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Look at what kind of shortcomings, although everyone has shortcomings, but principled shortcomings can still cause trouble and harm.
General shortcomings are inevitable, and you will understand it when you educate your children yourself.
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You are wrong, love someone, why do you love him (her)? Because you can make you happy together, but can his or her shortcomings make you happy? Can't!
Others often say tolerance, but in reality, there are a few people who can have a broad sense of tolerance, and his (her) shortcomings are his (her) shortcomings, which should be self-aware and moderately corrected.
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If you love someone, you should tolerate everything about him, and you can slowly change your shortcomings through communication, and ignore some subsections as much as possible if you can't change them.
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Not necessarily. 1.If you love him very, very much, then you should love everything about him;
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You can be tolerant, you know that's a shortcoming, even if it's love, it can only be regarded as tolerance.
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It's not that you should love everything about him, but if you really love him, you will naturally feel that his shortcomings are not a big deal, and don't force yourself to accept them.
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This is certain, no one is perfect, and we are in love with such a person, since we are in love, then we must be in love with him, everything about her, but once things become bigger, there is no need to tolerate it, because the previous gentleness has become a thing of the past.
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I don't know, but I've heard others say that falling in love with someone also means falling in love with his shortcomings.
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Yes, as the saying goes, love the house and the black.
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For the person you like, you focus on his merits; For the person you love, you focus on his shortcomings, and those shortcomings are lovely and unique to you, if they are not principled. Like and love is actually only a piece of paper apart, any love starts with liking, when one day you suddenly find that the person you like is no longer perfect in your eyes, and his flaws are like the laurel shadow in the moon makes you more reluctant, you will feel that compared with his radiant side, you are more willing to see his helpless expression in front of you, I don't know if you should congratulate you, in short, your feelings are sublimated
Admiration is not love, not even liking, when you only have admiration for someone, you lose harmony together.
Some people say that it is tiring to love someone, and it is true that it is because you want to bear it for him, but the biggest charm of love compared to liking is that when you are with the person you love, you feel like you are home!
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Recently, I listened to Bai Yansong's speech about marriage, and I have a sense of identity.
He emphasized that in order for a happy marriage and for both husband and wife to become happy people, it is necessary to love each other's strengths and accept each other's shortcomings, and only in this way can the happiness of the marriage be maintained.
As someone summed up, it's easier to fall in love than to get along. Love each other is because of the attraction of advantages, and after getting along for a long time, you will find each other's shortcomings. Only by accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings can we have a harmonious and happy family, so as to join hands with each other.
There is a proverb in the United States that says, "Keep your eyes open before marriage, but half-open and half-closed after marriage," and this is undoubtedly true. Love needs tolerance, which mainly refers to the husband and wife living at home, no tongue does not touch teeth, imagine men and women from two families, grow up in different environments, different living habits, how can they be completely coordinated? A good marriage requires constant adaptation and efforts to achieve convergence.
Even if we can't agree, we will tolerate and understand each other and don't overthink it. Because, she is your wife, he is your husband, and she is a family member who accompanies you to the end of your life, in addition to love, there is more inseparable family affection.
It is rare to be confused in dealing with people, and it is even more rare to live in a confused life between husband and wife. This kind of confusion is a confusion full of love and responsibility, which needs to be cultivated with sincerity, watered with understanding, managed with humility, and supported by generosity.
Home is not a place to be reasonable, Bu Qingzhi is a place to talk about love. Especially for women who are more emotional than rational, it is more effective to move with emotion than to know with reason.
Only when you turn a blind eye to the confusion in marriage will you be good and will not lose your big because of the small.
It is the inability of some people to accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings that leads to the misfortune of marriage. No one is perfect, and there is no one in the world who only has advantages and no disadvantages.
Therefore, the key to a happy marriage lies in whether you can love each other's strengths and weaknesses at the same time.
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