesn't reply to your messages, on the surface, he doesn't want to face you now, as for the deep one, he can't know it, Zifei knows the joy of fish, if you are convinced that he likes you, then stick to it. If you feel too tired, give yourself a break.

Forehead forehead,,, he seems to really have no feelings for you,,, let it go,,Men are not like women,Will fall in love with someone because they are moved,,What they want is feeling,,You can't give him the kind of feeling he wants,,After all, there is no way。

Disappear into his world for a while, and don't contact him ... Wait until he's looking for you everywhere.

<> it may also be that someone has been chasing you for more than a month, and you have not shown any response to him, and the other party thinks that you are not interested in him, so you give up, if you have a good impression of him, then give him some signals and let him know your heart.

A boy who has been chatting with you for more than a month, suddenly ignores you, you want to contact him, maybe because you are used to its existence, or you really find that you like him, before contacting him, ask yourself whether you like him or not, don't contact people and find that they don't like him, then there is no need to provoke others.

If you really like him, why don't you take the initiative, in this way, he knows your mind, and will naturally pay attention to you again, and be more enthusiastic than before.

You may ignore him, he feels that it is more difficult to chase you, and he may have the idea of giving up chasing you!

Some women will ask, "Why do some men chase after themselves and stop chasing them for a month or two?" There is no sincerity at all. ”

But women don't think like this, they think that men's thinking is a kind of "scumbag" thinking, they feel that in the past two months, you haven't performed, you haven't pursued yourself well, you haven't seen your love, why do they just agree to it casually?

I saw a woman complaining like this on the Internet, Ms. Li is 31 years old, and she has successfully stepped into the ranks of "older leftover women". A few months ago, a friend introduced her to a blind date, and after the two met, they both felt okay, so the man began to pursue it.

The man checks in every day for good morning and good night, chats with her on various topics, and makes an appointment to eat and watch movies on weekends. Ms. Li felt that this was very annoying, there was no meaning, for men's chats, she could go back if she wanted to, and for dating, it also depends on the mood, so if you are bored, go for it.

Later, more than a month later, the man suddenly disappeared, and at this time Ms. Li was a little lost, but in the face of it, she still did not take the initiative to contact the man. After a few days, the man reappeared, still contacting her every day as before, all kinds of flattery.

At this time, Ms. Li felt that this man was so hot and cold, he definitely didn't take himself to heart, so he still didn't pay much attention. As a result, a few days later, the man disappeared again, this time without a trace. Later, Ms. Li was very crazy, and scolded this man for being a scumbag, she didn't like herself at all, she didn't have any perseverance, and she gave up after only two months.

Some netizens commented below: "Why did he give up, didn't you count it in your own heart?" Who wants to be a spare tire? Who wants to waste their time with someone who doesn't value themselves? It's your own work. ”

The first time a man disappears, he should want to see if you will take the initiative, but you still can't, and you still look very powerful, do you really think you are a twenty-year-old girl? is 31 years old, and she deserves to be a leftover girl. ”

Some girls just like to do it, they just like to watch men pursue themselves, and they seem to have a sense of accomplishment, and they don't care what boys think in their hearts. Boys put in time and energy, but what they get is the lukewarmness of women, and in this case, a few people can persevere.

No one wants to be rejected after a long, long time of persisting on it.

There is a line in the movie "East Evil and West Poison": "I know that if you want to avoid being rejected, the best way is to reject others first." "No one is stupid, until the taste of rejection is uncomfortable, in that case, why not stop it early.

Those women who scold men for their insincerity, ask yourself, do you really like that man, or do you just want to get their good? So, don't rely on others to like you, you can do whatever you want, and don't be ashamed.

Men nowadays are starting to get smarter, and once they find that their pursuit is not being answered, they will give up, without exception.

Because everyone's financial pressure and work pressure are very high now, it is very good to be able to pursue two months, and two months have consumed a lot of energy and savings, so there is no point in continuing to get a love that is not reciprocated.

Maybe you're bored, and if you don't get a response for your unilateral efforts, you don't want to chase anymore, or you may feel that you don't have a good impression of him.

In fact, today's men are very unconfident, because the pressure is relatively high, and one item is more realistic, so many times they can't withstand the blow.