How can I break the habit of hesitation?

First of all, I think your hesitation is actually overthinking that I'm a person like this before, and this is easy to deal with, and that is -- make yourself cheeky! Don't think that being cheeky is bad, often people who have the ability are cheeky. Because they don't think too much about complicated things.

Just follow your own ideas. At first, you may feel uncomfortable under the ridicule and criticism of others, but if you do more, you will be cheeky and experienced, and you will do well even if you don't have to think about anything. Just have faith in yourself!

Be bold!

Say whatever you want.

That's what I am, I always think about problems in class, but I'm afraid of making mistakes. Later, when the teacher said the answer, I regretted it again.

Sometimes this problem is also a good habit, like me, I always wish I hesitated a little more. There are two sides to everything.

Exercise yourself more, and let yourself be ruthless in making choices when encountering things.

If you don't push yourself, you can never break this habit.

Go to the supermarket to buy something, buy one thing you like, don't wander between multiple varieties and don't know how to choose. ......

Just kidding. Actually, it's true, things often have two sides, and hesitation is not necessarily a bad thing. It's just that you have to use the right place, be decisive when you should be decisive, and hesitate when you should hesitate. Don't keep denying yourself, encourage yourself.

1. Make a list of your possible optionsDon't add a whole bunch of other reasons about which choice is good or bad, the reason for these choices is what is behind the choice, and it is to be figured out before the choice is made. So how do you figure it out?

2. List the advantages and disadvantages of each option

3 We must understand what we need and which needs are our top priorityWhat situations happen that are unacceptable to youThis is really the most important thing, and then make a judgment against the merits of the previous analysis. Look at 4 and 5 once to remind yourself, then go back to 1

4.Don't think about getting everything, you have to learn to give up.

In the workplace, personal dreams cannot be ignored, some people think that their dreams are clearly visible, but in the process of realizing their dreams, they build their dreams on others. For example, trusting the departure of a colleague leads to one's own subjective following, believing that the other party can help you realize your dreams. Such a person will always let others control their own decisions, and always fantasize about realizing their dreams in the other person.

The decisiveness, hesitation and decisiveness of doing things are largely due to the reasons of character. It is more difficult to change your personality, but it is not absolute, it is a process of challenging yourself and surpassing yourself. Provide self-confidence in life and work, when you make a good decision, you can self-appreciate, self-encouragement, so that you can constantly challenge yourself, you will definitely surpass yourself.

Indecisiveness describes a person's character as cowardly and unable to make up his mind when encountering problems. Hesitation and lack of decision. People with indecisive personalities are often indecisive in life, and they are often indecisive between different choices and cannot make trade-offs; They are often skeptical of the decisions they make, fearing that their decisions will have undesirable consequences.

They can't be brave enough to face failure and take advantage of the opportunity to succeed. An indecisive personality often has a negative impact on life and becomes a stumbling block on the road to success.

Usually let yourself choose one thing more resolutely, and often exercise yourself to make decisions, and force yourself to buy things faster, so that you can change the habit of hesitation.

Tell yourself that there are two sides to everything, and that no matter what choice you make, there will be a good side and a bad side outcome, so don't hesitate too much.

You must have your own ideas and opinions, have your own ideas when you encounter problems, don't listen to other people's opinions at will, and be decisive in doing things, so that you can overcome hesitation very well.

Make a plan for yourself and make a plan for Day 2 the day before, so that you can get rid of this shortcoming.

I happen to be someone of this personality and am facing a big choice. My self-analysis and hesitation are mainly due to our lack of self-confidence, deep inferiority complex, coupled with lack of experience, we are sure of the decisions we are about to make, and we are always thinking about what to do if what happens in the future is not what I expect now. Encourage yourself, believe that the choice now is the best choice, and think about things from the positive side.

Of course, the first step that must be done is to assess the risks, pick out the most difficult objective risks to overcome, and take this step bravely if you can bear it; Subjective risks can be overcome through self-effort, and they should be eliminated first.

No one can make decisions for us, people must learn to grow up on their own, take more risks, and let the facts tell us whether the decision was right or not.

Can personality be changed?

I only know that habits can be changed.,If the personality can be changed by yourself.。。。

It seems that personality can only be changed, right? I want to change on my own

If you have this ability, I will change it when I look back.

Some people think that only "perfection" is valuable. Fearing that the status quo will have a negative impact, we are holding back. This "perfectionism" often hinders its progress.

Focus on the results and put your heart and soul into it. Believing that you have the ability, the ability, and the wisdom to achieve results, turns this idea into an inherent habitual thinking. Focus on achieving goals, not perfection.

Third, live mindfully and accept the present moment.

Mindfulness is purposeful and conscious, paying attention to and being aware of everything in the present moment, and without making any judgment, any analysis, or any reaction to everything in the present moment, but simply being aware of it and paying attention to it.

Mindfulness has become a way of life and a mental state**. Breathing exercises are the simplest formal mindfulness exercises. First, choose a comfortable sitting position, keep your body upright, and imagine a rope attached to the top of your head.

Then, slowly rock your head back and forth, left and right, find a natural and comfortable balance, and sit still. Finally, close your eyes and be aware of your breathing. Maintain natural breathing; If you notice that your attention is off, this is completely normal and you just need to redirect your attention to your breathing.

