Human interactions, regardless of any relationship, should be reciprocal, how do you understand it?

1. Principles of interpersonal communication:

1.The principle of equality: a socialist society.

Interpersonal communication, first of all, we must adhere to the principle of equality, whether it is official or private, there is no distinction between high and low, to communicate as a friend, in order to have a deep friendship. Don't feel inferior because of short working hours, lack of experience, poor economic conditions, and don't be arrogant because you are a college graduate, young, and beautiful. These mindsets all affect relationships.

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2.The principle of compatibility: mainly psychological compatibility, that is, the harmonious relationship between people, the tolerance, inclusion, tolerance, and tolerance when getting along with others.

Take the initiative to socialize with others, make friends, make good friends, not only make people who are similar to yourself, but also make people who are contrary to your own personality, seek common ground while reserving differences, learn from each other, handle the relationship between competition and compatibility, and better improve yourself.

3.The principle of mutual benefit: refers to the mutual benefit of both parties.

Interpersonal communication is a two-way behavior, so there is a saying of "coming but not reling, irrational", and only unilateral benefits of interpersonal communication can not last long. Therefore, both parties should benefit, not only material, but also spiritual, so both sides of the exchange should talk about dedication and dedication.

4.The principle of credit: communication is inseparable from credit.

Credit refers to a person who is honest, not deceitful, and keeps his promises. The ancients said that "when a word is spoken, a horse is difficult to chase". Now there is the principle of honesty, don't make promises lightly, once promised, try to fulfill them, so as not to break the trust of others.

Among friends, they must believe in their words and deeds, neither humble nor arrogant, dignified but not overly persistent, modest but not pretentious and deceitful, do not look up to the Venerable One, do not despise the inferior to show their self-confidence, and gain the trust of others.

2. Pay attention to the following communication skills:

1.Remember someone's first name or last name, take the initiative to greet people, and address them appropriately so that others feel polite and valued, giving people the impression of being approachable.

2.Conduct generously and calmly, make others feel relaxed and comfortable, and stimulate the motivation of communication.

3.Develop a cheerful, lively personality and make the other person feel that it is a pleasure to be with you.

4.Cultivate humorous words and deeds, humorous without losing proportion, funny without being frivolous, and giving people the enjoyment of beauty. Be humble in your dealings with others, be kind and respectful, otherwise things will backfire.

5.Be calm and don't complain, so that not only will you be happy and self-contained, but others will also be happy.

6.Pay attention to the charm of language: comfort the traumatized and encourage the lost. Compliment those who have truly achieved something, and help those who are in need.

7.People who are decisive, assertive, energetic, and confident are easy to stimulate the motivation of others, win the trust of others, and produce the charm that makes people willing to communicate.

I saw such a little story in the magazine:

There was a husband who bought a fish and took it home for his wife to make. He himself went to watch a movie with his friends, his wife said that she also wanted to go to the movie, and the husband said: It's too wasteful for both of you to go to see it, why don't you make the fish at home, and when I come back from watching the movie, I will tell you the plot of the movie.

When the husband came back from watching the movie, he didn't find any fish, but he found a lot of fish bones on the table. He asked his wife, "What about the fish?" The wife said calmly: I have eaten the fish, come, I will tell you about the taste of the fish.

Although this little story is simple, it is not difficult for us to find that there are often people like husbands around us, who have to be suitable for everything first, do not consider the feelings of others, do not pay attention to the reciprocity of the relationship, and take other people's contributions for granted.

But everyone compares their hearts to their hearts, and I will do to you as you do to me. When I give more, not only will I not be moved by the other person, but sometimes I may be taken for granted by the other person. Especially in intimate relationships, it is easier for one partner to ignore the contribution and be constantly demanded by the other party.

Maybe my love for you is selfless at first, but the maintenance of a stable relationship needs to be based on reciprocal giving.

I strongly agree with this view, because everyone needs to acquire the ability to introspect, and the premise of introspection is to get along with oneself.

In real life, not everyone will live in harmony with themselves. Although this concept sounds very simple, for more ordinary people, many people simply do not have the time and energy to seriously think about solitude, which also leads to many people's lives are very busy, but a busy life does not bring qualitative changes to their quality of life. In my personal opinion, we need to get along with ourselves in a plain way as much as possible, and at the same time, we need to reflect more on our own problems.

I couldn't agree more.

Just imagine, if a person is very good at getting along with himself and can find all kinds of strengths and weaknesses in himself, this person must be a very introspective person. When we enter the society, we will find that many people will be driven away by life, which also makes many people's lives very busy. If we can get along with ourselves correctly, we will be able to find the pure land of our minds in our busy lives.

We can also review our lives in this way.

Everyone will have their own life background and life direction, and not everyone can correctly grasp their own life direction. In most cases, if a person does not subconsciously get along with himself, the direction of the person's life will be very vague. On the contrary, if I get along with myself often, this person will fully review his life, and at the same time, he will adjust his life direction in time, and I personally think that such a life will be more exciting.

Everyone needs to get along with themselves properly.

Some people are very concerned about other people's feelings in their lives, as well as very concerned about relationships, but do not pay enough attention to their own feelings. To some extent, we need to learn to get along with ourselves first, and then we need to gain the ability to get along with others. We need to be as gentle with ourselves as possible, and we need to allow ourselves to experience true happiness in life.

I very much agree with this point of view, many people will feel that they are not satisfied with the status quo, and they cannot get along with themselves, we want too much, pay too little, in fact, as long as we learn to be satisfied, then there will be a lot less trouble, more happiness, and reconciliation with ourselves is also an important topic.

The most important relationship between people is to get along with themselves, and I agree with this view, because only when a person gets along with himself can he know how to live and how to face everything.

I very much agree with this point of view, people must learn how to get along with themselves, do not take everything seriously, and make themselves better people.

See if there are any people around you who get along particularly well with people, and learn about it.

Others don't necessarily expect you to repay you for their kindness; In the same way, you should not decide whether you are good or bad for others with or without reward.

Of course, if others help you, you have to express your gratitude, both verbal and practical, but do what you can, the important thing is to be in your heart and let people know.

In addition, we should learn to relax, not feel inferior or proud, be equal, respectful, friendly, share, and happy when interacting with others;

You can cultivate more hobbies, join some clubs, and participate in their activities. It is also easy to find a topic when sharing it with others, and then it is possible to further enhance mutual understanding and have the opportunity to talk about more in-depth topics; You can also invite people you want to make friends with, which is also a good way to create opportunities to make friends.

Some necessary means of communication and etiquette are also needed, both formal and informal, such as treats, tea gatherings, and outings. Even try to get involved in organizing events.

It's only possible to chat with you if someone else is willing to do so, so it's a good idea to make yourself a popular chat partner; Experience and knowledge will help you; But once you have enough rich hearts, you don't necessarily need to chat with others, hehe.

So the most important thing is to be a good self.

Then you can point to yourself, I ask yourself.