After 12 years of marriage, my husband divorced for his first love without hesitation, what should I

Let him go as far as he goes, what is there to worry about, there will be the right person in your life beckoning to you.

Let him go, because even if you don't let him go, his heart is not with you. I have examples like this around me, so I might as well let go and appear to be more generous.

You should divorce, because he has decided, you don't force it to stay, end it when it's time to end, and leave both parties with dignity.

So why did you keep in touch with your first love for 20 years? It's been 20 years, and it's not too young, so if that's the case, then you don't want to keep in touch anymore.

I think you can explain it to his wife, there is nothing between you, just occasional contact, I don't think you should destroy his family.

For such a boy, you should tell him that doing so is very detrimental to your relationship, and since you chose to be with him at the beginning, it means that you should have a certain understanding of each other, and since you have made a choice, tolerate his shortcomings, after all, this two-person relationship mode still needs the two of you to run in with each other.

I have one such friend close to me, and he is also a Leo.

of boys, self-esteem.

It's also very strong, not only his girlfriend doesn't dare to say it, even those of us who are friends don't dare to say it, as long as he refutes him a little, he will get angry, at least he won't talk to you for a few days, and he will have a big fight with you, we also know his shortcomings so we let him do everything.

But we as friends and girlfriends can let him, once he goes to the society, no one will let him go, you should talk to your boyfriend, many times as a boy should let go of his face, after all, the two of you are in love, the boy itself should also let the girl, although in a short period of time the girl can rely on her love for the boy to feel nothing, but after a long time, it will inevitably be sad and lost, followed by the breakup of the two of you, So if you really can't bear your boyfriend and don't want the relationship between the two of you to fall apart, you should still help him get rid of this bad problem.

A person's self-esteem is a good thing, but it should be used in the right place, such as at work, if your plan has not been, you should work harder to solve this problem, rather than putting it on arguing with your friends, which is still very incorrect, but it is also understandable that now the family is an only child, and boys will have a little stronger self-esteem.

This is not easy to do, it is someone's business to leave, what you have to do is to get away from this family as soon as possible, so that the man will lose his thoughts about you.

I have been in touch with my first love for 20 years, his wife is determined to divorce, you regret it, how can you not live, let them not divorce, since the two of you have been together for 20 years, it is impossible for his wife to be with him again, didn't you think about the consequences when you did this? There's no way to play anymore.

Your exit is the best remedy. If you join, it will only get darker and darker.

His wife is too stingy, what about contact, can't he be friends, don't you want this kind of wife.

After many years of marriage, my husband still can't forget his first love, should I divorce him?

Hello, empathize with your experience, men are generally right, and people who can't have an unforgettable feeling. If he just thinks it in his heart and doesn't show it, your marriage can go on. If he already has substantial actions and actions, then you still have to stop the loss in time.

After all, falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is more tormenting inside.