I ve just fallen out of love and want to know if my state of mind is still normal? Also, what exactl

I'm also a student, but I think why do those adults express their hatred for early love? Early love is beautiful, but first love is not perfect. It should be said that we didn't understand love at that time, so the frivolity of youth was exchanged for irreparable pain.

My ex-boyfriend and I had a similar experience to you, but I was with him anyway. Of course, in the end, we broke up because we were not at the same school.

I feel that your mood is actually normal、Mi someone can forget their love。 No matter how deep the shadow is, it is still a wound in our hearts. But if you can't forget, stop pretending to forget, and you can distract yourself with other things so that you can face the facts.

Tomorrow, you can pretend you didn't see it, or just say hello. Since everyone is embarrassed, there is no need to deliberately maintain anything.

This comforts you as well as myself.

It's normal to have early love, and I was one of them, when I was in my second year of junior high school. Although you don't have a clear description, what kind of relationship you have now. However, if you like someone, don't miss it, cherish it, otherwise you will regret it in love.

You have to know one thing: "The building near the water gets the moon first", no matter what two people do together, whether they study or work, they will fall in love for a long time. If you focus on studying and ignore her now, when you find a job and go to her again, she will no longer be the person you promised you at the beginning.

It's impossible for you to have the best of both worlds, either grab a career and give up love, or give up for love. However, a person has no economic foundation, and the love he gets will not be happy [unless you are a rich second generation] "If the great cause of manhood is not accomplished, how can you talk about Fengyue" [In short, now you think that you can be together now and will be happy in the future, then you should not miss her, and you must be with her at all costs; On the contrary].

That can only be said that you don't cherish it, if you have decided how to do it, then do it according to your own wishes, when you see her, it is the same as usual, there is no need to deliberately hide anything, after a long time, your feelings for her will fade, it doesn't matter, you are still so young, you don't know what true love is, you can only say that you appreciate her and have a good impression. Give yourself half a year and you'll be fine.

It's normal to be uncomfortable. But as a person who has come over, I want to tell you that now you must put your studies first, and let this relationship with her be a thing of the past, when you look back on it after a few years, it is also a very beautiful thing, really, love really does not have to be together!

You're in adolescence, and your hormones are at work. Everyone goes through this stage, and the main thing in this period is to put learning first.

The best way to get out of the shadow of a broken love is to move on to the next relationship as soon as possible, so that you can have something to do and forget about the past.

You are really a silly girl, your ex already has an object, and you are still standing still, which shows that you have not completely let go of this relationship, so you will be so entangled, for the sake of your future, you have to learn to give up, actively participate in various activities, divert your attention, keep yourself busy, and your mood will become better, and your lucky male god will appear, come on.

How can you get out of the shadow of a broken love? You are so sad at the thought that your ex has a partner and you cry eight times a month? Then find something else to do, occupy your mind and don't think about it, what else is there to think about when people have a new love so soon. Don't!

Cry when you're sad, don't suppress yourself, don't force yourself to forget, it's useless, every experience is in the past, it will always pass, I haven't come out of the 9-year relationship breakup for almost a year, so what? Cry when you want to, eat and sleep, work and work, don't force yourself to forget, let it be.

It's useless, there's no way, time is the best medicine for everything, after a long time, you will slowly forget about this matter, you can try to keep yourself busy, because there is something to do, you can't think about it, anything, if you have nothing to do, watch the series, watch the Journey to the West, watch the Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Don't watch those love dramas.

If you want to open a little, do more other things so that you don't have time to think about him, or find another one, forget about him, since he has already found the next one, why keep thinking about him, bye bye, the next one is more obedient.

You can choose to do something else to distract you, or you can hang out with friends and forget about it.

Every time you're sad, think about your ex and let it go, why are you still struggling here? There is no good medicine, only time to mend your wounds. Actually, when you talked about it.

Leave for some time at the rendezvous.

I think a month or so after falling out of love is the most difficult time, of course, this time varies from person to person, mainly depending on the person's personality, if you are more introverted, closed yourself, it may be half a year, will be immersed in this failed relationship, if it is Vientiane Hui, relieve yourself, it may be a week or two.

I once fell in love once in college, we met two people on the Internet separated the two places, that was the first time I fell in love, Shi Zheng was full of unconfidence, chatting on the Internet was very good, and then he came to my school, at that time it was only half a year before we graduated, and then he graduated, came to my city to find a job, not so good job, just hope we can be together but the reality is cruel, their family hopes that he can go back, and invite me to live together, I was very tormented because I was a very traditional person at heart, and I didn't want to be too far away from home. Once I took that step, I was surprised that I might only be able to return home for half a year or a year, and a specific problem corroded me again and again, and I was very miserable, until I regretted that one day she told me that she went on a blind date, and I suddenly felt that I was abandoned, and told my friends at the time that no one would always wait for anyone?

Later, my relatives also introduced me to a few blind dates, but at that time I still did not withdraw from the previous relationship, facing others are a state of escape, and did not open my heart to accept others, during that period of time, I usually locked myself in the house, thinking about it, I burst into tears, until I met my current husband, the situation improved.

Therefore, falling out of love is something that many people will experience, some things, whether they are objective factors or subjective, factors, resulting in broken love, we should adjust as soon as possible, adjust ourselves, and meet the happiness that truly belongs to you with the best self.