How can I help my boyfriend when he is short of money, and my boyfriend says how to comfort him if h

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't understand your relationship very well, you said, you can't break up with him now, which shows that you still can't bear it, you still care about him very much, why do you want to break up?

    If he used to be nice to you, and you still want to be friends with him after you broke up, you can do your best to help him, just lend him as much as you can, what is the difficulty.

    But economic things have always been unclear, if you want to break up, there is nothing to bring up now, and you don't need to help him anymore, cut through the mess quickly, and the future entanglement will be saved, and the man will be ruthless to himself, he will not even be unable to bear this little thing.

    Mixing feelings and finances is the most troublesome thing to remember.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your boyfriend is really, knowing that the family's economic situation is not very good, and spending money outside is still lavish, he doesn't know how to cherish it, live a good life, and now that he can make money, he should be considerate of his parents! You should help him recognize what kind of economic situation he is now, what kind of life he should live in the future, if he doesn't change, I advise you to break up with him, if he has a career in the future, he will forget his roots in the future, and tell him directly!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can see that you're a nice girl.

    At this time, it is already a good help that you don't break up with him.

    Stay with him silently, if you will.

    If you have the financial strength, you can help you appropriately, but you don't want to borrow money and then give it to him.

    Measure your strength, after all, a relationship should be cherished.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to buy as few gifts as possible, just let him give you gifts appropriately, what else do you two have to share the money?

    and have control over him

    Buy him a gift

    I want him not to be short of money, save a little, try to buy something you can buy, and let him not buy something useless to him

    Buy it yourself, and you have to be frugal too.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I advise you not to borrow money. His financial situation is not good. Such a big person is still extravagant, and children also know how to save money He should take care of his affairs, is your financial situation very good? Anyway, sooner or later, you will all break up, so in order not to be entangled in the future, you can leave it alone and comfort yourself

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    During the relationship between men and women, the most important thing is not to have money to do with it, no one has a way to **future**, if you don't come together in the future, your money is like a scoop, but look at the appearance of your boyfriend, your life will not be better when you come together in the future**. Or support it mentally, a breakup may be a matter of time. Think for yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since they all want to break up, are you still thinking about him? You must love him very much, then go down with him. That's the best thing for him.

    You can help him keep his salary. When the time comes, it's really not enough, you can help him with a little. No matter how much.

    It can also motivate him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I advise you not to lend him money.

    If you know him well about his personality or his family and would love to lend him money, be sure to ask him to write an IOU.

    and his brother shall settle accounts.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be careful if this is his little trick and doesn't want you to break up with him.

    Let's wait and see what happens!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm afraid you'll spend it lavishly if you borrow money from him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's not talk about breaking up for the time being, don't borrow money.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Will this kind of man who doesn't plan plan for you in the future? There are good and bad habits, of course, the bad ones should be avoided as much as possible, and he seems to be getting worse and worse I think the landlord should consider his own situation and his relationship

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This man is really unreliable No wonder he is going to break up I don't have money and I don't know how to save money Spend a lot of money LZ borrowed him a little bit when he remembered his old love and wanted to make an IOU saying that he borrowed it from his family Benevolence and righteousness have been exhausted.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You said you wouldn't break up with him for the time being, and I think that's the biggest help you've given him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's too early. Otherwise, it will be more troublesome in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. You must motivate him, let him keep working hard, keep fighting; Let him continue to move forward for a better tomorrow; Tell him that only by working hard can he realize his life dream; Only hard work can make love go to the next level; If you have the conditions, take him to keep moving forward, for the sake of life, keep fighting.

    You must motivate him, let him keep working hard, keep fighting; Let him keep moving forward for a better tomorrow; Tell him that only by working hard can he realize his life dream; Only hard work can make love go to the next level; If there are conditions for the fruit of the acre, take him to keep moving forward, and keep fighting for life.

    His business has gone wrong recently and he lacks a lot of money, what should I do?

    You are great, but you haven't encountered a chance, you have to work hard now, and when the opportunity comes, you can succeed in the attack, now it is important for us not to be discouraged and not to be sad, we have to cheer up and be patient.

    You are so good, I believe in you, I support you in whatever you do, I will always be by your side, and we will work together to break into the next world.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your boyfriend has no money, he's sick, and you want to take him to the doctor, and he doesn't want to, which is, you probably need to figure out first whether he's really unwilling to use your money, or if there's another reason, and you have to prescribe the right medicine. You can test your boyfriend, the main purpose of the temptation is to see if he already knows what he has and doesn't want you to know, so he doesn't want you to take him to the doctor, if it is to solve the specific problem, maybe you need to ask your family for help, if not, he is more machismo, he feels that he is not only sick, but also needs to spend his girlfriend's money to see a doctor, he can't convince himself. That's when you can do that.

    1. Tell him clearly that if he doesn't obediently go to the hospital to see the cause of the headache, you will not agree to go out together, so that his behavior of saving money and eating instant noodles will be meaningless;

    2. Give a time limitTell him that you have to go to the hospital today and tomorrow to see you, so that you can agree to the previous plan to go out together, let him understand that you are serious about this matter, let him understand that in front of good health, the plan to play, the previous commitment, money and face are not important;

    3. A gentle knifeFinally, tell him that now because he is worried about his body, he is also very chest tight, and he also needs to go to the hospital to see, and let him accompany you to have a look, so as to solve this problem.

