If a child has suicidal tendencies, what should parents pay attention to in their daily education?

If a child threatens his parents with suicide repeatedly, parents should not panic again and again, but should deal with it calmly, and do not let the child win every time because of the threat, but guide the child to threaten suicide The method does not work, and there is no need to toss others to toss themselves.

Tell children that there is only one life, let children correctly understand the reports of adolescent suicides on the **, do not denigrate the deaths of others, but also let children get reflection on these events.

The defects of children reflect the deficiencies in the process of parental education, parents should empathize, grasp the pain points in the child's heart, give more companionship, and do not completely stand on the opposite side of the child.

When this happened, it only proved one problem: the communication channels between parents and children were all locked, and children could only express their demands in the most extreme ways. Criticizing a child or a parent from a preset position is just a vent for emotions.

It is recommended that parents first learn to communicate with their children in a truly equal attitude, to first figure out their own positioning, do not condescend to make your comments, control their emotions, do not get angry, do not shout, calm and stable speech, appropriate wording, politeness, and truly open their hearts to communicate with their children.

The best I can think of in the face of my child's suicidal tendencies is to be "gentle and firm" - to tell you clearly what it means to die, and to tell you clearly that even if I can't compromise in the end, this matter will definitely be resolved satisfactorily, and I will be with you all the way, and I love you.

The growth of children is inseparable from the four elements of cultivation: wealth and law. There is not much to say about the role of money.

Fa is the way to educate children, and it refers to the environment in which children live. Act skillfully and in a targeted manner. It's easy to be targeted, but it's too difficult to have skills.

Parents need to know their child, know his usual behavior patterns and personality traits, and also know what foundation has been laid for communication in the previous educational process.

Tell your child that if there is anything, Mom and Dad will carry it with you and him.

Parents can't put a lot of pressure on their children when they are usually educated, because the pressure on their children is particularly high, which will lead to the idea of suicide in children, and there is more tolerance of children, don't often criticize children, and then be sure to care about children's mental health, so that children can be optimistic.

When educating children, it is best not to yell at children, so that children's emotions will fluctuate greatly, and do not say some particularly excessive words, but communicate more with children and know how to comfort children.

1.Be sure to pay attention to the method of education, 2Also pay attention to the usual way of communication, 3Parents' attitudes towards their children, 4The child's usual behavior, 5The surroundings and so on.

Parents should ignore their child's threatening suicidal thoughts

The child has curious, exploratory suicidal thoughtsThe child not only tells his parents that he wants to die, but also always stands in a more dangerous place, such as standing at the window and looking down, and tells the parents that if he jumps, then the child's suicidal thoughts belong to the nature of curiosity and exploration, mainly curiosity about unknown things.

Parents' handling method: Parents can directly take a watermelon, throw it down from the window in front of him, and then grab the child to see the downstairs, the broken watermelon, and then tell the child that life is actually as fragile as this watermelon, if he jumps from the window, then his head will be the same as the watermelon, fall to pieces, so that the child will no longer be curious about death, let alone want to explore death, and naturally will not threaten parents with suicide.

When a child threatens a parent with suicide, parents should understand what the child's purpose is, whether it is to avoid learning or something else. If communication is ineffective, you can try to find psychological counseling for help.

At this time, parents should take it seriously, the child has such thoughts, indicating that he is now caught in a dead loop, very bad, parents should enlighten their children, understand their thoughts, and don't blindly beat and scold the child.

Parents should tell their children that such behavior is very bad, and that such behavior will lead to family disharmony, and it will also lead to divorce, and parents should strictly stop their children's behavior.

I think the best thing to do is to stabilize the child first, and then let the child accept the psychology**.