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I think that marriage is indeed a transaction in a sense, and that must be understandable and not to be hidden. The difference between love and marriage is that one has nothing to do with money, and the other talks about money everywhere; One represents affection, and the other represents responsibility. Women marry to have a second reliance, men marry to pass on the lineage, and children are the product of marriage, so I think marriage is indeed a transactional relationship based on feelings in a certain sense.
When men and women sit together and talk about marriage, they are nothing more than talking about cars, houses, savings, and dowry. The transaction between a man and a woman in marriage is also a transaction between two families. Even if the parents of both sides say that as long as the two children have a good relationship, everything is good, it is inevitable to examine each other's economic strength.
There are even many people who argue about whose name is written on the house when they get married because of how to fight for property in the event of divorce and how to be protected after death. Therefore, I think the difference between marriage and love is not in the marriage letter, but more like a money transaction based on seeing the right eye.
There is a gossip on the Internet that "the opposite sex is for the purpose of reproduction", and I think this sentence breaks down the true meaning of marriage。If someone says that marriage is not for money, then the difference between marriage and not is nothing more than whether or not you can give your children an identity. Only when two people are married can the children be registered in the name of justice.
Getting married and having children, these two things seem to be inevitably linked responsibilities, or obligations. Many men marry to carry on their ancestry, and women also marry to have children and rely on them in their old age.
When it comes to marriage, many people think of sacred contracts and romantic weddings, but each of us is not exempt from vulgarity after all. Marriage is a transaction, a test, and a cooperation. No matter how romantic love is, there may be a day of divorce, so marriage still needs to choose a suitable partner who can go through a lifetime to combine, so that a lifelong marriage can be achieved, and the purpose and value of marriage can also be realized.
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Marriage is certainly not a succession transaction. Especially in modern society, marriage is not only the need for childbirth, marriage is more like the cooperation of two people, it is too difficult for one person to survive in modern society, and two people need to work together to go on.
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Marriage is not a succession transaction. I believe that marriage is the support and guarantee for two people to be happy, accompany each other, and spend a lifetime together.
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Marriage is considered a transaction for generations to come, and it also allows love to be protected. My attitude towards marriage doesn't matter, it's okay to get married or not.
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In today's marriage, in addition to inheritance, there is also love. If there is no love, even if they choose to consider marriage because of their children for the sake of inheritance, then two people who have not been together for a long time will definitely choose to divorce. For today's young people, the reason why the divorce rate is relatively high is mainly because they do not realize the responsibilities that marriage gives to two people and the burden of the family.
It is necessary to realize that two people who choose to enter into married life must consider marriage because they love each other. <>
In fact, for most young people who consider the essence of choosing marriage, they generally think that it is for the sake of inheritance, in order to marry a woman and come back to have children for themselves. In fact, it is obviously not an exaggeration for men to have such thoughts, because men's thoughts are often based on simplicity. But as a man, you must know that any woman you are looking for can have children for yourself, but the person you are looking for must be someone you really like, so that you can grow old with each other.
If you choose to get married just because you are thinking about having children, then the children born will have a more miserable life. <>
Two young people choose to be together because they really like each other and want to go on with each other. Even in life, most girls are faced with unmarried pregnancy, and they will choose to discuss with each other to see if the two people choose to go on because of the child. Whether you choose to get married because you love your wife or because of your children, you must first ask yourself if you can give the girl a stable home and make the girl happy.
As a girl, if you ask a man why he would consider getting married in life, the man will also casually say that it is for the sake of inheritance, and don't believe what the man says. You must know that if a man really chooses to be with his wife for the sake of inheritance, he will definitely choose to let more people carry out the inheritance for men in the future. Don't believe men's nonsense, because men also choose to marry each other because they want to give their wives a home.
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I think it's more about having one to support each other in the days to come. People who accompany you together. And if the future is always alone, then I think it's really boring to live. You still have to have someone to share your joys and sorrows with.