    Above, hope that helps.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If a man is a man, in fact, sometimes he may not need a woman to give him money, because this will hurt his self-esteem or face, and a man can survive without money, after all, he is still young and will rely on himself for everything.

    Although he is now your boyfriend, I don't know what the financial problems are, but I think a girl should support him from the spirit or from all aspects, not necessarily to give him money, directly give him money, maybe he will feel embarrassed to reach out to ask for women's money, after all, men have face, and if a man has a little self-esteem or a sense of responsibility, he will never say to accept women's money, and it is his girlfriend's, so he will feel uncomfortable in his heart.

    So let's observe the boyfriend's movements in the later stage, if he really has no money, I believe he will also find a way, but he won't ask you for this kind of don't keep dwelling on this matter, we as girlfriends, in fact, we should also encourage the boy to do his best, I believe he can get through this difficulty. In the future, if he attends, I believe he will get better and better, and we can bless him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1 Someone who has come here tells you that this is a man's self-esteem, and he can solve it without spending a woman's money, no matter how bitter it is.

    2 He doesn't want you to follow him to save money.

    3 Sit down and talk to him about specific problems and help him in a different way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You are all student parties. If he really doesn't want your money, you can say lend him first, and it is estimated that your boyfriend has a strong self-esteem and does not want to use your money. You said he might be okay with the loan.

    If he still can't accept it, then tell his parents! If you can't get rid of the disease, you will be troubled if it becomes a serious illness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no way, only through persuasion, or telling your boyfriend's home. As long as you persuade him patiently and impress him with your sincerity, I believe that your boyfriend will definitely let you help him. Sincerity can move the heavens and the earth, let alone people.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's just say that the cost of seeing a doctor can be reimbursed by the insurance company. Because you insured him against accidental injuries and so on.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In this case, you should communicate with your boyfriend reasonably, after all, you are a couple, you can tell him not to care too much about these things, and he will also have a place to spend money with you in the future. In addition, you should tell your boyfriend that the body is the capital of the revolution, don't delay your body in order to save a little money, and some money should be spent.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is estimated that your boyfriend still feels very sorry for you, and is unwilling to spend your money, thinking that he should give you money to spend, there is a certain machismo, and he feels that he can't save face with your money, but then again, this just proves that he is a decent person, not a man who eats soft rice.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't give a boy the habit of spending your money, it will make him unmotivated, if you want to share the ups and downs with him, you have money to save yourself privately, and live a hard life with him, your money may be in a hurry in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You can tell him that he lent him to treat the disease first and return it to you when he recovers, or you say that you will tell his parents and make them worry about it? He's probably going to go to the hospital.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Maybe your boyfriend has a strong self-esteem, and you can tell him more about some minor illnesses.

    It doesn't seem to be a problem, but in fact, it may be a distress signal from the body, and for the sake of future health, you should also go to the hospital to check it out and make yourself feel at ease.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If your boyfriend doesn't have any money, you don't give it to him if he doesn't want it, it hurts his self-esteem, and as a man, he will definitely not ask for your money.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You said that you have to hand over your money to me in the future, this is my pocket money in advance to you, and then you have to hand over your living expenses every month, you must hand it over to your girlfriend, your boyfriend is sick, it should be your girlfriend who takes care of him and takes him to the hospital, don't you treat me as a girlfriend?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have nothing to do with money, the main thing is your feelings, and another one is a man, he wants your money, and he feels embarrassed, so he doesn't want your money.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Such a boy needs to be cherished! If you are sick and need to seek medical attention, it would be good if you could find a student who studied medicine and ask about the specific situation!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Your boyfriend is still a student, and his life depends on his parents. He could ask his parents for money.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You have done a very good job, cherish it, you are all kind people, you will definitely be happy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Asking for your money as your boyfriend may be a bit faceless for him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't want to eat soft rice, I don't want you to look down on you.

    to tell his parents to threaten him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    1. Change the cover pole enough to pay the thunder core.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    People are sometimes like two extremely tired hedgehogs, hugging each other because of the cold, but because they each have thorns on their bodies, the thorns make each other uncomfortable, so they choose to leave a distance, but they can't stand the cold, so they get together again. After several tortures, they finally found the most suitable distance, which could not only obtain each other's body temperature without being stabbed.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Summary. Knowing that you are short of money but not helping you, either he doesn't have the financial strength and can't help you, or he doesn't want to help you, and he also feels that he has no future with you and has no responsibility to help.

    knows that you are short of money but doesn't help you, or he doesn't have the financial strength to help you, or he doesn't want to help you, or he doesn't want to help you, and Qin Juqing feels that he has no future with you and has no responsibility to help.

    In fact, there is no situation for such a bureau Hong Natong, I am more inclined to the latter, he is unwilling to help you, and his feelings for you may be seen in this matter.

    Under normal circumstances, when your boyfriend knows that you are short of money and Mingda, even if he is not as rich as Shouhuai Sakura, he will try his best to come up with some of his savings to help you, but from what you said, he knows that you are short of money and lack of help You can actually see that the relationship is not so strong, and he values money more in feelings and money than your feelings.

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