Accept yourself completely, keep exploring and understanding yourself, and the more time passes, the more you will understand your true self. Sometimes your thoughts, feelings, and insights are not true, and we often receive some misinformation, or are influenced by prejudices and hesitate. When we become aware of who we really are, our hearts change as we discover them, and we become more proactive in facing life.

be better.

Meet a better version of yourself.

Every character has its strengths and weaknesses, hesitation is caused by more than others, I am also a person who is very hesitant and difficult to decide, but according to my observation, the friends who grew up with me are not good mixed with the decisive personality, and the current social composition is complex, although thinking twice will make you slower than others, but it will also make you stable with others. So I suggest that the landlord, instead of changing his innate character, it is better to use his personality advantages to make the longboard longer, some shortcomings are not hard to make up, and the results may not be good after making up.

If the landlord is engaged in a job that requires immediate response, such as a lot of social interaction and often talk about plans, etc., you should use your personality advantages to fully prepare in advance, so that you will find that although you have poor decision-making, you can do the right answer faster and better, as long as you are fully prepared to even understand the personality of the communicator.

If the landlord is engaged in a job that does not require decisiveness, then hesitation happens to be the key to your success, do not resist this character, but believe in yourself more and think more.

If you are facing important choices and decisions in life, you must hesitate, don't decide blindly, there are too few protagonists in the story who take shit luck, and most of the people who don't want to make a decision immediately have bad results, and only a few are lucky, so the most important thing to do in the face of this kind of choice is to hesitate, take all possible conditions into account, including your preferences, and do it without hesitation when determining the path you want to choose, which will be easier to succeed.

The so-called fleeting opportunity needs to be decided immediately, believe me, first of all, people will not encounter this kind of choice in this life, and secondly, this kind of opportunity not to even think is mostly a pit, and finally even if you really encounter this kind of choice, if you usually do your homework well and solidly, you can easily judge this choice, all you need is to believe in your own judgment, unswerving!

I think it's hard to deliberately change this kind of personality, because many times when you make that kind of thought, behavior, are inadvertent and not something you can control, it is recommended that you pay more attention to it in normal times and improve it slowly.

Hello landlord. When you can't make decisions, you can ask the people around you to help you make decisions. At work, you can make a list to see which ones are certain and which ones are uncertain, and if you are uncertain, you can ask your superiors or colleagues around you to try to subdivide them.

Ask your friends more in life to help you solve the problems around you. But the final decision must be made by yourself, and making a decision means taking responsibility. In fact, most of the uncertainty is that their own ability is not enough, and they need to learn more and ask others for advice, so that they can improve.

It refers to a state of mind that does not know how to choose, and holds a hesitation. Even a simple decision can take a long time. We classify it as a virus, because it seems to be a simple psychological reaction, but it really makes us miss out on a lot of things that we should have, including good health and a happy life.

Hesitation is when there is a branch, thinking too much about the consequences, always trying to be perfect, but not grasping the point. Lack of relevant knowledge or experience, so I don't know which one is better.

Generally speaking, hesitation is also a corner of the character, and it is difficult to stop hesitating in everything you want. As long as there is a branch, you will have thoughts, and the more likely results will be hesitant.

But there are many things that can be changed by increasing knowledge, expanding horizons, enriching experience, and so on. When a branch arises, you will not hesitate when you can quickly determine what is right or wrong. So to completely change the hesitation, only learn and learn again to enrich your knowledge base.

When you encounter something, set a time limit for yourself to complete it, and slowly develop a style of doing things that no longer hesitates.

Don't worry too much about the consequences, don't pursue perfection one-sidedly, in fact, there is no such thing as perfection in the world.

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

Is it because you have encountered something big in your life, such as a mistake in a choice that makes you very resistant to doing things or making decisions? I really want someone to choose or arrange it for me... I was like this before, and I was quite unassertive.

Solving this problem is not a day or two, it takes years and months of perseverance. This process is to build self-confidence, believe that what you are doing is right, and the final effect is not good, but also to accumulate more experience and make yourself do the right thing in the future.

Practice: 1 A very important thing is that you must be prepared for everything, both big and small, since you are afraid of this and that, then you must try to think about all the details before doing things. Imagine every link, make every preparation, and you have a way to solve what happens, so that you can greatly reduce the chance of "this and that", so that everything is normal and according to your ideas.

2. If you are in a daze, try to minimize it, because time is precious, this is the water in your sponge...

3. When you have done more of the above things, and you feel that you can still do some things with your own ability, and it is perfect, you can try to arrange your own things, and it will be very handy. I wish you success. Welcome to the conversation!

If you are inattentive, it may be mental, or it may be pathological, so it is best to go to the hospital for a check-up.

Do what you think, there is a saying from Mr. Bruce Lee, "Don't hesitate, if you hesitate, you will back down."

Then you're going to have to get rid of your personality from now on.

Do you do something that makes you feel bored and unrefreshed?

It is recommended that you can find something you like to do in your free time and relax.

When you want to work, you must be responsible for the work, don't be afraid to move forward, don't be afraid to "fall".

Be proactive, don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, as long as you don't regret it, you can change it