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It also includes the satisfaction of life needs, the realization of one's own married life, and the fact that oneself has a stable state of life, marriage can be a transaction, thus promoting the development of two people.
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To fulfill the wishes of the elderly, many old people nowadays, their greatest wish is that their children start a family and have children, this is their greatest wish.
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Two people support each other, spend their old age together, accompany each other, and have spiritual sustenance for each other.
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It's not a contract.
It's a guarantee.
A moral constraint that is carried above the law.
If you get married, you will get divorced.
And now the divorce rate is not low.
The law gives a basic guarantee to this feeling.
But in fact, whether it can be maintained or not depends on both parties to the marriage.
Succession. That's just the old idea.
Women are not reproductive tools.
Extramarital affairs are out of moral constraints.
The law can't do anything about the other side either.
So modern marriage.
Talk about the succession.
That's disrespect for women.
It's also disrespectful to oneself and to marriage.
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Personal understanding: Marriage is a conventional form of two people living together together, and passing on the family lineage is a previous concept, and it is only a ritual content in marriage. The current environment is that everyone is living together together, but if the days can't go on, then hurry up and get together and disperse, and then come to the second spring.
If you only find the connotation of inheritance for marriage, it is really out of touch with everyone's thoughts.
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Marriage in modern society comes in many forms.
Whereas marriages in the past were mainly contracts of succession, modern marriages may be contracts of succession, wealth, or love.
Everyone's starting point is different, so the tone of marriage is also different.
In the future society, as women become more and more independent, the contradictions between men and women are becoming more and more profound and the development of reproductive technology, there will be fewer and fewer marriages for the purpose of inheritance.
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I don't think so. The greatest significance of marriage is to sublimate love and find a safer, more reliable and secure home for each other's feelings. Throughout her life, a woman longs to be properly cared for and cared for by a man, and until the end of her life, there will be someone by her side.
No one wants to live alone. There will always be a day when children grow up, and when their wings are stiff, they will go away, and in the end, only their partners are the only guardians and waiters. It is not easy for people to meet a partner who truly loves each other in this life.
The so-called wife is nothing more than being old enough to be a companion. People will get old one day, so you might as well find a partner to stay with you until you are old, which has little to do with inheritance, only about companionship and love.
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Marriage is no longer a contract of succession! If a person decides to leave you, there is only one simple reason, you can no longer give her energy. Faye Wong, her life has reached the level of spiritual needs early, but unfortunately, none of her partners can satisfy her at this level, let alone lead her and coach her at a higher level, and her energy has not been able to be replenished.
It is a cruel reality that if the love in any artist's heart cannot be activated, the artistic life will wither. Back then, Leslie Cheung and Tang Tang were also stuck at this level, Leslie Cheung has been suffering at the spiritual level, and Tang Tang can't give more, so he can only come here.
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I don't think so, marriage is two people who feel that they can live each other's lives, and they are together, but this is not a contract, we can choose to terminate this relationship at any time, we can also choose not to have children, now there are a lot of Dink families, my physical education teacher in college, I don't have children, the relationship between husband and wife is also very good, people are this kind of thinking, I think I am freer and happier not to have children, then not to give birth, it is a bit too much to say that it is a contract, husband and wife, The greatest significance of marriage in this life is not to eat and dress, not to have children, but to communicate with the heart, the flow of love, comfort each other, nourish each other, and achieve each other.
Inheritance is a part of traditional Chinese culture, China has no tradition of religious belief, it is ancestor worship, so it has always been inherited by incense. The birth of a son is inheritance, and a daughter belongs to her husband's family.
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It is normal to have a certain interest relationship in marriage, after all, it is a family formed by two different families, and all parties have spent a lot of energy and time for this family, as well as money, so as long as they consider each other and coordinate their interests, this marriage will be very happy.
I guess so. But people always have to look forward to Shu, and they still want to be more ideal. >>>More