My boyfriend is very flowery, but I still love him so much? What am I going to do?

I understand your feelings very well, because my boyfriend used to be very flowery, so I chose to leave, at first my heart really hurts, but slowly you will forget, you will find that you can no longer cry for him, because it is not worth it. The so-called country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, for the sake of your own future life, it is better for you to let go.

Give up There are people I liked before, but then I slowly forgot it, I always feel that it is impossible to forget when I like it, it will be very painful when we are separated, but as time goes by, everything will slowly fade away, and all the pain will be healed.

What do you love about him? What is there to love.

He alone is "flowery".

You can get rid of him.

I don't think you still want to break up, so as not to be sad in the future People with flowers are not a good thing at first glance Why bother to entangle You also said that you like to pull temporarily, after a long time, and you saw a beautiful girl, you just threw it aside, called him like this, and told him earlier, dump him, let him often be dumped, I still admire you, such people also love, it's really okay.

There are no people who do not change their minds, let it be.

Flowery men are even more unreliable, and will only make you sad, and deflating may be a better start.

Huaxin is really a man's nature, don't invest too much in him, it's you who hurts yourself.

When you love, you love, you also said, now that he is your boyfriend, then he is at least still yours now.

Communicate with him and let him know that you really, really love her. Let him know. It's enough to have you as a woman, you can definitely take on this task, you can be considerate of him. I want him to know that as long as he has you, it's fine. Gradually, he will understand.

If you really marry him, I estimate that your happy life will not last long! Men who are not dedicated to their feelings are unreliable! ~

You don't need a reason to love someone, if he has you in his heart, then let her go! Because he has you in his heart.

You are asking for hardship, or you can control him, and what kind of love does the person who is scheming talk about?

My former boyfriend was very flowery, he said he was just playing with them, so I put up with him for 3 years, and the result was a breakup, such a man is not worth our nostalgia, give up.

I think you have to figure out first, are you the kind of person who doesn't care about eternity and only cares about what you once had? It's time to figure it out.

A person with a heart of flowers will not love any girl, only himself.

Try to have a new boyfriend, and there are many more handsome and dedicated boys.

There are 2 pieces of information in this, one is that my boyfriend is very attentive, and the other is that I like him very much.

But what, what does the boyfriend care about? To what extent, the subject did not express it clearly.

1. To what extent? What should I do?

2. The second situation: your boyfriend is very attentive and likes to show mercy everywhere, and you like him very much, what should you do in this case?

First of all, you have to tell your boyfriend that you can't accept his mercy everywhere, and if your boyfriend cares about you, he will naturally restrain himself. If your boyfriend happens to care about the relationship between you, and after you tell him, he changes his ways, then congratulations, you have gained a relationship.

He is very attentive, which means that he is a big turnip, not a person who is wholeheartedly good to you. No matter how much you like him, you can't change his nature, in the end he doesn't have any loss, if you are still obsessed, and he will consume, the happiness of a lifetime will be ruined in your hands, use your brain to think about it, it's too unworthy and too undeserved.

You are still young and beautiful, he agreed to be your boyfriend, he doesn't fancy your person, but your appearance, don't think that he will always be good to you, saying that he must be dating you and other girls behind your back, hiding from you to enjoy his happiness.

It's a woman who can't stand him doing this, the man with a heart is full of sweet words, and the girl loves this mouthful, a few nice words will be put in her heart, and she will pay for his love without hesitation, but do you know that when you see a man who loves one, he will never give true love, and he will not take the initiative to marry you and give you happiness.

Waiting indefinitely, there are still a few years left in your youth, do you think he is the prince charming you are looking for for a lifetime in your life, don't be delusional, it's impossible. Like him to have a fart, he won't take your affection, he will only use your love for him to hurt you doubly, I know, this situation is not what you want at all, let alone what your relatives want to see.

For you, for your family, when your liking for your boyfriend is not unforgettable, please leave him, forget his hypocritical kindness to you, return to your normal life circle, and then find someone who is really good to you and wants to hold hands with you for a lifetime, okay? The world is so big, there will always be a right person, when you meet a wrong person, please refuse ruthlessly, give up decisively, only know how to let go of the opportunity to have a better time, do you understand?

It's better to break up with him, such a man is not worth getting along with, whether in terms of EQ or IQ. None of them work. Girls must not let themselves suffer losses when making friends in this life, they must make a person who is worthy of entrusting for life, and they will have to live a lifetime in the future, they must not let their good youth be wasted on an unworthy person, otherwise they don't love themselves too much, they must think about it carefully, and they can't be confused.

Bikinis are a lifelong thing.

If your boyfriend is very attentive and you like him, then there is a way.

As the saying goes, "Men don't spend, women don't love." "I think the boys with flowers are all attractive, otherwise he wants to be hearty and powerless. Those boys who can take the initiative to admit their hearts are really commendable, at least it shows that they are very honest.

In my opinion, most of those flowery boys, in fact, just love to play a little, rather than real abuse and no bottom line, if your flowery boyfriend really wants to be with you, it means that the person he really loves in his heart is still you, not someone else. That's enough, because love is the foundation of love, and love should not only be said out loud, but also should not care about any doubts and be brave together.

So I think as long as you still love him, you should give him a chance to agree to be with him, love needs tolerance, not rigid dogma, isn't it? I think he'll know how much you've struggled to make this difficult decision. I will definitely change my ways, be good to you, and no longer do anything sorry for you.

