My boyfriend is very willful, should I accommodate him or what should I do?

Man? Are you still willful when you have friends?

Looking for Mom? It is estimated that they are also two young people. Although he is young, time is like water. Hurry up. Don't waste your time.

I can't accommodate him. Big deal to break up! What's the benefit of holding on like this?

He must be childish, right? If you accommodate him, you will harm him.

There is no need to make changes, there is no need to make changes for the sake of one person, you must have your own personality, so that you can live happily.

Two people who love each other must be able to change for each other, provided that the two people who love each other, if it is their own fault, then they must pay attention If it is the other party's fault, then you can't do anything well.

You shouldn't make a change, because your boyfriend doesn't love you, that's why you say you're willful, and you should break up with him when you meet such a boyfriend.

Of course not, it's just that your boyfriend cares too much about right and wrong, so he will seem more aloof.

When you are willful, your boyfriend has never accommodated and tolerated you, which may be true that he doesn't love you at all. It is possible that he has other people in his heart, and he has already given all his tenderness to others, so he will not show his accommodation and tolerance in you.

First of all, when the two of us are together, we are not used to each other, and we are also correcting each other. For example, if your boyfriend points out that you are willful, then you need to think about it seriously, and he can't say that you are willful for no reason, and see what is the reason for such a statement. If you don't agree and feel wronged, let the people around you make a judgment, of course, I think it's better to ask your boyfriend directly, it's more direct and clear.

Otherwise, it's hard to guess. If you understand the reason, see if you are really at fault, and then adjust yourself.

Secondly, when we fall in love, we will all change our personality. It's like someone will be spoiled, someone will grow up quickly, all according to the way two people get along, your boyfriend can point to your problems, which can be regarded as upright, so that you can face it better, targeted changes, but your boyfriend is really not a person who will spoil you.

The willfulness of our girls generally only happens to those close to us, parents or lovers, the most common. So if we are willful, we might as well consider whether we are at fault and are doing unreasonable things by relying on relationships. So it's normal to do wayward things, and it's good to pay more attention in the future, and you should pay more attention as a girlfriend.

I don't think I need to change this wayward character, to see if the wayward personality brings good or bad to your life, and if the thing it brings is good, then there is no need to change. But if it causes too much trouble in our lives, we need to change and get along better with others.

The advice given by the boyfriend may be correct, but in the end, it is up to you to decide. It's better if you can accept the change, because the other party must be for your own good, and you won't harm yourself for no reason, or you don't want to get better and better. A willful personality is actually bad in the eyes of most people, but we also think that sometimes being willful is not a bad thing.

Wayward people will do what they like desperately, will do what they want to do, and will not think so much about the consequences. In their world, they generally rarely take into account the feelings of other people, because they have to get what they like and do what they want, so they may hurt others many times. But I think that such people live freely, and such people's lives are wonderful.

There's a lot less to worry about, there's a lot less to worry about, there's a lot less to worry about. So they live more comfortably.

From the perspective of his own good, my boyfriend thinks that you need to change, and he wants you to live comfortably without hurting others. I think that if you are too willful, you can change it appropriately, after all, not all people will accommodate us, not all people will know their own character, the degree of willfulness.

You can think about it carefully, and think that sometimes you hurt others because of these, so you can change it appropriately to make your life better and make yourself happier. At the same time, you can also ask your boyfriend to push you to change, always remind you how to react, or consider other people's feelings about something.

If the boys really mind that your willfulness is to the point where you need to say it, then I think it's time for you to make a change. Because although you are a couple, there are almost no secrets between you, you share everything, you bear everything together, but you are not one person after all, after all, you are two different individuals, two completely different individuals, your personality, situation, habits, hobbies need to be run-in, if one person makes an obvious, very strong demand for another person, then the other person must make a change for this. After all, love requires two people to maintain it with their hearts, if you just unilaterally enjoy your boyfriend's good, but take care of yourself and don't make efforts, then this love is likely to fail because of your lack of effort.

I don't think anyone wants to see such an ending. So you make a change, don't feel that this is a very wronged thing, because love is mutual, it is both sides, today you make a change, tomorrow may be he to make a change, and today you choose to back down, tomorrow his regression will be easier, just a little tolerance and change, maybe it will make your relationship one step closer, to a higher level. Often a little effort in exchange for great results, after all, you are a couple, and the other party still loves you.

You must know that he sees every thought you have, he keeps every effort you have in mind, and he can easily forget your badness, but he definitely remembers your good. So try to adapt to him as much as possible, it's a way to get along better.

And it's not too late to change, after all, your boyfriend is tolerant of you, although he has made comments about you, but he is still patient, and you still have time to redeem his impression.

Many years ago, I watched "Love is Deep and Rainy", and there was a scene that impressed me deeply, Yiping played by Zhao Wei said to Shuhuan with tears in her eyes, I was originally a hedgehog, but for you I pulled out the thorns one by one, leaving only bloody skin, but you no longer love me. I forgot the original text, which is probably what it meant. At the time, I felt very pitiful, but now that I think about it, I think it's funny, a woman does this and begs for love from others, so will love really patronize you?

