Can the relationship be as sweet as before when it gets back together after a breakup?

Updated on amusement 2024-07-12
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    After a breakup, the relationship can't be as sweet as before, and once you break up, there will be cracks, which will have a bad impact on each other, even if the problems that used to be repeated after the reunion.

    Many couples will be afraid of experiencing another breakup after breaking up, so they will be more careful with each other, but they don't know that such behavior will cause dissatisfaction with each other. The two people at the beginning were unscrupulous, but after getting back together, they will seem to be twisted and pinched, which will affect each other's feelings, and of course they will not get the same sweetness as before.

    Although the reluctance of two people to come together again after the breakup, as the time spent together increases, the original problems will be staged again, and they will explode to the original point, and at the same time, they will not compromise as before. After experiencing the choice of breaking up, you will be impatient in the face of such a problem again, and you will not get the original happiness, you will feel that the other party is unreasonable, and at the same time, you will not keep the other party, so you will go to the point of a complete breakup.

    After a breakup, they get back together many times in order to cherish each other's feelings more, and they will learn to compromise, but such behavior will cause dissatisfaction with the other party, after all, they have lost the feeling they once had. The relationship should be a relaxed atmosphere, but after reuniting, it will be relatively heavy, and it will not be as unscrupulous as it was at the beginning to enjoy love, which will increase each other's psychological burden and pressure.

    After breaking up, they will not have the sweetness of the original, and each other will be together with the purpose of going to the end, in fact, the psychological burden brought by this will increase the pressure of love, and they will not get a good result in the end. There will be no good outcome after the breakup, because everything has deteriorated at the beginning, and such a relationship will not be the result and happiness that each other really wants.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Definitely not, because since the breakup must have been contradictory, there will be pimples in the heart, even if they get back together, the pimples will not disappear, so it can't be the same as before.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This may not be true, because everyone has a different view and attitude towards love. Some people get back together and can stay the same, while others end up separating.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Redemption is never a return to the past. In the process of redemption, when you correct your own problems, when you magnify your advantages, when you transform into a new self, and then to redeem your ex, fall in love with the new you again. He may also start to think about himself because of the breakup, he may correct his small shortcomings, so he wants to renew the relationship with you, although you are based on the previous relationship, and after seeing the change in both parties, you are attracted again and reunited with each other.

    After a breakup, it is impossible to go back to the past. No matter how much two people loved each other before, when two people choose to break up, the relationship has already ended, and it is not a good ending.

    After the reunion, after a period of emotional warming and ambiguity, many lovers unknowingly fell into a cold period. This is especially true for men and women who have been separated for too long. After the separation, a lot of things happened to both people, and two or one of them gradually realized that the other person was no longer what he liked at the beginning.

    In fact, the closer two people are, as long as they are separated and reunited, even if they try their best to make up for it, they will still leave scars that they don't want to see, and they will also have some feelings of fear, afraid that the other party will leave them again or hurt them again. Maybe they don't think so on the surface, but deep down they will nourish themselves and will become more tired and less relaxed than before. After a class reunion, if the problem of two people breaking up before cannot be resolved, then this situation still exists between you.

    It may be good after reconciliation, but it is completely impossible to be like the original again, because this matter has become a wound in the hearts of two people. Even if everyone deliberately avoids mentioning it, no one will forget the difference. Therefore, when dealing with feelings, everyone will be cautious and will never be like at the beginning.

    As for whether two people will be sweet together, it will vary from person to person. The above is to get back together again after a breakup, will the relationship go back to the past?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, because two people have had the experience of breaking up before, so such an experience will become a scar in the love life of two people, and once the relationship has ups and downs, the scar will be revealed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    will not go back to the past, there has been a quarrel and misunderstanding between the two people, and getting back together again after a breakup will only make the relationship more awkward. Because there was a rift in the relationship between the two people.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The relationship can not go back to the past, although the two people have reunited, but there is already some estrangement in the hearts of the two people, and there will be some problems when the two people get along.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some couples can reconcile after getting back together, while others are not.

    Couples who can reconcile after a breakup need to meet three conditions:

    1. Still unconditional trust and understanding.

    When you are reunited, because of the contradictions between two people, and the relationship between two people has been questioned and shaken, such a relationship will not last long, one of the necessary conditions for long-term love is the need to trust each other. You can't even trust each other, how can you go back to your original relationship?

    Trust and understanding, regardless of previous suspicions, can allow two people to enter an intimate relationship faster after getting back together.

    2. The root cause of the breakup problem is solved.

    After getting back together, if the problem of two people breaking up before has not been resolved, then this still exists between you, don't think that you can avoid this contradiction by letting it go. If you don't solve it, one day you will have a dispute over this issue, and you may go back to the same path.

    When your previous problems are resolved, then you will have more confidence in each other's future and your relationship will be stronger.

    3. Two people have a common future goal.

    Since you have already experienced a breakup, after getting back together, you need to have a clearer goal to support the motivation of two people to go on, and it is difficult to go on for a long time without a goal. Having a future goal can also strengthen the determination of two people to continue to walk, and when two people have conflicts, they can also work together to resolve problems.

    After breaking up, many couples hope that the relationship can be as good as before, but when they compare the efforts of two people, they will question the relationship between the two people, and will distrust each other, how can this relationship be reconciled as before?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A piece of glass broke and glued together, and although it was another piece of glass, it had cracks, and it was not as good as it was at the beginning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on what the two parties broke up for at that time, if both parties break up because they care too much about each other, it will get better and better, and if it is a trivial matter, it is estimated that they will continue to divide in the future....

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People are different, and you can only know after you continue to get along. Some couples are getting better and better, while others can only go their separate ways. Maybe there will be a fight.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Get to know each other, and after a breakup, after careful consideration, it should be okay to go back to the past, and the relationship will deepen.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some things are lost to know their preciousness, and only when they are lost and regained will people cherish them more, so it will, even better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay, but I guess you're all in trouble, and there's still the possibility of splitting it at any time. However, it is still possible to achieve positive results.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, my brother and sister-in-law are divorced and are now remarried.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The broken mirror reunion rift will be there forever.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Xiao Beisheng is newlywed, you say

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    Personally, I don't think it will be possible to break the mirror and reunite, after all, they have already broken up once, and there will definitely be cracks in the relationship between the two people, and it is impossible to say that it is as sweet as it was at the beginning, and there is no gap.