How to go down in a tangled heart? How to get out of the tangled mentality?

Dear landlord, I'm glad for your question: Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is blending with each other and not unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart If my own inaccuracies please forgive me!

Depressed, do you think it's worth it? People still have to look forward, besides, there is not only one woman in the world, look forward, you will definitely be able to find the real right one for you, and it is a coward's behavior to fall.

Conflicting emotions. It's always gone. The tangled heart can only be slowly resolved by feeling.

Everyone will have a tangled mentality, if there is no tangled mentality, it is the most abnormal, when you encounter this situation, you can try it, think about the positive and negative sides of things, where is their duality? If it's just one side of the sexual culture, then there's no need to dwell on it, think about it, where is the annoying aspect of this thing? Think about it carefully, and if you really can't figure it out, look for the answer.

First. In terms of mentality, it is necessary to conform to things, not welcome the future, not mixed at that time, and not in love with the past. Things to comply:

When something happens, it happens, it becomes an established fact, and no amount of entanglement can change it. Only by conforming to the development of things can we face the facts and do things well. The future is not welcome:

Don't think about what's going to happen in the future. Be a man and do things, live in the present, and do a good job today in order to meet a better tomorrow. It wasn't mixed at the time:

Live in the moment and be mindful. Only by doing the things at hand and not thinking about anything else can we get things done. For example:

When you wash the dishes, you know that you are washing the dishes and enjoy the moment of washing the dishes; When you eat oranges, you know that you are eating oranges and savor the taste of each clove. The past is not in love: we must start with the present, not the past.

The past is gone, no amount of entanglement can be changed, and holding on to the past will only make you never go to the future.

Second. In addition to the mentality of adapting to things, not welcoming the future, not being mixed at the time, and not falling in love with the past, in terms of action, Xiaojun can adopt the following strategies.

The decision to shrink oneself is that most of us have been taught that when we are faced with a choice, such as whether to choose a project to start a business, you may consider: whether it will bring a good return; Am I up to the task?

Is it possible to make enough money? Do you need to make major life changes? Is it wise to give up existing jobs in terms of the economic outlook?

A tangled mindset is an ambivalent mentality. If you have this mentality, you can weigh the pros and cons, and if the pros outweigh the disadvantages, you can make a decisive decision to implement it. If the harm outweighs the good, you should give up.

Most of our entanglements come from what we want too much, and we may have too few choices, always want everything, don't want to lose anything, for fear of losing too much, and in fact, a person can't have everything in his life, so make yourself simpler.

Hello, if you want to get out of the tangled mentality, you must maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, and work with people who are vigorous and resolute.

In fact, when you have a fearful attitude towards the future, your thoughts and thoughts will tend to be on the side of your fear, but when you have a positive attitude towards the future, your words and deeds will be full of hope, and you will definitely have a good future.

The future is good or bad in your current attitude.

First of all, we must correct our mentality, and once we make a decision, we must implement it.