So in love, keep your true colors, if you don't like it, don't entangle, don't dislike it when you're together, whether it's a man to a woman or a woman to a man, it should be a truth.

Of course, everyone will have shortcomings, some girls may have a serious princess disease, or a very short temper, which is very undesirable in human relations, especially in relationships, but for these shortcomings of oneself, I realized that I should make changes in order to achieve happiness and make myself more perfect, rather than compromising for a certain man.

Whether you should change or not is up to you, the first thing you need to know is that you are just very willful in the eyes of your boyfriend and you are also very willful in the eyes of others.

These are two completely different ways and attitudes, if you are just a very headstrong person in the eyes of your boyfriend, then I don't feel that you need to change, it is that your relationship has changed.

It's very likely that your boyfriend just doesn't like you anymore, so seeing that you are bad in many things, some of your requests or some wishes have become willful.

If it's true that you're just a headstrong person in the eyes of your boyfriend, then you yourself know the outcome, and you don't need to make any changes. You are who you are, maybe no one else understands you and it doesn't matter, the important thing is that you are like that when you appear in front of your boyfriend.

There is a problem in the relationship between you, so you do a lot of things that are obviously very reasonable between couples, but in the eyes of your boyfriend, they become willful.

As you spend a lot of time together, your weaknesses will become more apparent. It's normal for your boyfriend to have some grudges at this time.

If you still want to keep your relationship, then you need to change it, if your willfulness breaks your relationship, it's not worth it.

If it is really what her boyfriend said, then the person should wake up to his words and deeds, and whether he really needs to adjust himself appropriately.

First of all, I think your boyfriend loves you very much, so he will always tolerate your willfulness, but his tolerance can be reached to the limit, or your willfulness has risen to another level, causing him to be unbearable.

It doesn't have to be all changed, personality is very difficult to change, usually as long as you pay more attention to your words and deeds, don't do things without brains, think about everything and then do it, I think it will be much better.

I used to be a very willful person, stubborn in doing things, and doing whatever I wanted. Maybe because she is a little daughter, she has been favored by her father since she was a child, and for me, he has always asked for something. So much so that I became a tyrannical child for a while.

When I was in elementary school, because I was an athlete, the physical education teacher in charge of me has been cultivating my top students, so I often use this identity not to participate in the morning reading class, relying on the teacher's care to bully the same table, chasing male classmates after class, I have to force them to the men's toilet, I seem to enjoy this time very much, because of willfulness, I find that I don't have any very iron friends, so I have to force them to play with me, jumping rubber bands, hopscotch or something. Every time they make a small report to the teacher, I can always stand in the role of the winner, relying on my father and the principal to know which teacher will not give three points of face. It wasn't until the graduating class at the end of primary school that the teacher asked us to tell us about the happiest things in our primary school career, the best friends and the dreams we wanted to pursue the most.

I thought about it for a long time, and I didn't know how to answer it at all, my childhood was spent chasing and fighting, and I didn't really make friends, and as I grew up, I gradually began to realize that I had wasted my childhood.

What is the price of willfulness, is the loss of people who love you and care about you, the loss of friends who trust you, the loss of the original opportunity, between gains and losses, few people will be happy in the end.

He just said that you were too willful, and he didn't think you were too willful. So change it or not in you. If you think that your willfulness has not caused any pressure on both of you, it has not affected the relationship between the two of you. Then you don't have to change it.

Conversely, if your willfulness is a little too much. There should be a degree in everything, no matter what you do, you must be modest, and don't let your own nature come. Otherwise, it's easy to turn your boyfriend off.

If so, you should consider a change. If you continue to be so willful, sooner or later, the two of you will break up because of your willfulness.

There is such a girl next to me, who has been in love with her boyfriend for four years, just because of her willfulness, and her boyfriend also reminded her several times during this period, but she always sees this matter too simply, thinking that it has been four years, and there will be no problems because of this, but in the end she still pays for her willfulness. Until now, she still misses her ex-boyfriend. Even every time he mentions him, he is teary-eyed.

Therefore, girls must be reserved, no matter what they say or do, they must think about it through their brains, pay attention to the occasion, and pay attention to saving face for each other.

But in the long run, if we were boys, we might not be able to bear it. I think two people getting along together is also a test for each other, they are both people with a little temper, so mutual tolerance and mutual understanding are the most important things.

We always think that boys should be generous and tolerate all the careful thoughts of our girls, so we often forget to empathize. My boyfriend always said that when I quarreled with him, I didn't care about his thoughts at all, what was hard to hear, I calmed down and thought, so that the hurt again and again will make our feelings fade. So I think it's a small pleasure and a big injury.

Don't be too willful, maybe the relationship between the two people will be a little stronger.

Therefore, I think we still need to change a little bit, we have to learn to properly manage our emotions, this is also a manifestation of a person who is very self-contained, maybe when we give the other party a proper understanding in order to get more responses from the other party, after all, the pay and return should be proportional, when you slowly change yourself, maybe your boyfriend will give you more love and care, which may be more beneficial to your relationship.