Why is it that only by living in the countryside can we have children without stress?

Only by living in the countryside can you have children without pressure and pass on the family lineage, this is because the city has to work under pressure, every act has to be spent every day, you have to earn money, the countryside is different, and many times in the countryside can be self-sufficient in food and vegetables. The pressure is indeed different in urban and rural areas, the cost of children in rural areas is relatively low, and the cost of education and childcare in urban areas is very high.

Who told you that there is no pressure to have children in the countryside? You don't use your own brain, and you will believe such nonsense.

1. Having children is part of marriage, it is a matter of two people, love and marriage, do you want to spend money?

2. Do you want to spend money on getting married, marriage checkup, pregnancy preparation, pregnancy checkup, prenatal checkup, and childbirth?

3. The child is born, milk powder, diapers, clothes, socks, shoes, vaccines, ......... to see a doctorDo you want money for all kinds of daily necessities?

4. When I grow up, go to kindergarten and elementary school, eat, school uniforms, transportation, pocket flowers, extracurricular activities, schoolbags and stationery, extracurricular books, and students' insurance .........Do you want money for these?

5. Go to junior high school and high school: more homework, more extracurricular books, more make-up classes from off-campus institutions, more expenses on food, clothing, transportation, computers, mobile phones, medical expenses, etc., which require more money.

7. After graduation, work, and finding a suitable one, it's time to talk about marriage, house, car, home appliances, .........Is his income or savings enough?

8. The child has also given birth to children and passed on the ancestry. It's another cycle .........

Do you think these costs are different in the countryside and in the city? Perhaps the specific consumption level is different, and the specific expenditure items are not exactly the same, but for parents, having a child is not only to give birth and raise him, but more importantly, to teach him to live, so that he can become an independent and responsible "person", so having a child is not only a matter of a small family, but also a responsibility for the whole country and the whole society. Only by producing and educating each "product" with good quality can our country and our nation have hope.

Therefore, whether in the countryside or in the city, it is stressful to have children and inherit the lineage, and it is even more responsible!

The pressure on the countryside is not small, farming does not make money, pure farming, unless those who obtain a large amount of land through contracting and circulation can make some money. Although the children's education is not as good as the cost of children in large and medium-sized cities, the cost of living and tutoring for a year is more than 10,000 yuan, and it should be more than 10,000 yuan in high school!! Although there is also a corresponding rural medical insurance reimbursement, it is okay to have a minor illness, but if you have a major illness, it is still in vain for a year!!

Most people still have parents to support, but fortunately, many brothers and sisters have more, plus the state also has some subsidies, and the elderly have vegetable gardens, so they don't have many of them!! On our side, most of the people with better family conditions have moved to the city, and some people are better off outside, but if their parents are unwilling to move away, they will repair the old house better!!

Because I live in the city, the daily living expenses are very large, the surrounding environment is complex, there are many contrasts, and the work pressure is very high, so life, getting married and having children, is very hard.

In rural life, you can have land, general vegetables, and food. The people around are about the same level, there are no people who are too poor or too rich, and the villagers in the countryside are very kind, warm, simple and kind. People don't have much to think about.

Generally, retired workers who have lived in the city all their lives like to buy an idle rural house for their own retirement when they are old.

Because rural people still have the historical survival habits of self-sufficiency, wantlessness, multiplication, and inheritance.

The cost of living in the countryside is very low, some things don't cost money, cooking and heating don't cost money, you can go up the mountain yourself, you don't need to spend money to grow some vegetables the next day, you buy very few vegetables in winter, you store a lot of vegetables yourself, the cost of children's school is also very low, all aspects are low, all aspects are expensive, all aspects of Chengli are expensive, children spend more money on school, food and housing cost money.

Because everything in the countryside can be self-sufficient, there is not as much expense as working outside the home, and there are not so many places to spend money, so the pressure on the countryside will be relatively less.

Why is it that only by living in the countryside can you have stress-free children? Inheritance, this is not the case, having children, whether in the countryside or in the city, that can not be treated as a kind of pressure to treat you, you should see the baby when it is born, that kind of happy wish, of course, the current pressure of life in the city, mainly from the pressure of the house and the pressure of the child to go to school, of course, the pressure of not earning money will be greater.

Whether you live in the city or in the countryside, there is pressure to live, and it depends on what you think. Living in the current society, boys and girls are the same, don't add to the old ideas of the past, and it's best to go with the flow.

Who said there was no pressure to live in the countryside and have children? Could it be that children in rural areas can grow up by taking a breath of air? Could it be that a child in the countryside has no house or a car and a daughter-in-law to marry you?

Could it be that rural people have to eat bran vegetables? Don't think that the gap between the countryside and the city is so big, the same is living in this piece of day, you are working hard for life, I am also working hard for life, so the current society should not have too extreme ideas and views, the same people, and don't look down on any inconspicuous people, who can be arrogant to the ** who can be more arrogant than whom.

It may be that rural people are not so complicated in their hearts, and they still have their own conscience.

There is pressure in every place, but there are big and small, and there is still a lot of pressure to live the life you want.