It is the nature of a boy to have a heart of flowers, and if a boy does not pay attention to it, the ghost will not believe it. The courage to admit that he is devoted to it shows that he loves you, and it shows that he is definitely willing to make changes for you. As long as you promise to continue to be with him, I think a man, will know why, it is not easy to meet the right person, it is even more difficult to meet a person who does not abandon and is good to himself, for these are not easy, he must know how to cherish, that is, to change his own heart, control his heart, and be good to you wholeheartedly.

For the sake of your love, in order not to regret yourself, you should give your honest boyfriend a chance, and also give yourself a chance, be with him!

Then you can see how well he performs.

If he's the kind of person who is still very attentive when he's in love with you, has an affair with other girls, and confesses to you just to be more blatant. Then I think it's better to break up, this is really a bit insulting, I think this kind of person is hopeless, he himself doesn't have a basic moral concept, you really better endure the pain for a while and break up quickly, unless you are the kind of harem woman who thinks you can share a boyfriend with several other women. Then I don't want to persuade you, under normal circumstances, I think if you are a girl with a bottom line, break up quickly, don't fall into it again, let him fall in love with whoever he wants, and don't harm you.

There will probably be two situations like this, and maybe there is a third situation, that is, he also had an affair with someone when he was in love with you, but now he repents, this situation mainly depends on whether you will mind, if you don't mind, you can give him a chance, if you mind, then don't embarrass yourself.

It's really laughable to see this question.

A man says he's very attentive and wants to be with you. It means to give you a vaccination—"I told you a long time ago, I'm very careful." You are going to be with me, then don't blame me when I get involved everywhere and step on several boats in the future, I told you a long time ago, I am such a person.

What should you do with such a person? Let him roll as far as he goes.

Is flower heart a good word? In my opinion, it is synonymous with lack of responsibility and irresponsibility. Are you embarrassed to say that you are distracted, thinking that you are the male protagonist of the Mary Sue drama?

When he says this, he is asking you, would you like to share his so-called boyfriend with others? Moreover, since he is now your boyfriend, and he admits to you that he is careless, it means that he may have done something to be sorry for you. He didn't apologize to you, and he didn't have any sincerity, so he sent you away with a broken reason of "I'm just a flower"?

Your boyfriend's attitude towards you, and the question you asked, is enough to show that you are a very weak girl, so weak that you will not protect yourself when you are bullied like this. A girl, only self-love can make others love you. Emotional matters need to be understood and tolerated, but everything cannot be tolerated.

In particular, some issues of principle should be insisted on when it should be adhered to, and it should be tough when it is necessary to be tough. Blindly forbearance and weakness, there is no bottom line, and you can only let others gain an inch.

As for your boyfriend, since he can say such things to you, he doesn't plan to be with you properly. So, how far away can such a person be.

I don't know if it's useful to say this, but once some people are used to being weak, it is difficult for them to suddenly become tough. Good luck.

There are people whose love is the only one, and their love is only given to those who let themselves love. And some people's love is fraternity, their love is not the only one, there may be several people to share. For the latter case, we often call it Huaxin.

So what should we do if our significant other is flowery?

First of all, I think you should look at your personality first. Some people have a more tolerant personality and can choose to forgive each other no matter what situation they face. However, most people do not tolerate such behavior.

If you're tolerant, it may not have that much of an impact, but if you're like most people, then it's up to you to look at something else.

Then, see how much the other person is interested. In fact, many people are flowery, but the degree of flowering is different. After many people have a girlfriend, they still like to look at other beautiful girls, which also belongs to the flower heart, but this kind of flower heart can't have much impact.

It's like many girls who still like their idols after getting married, it's not a big deal.

If your personality is not so accommodating, and the other party is really attentive. As long as one of them is satisfied, then you should decisively choose to break up. Don't pay attention to the other party's nonsense that he still wants to be with him, since the other party can say this to himself, then who knows if he will say this to others?

And can I really tolerate the other party being with other women? Can you tolerate the picture of the other party eating and chatting with a strange woman? I'm sure many people can't stand it, and when you're with each other, this kind of image will appear a lot.

And if the other party can like someone else, maybe one day he will start to hate himself, and what should he do at that time, isn't it still himself who hurts.

Then you have to think about whether you need this relationship, if you feel that this relationship will bring you pain, and you will feel that you have to watch your boyfriend all the time in this relationship, then break up decisively! After all, it's hard to be happy with this kind of boy, but you think it doesn't matter, it's hard to say if you can be together in the future anyway, since he is attentive, he plays with his and I play with mine, if we don't delay each other, then you can choose to continue to be with him.

I very much disagree with you being with him, I also very much agree with the other party's courage to admit that he is happy, generally few boys will take the initiative to admit their own flowers, since you already know that the other party is a person with a heart, if you want to continue to be with each other, you must know that this relationship is very fortunate, the boy will be caught off guard and give you a green hat, you may see him chatting with other women at any time, you will be in a very bad mood, every day is very tired and depressed, why bother? It's better to break up early, and the long pain is better than the short pain. But I don't rule out that some girls are very fun-loving and like to make more friends, so this situation is casual, anyway, everyone loves to play, and it doesn't matter if they are attentive or not.

So depending on what you think, whether you really need this relationship, you think about what will happen to you after you are with each other, you may be very sad after this breakup, but your boyfriend is not necessarily, he will immediately develop the next one, and you can't see him sad at all.