Will we be able to live happily as we used to

You are indeed very suspicious, your husband met with him and his first love, and you have become like this, then you say that in today's society, there are so many extramarital affairs, how tired you have to live! The most important thing at the moment is to find out if there is any abnormal relationship between your husband and his ex-girlfriend, if not, you don't have to torture yourself so much, people live in this world and need to deal with all kinds of people, including men and women.

Adjust your mentality, deal with others more, broaden your horizons and mind, in fact, if people want to change their minds, they will change, and whether you are nervous or not will not affect the progress of things.

Approach life with a normal mindset and you will live well.

Since you are a husband and wife, you must trust, and since your husband has not done anything at all, then you should not be too careful.

In fact, a good marriage and relationship depend on two operations.

Now that you have your children, you should believe in your own charm and your husband's personality. Relaxing is the most important thing you should do right now.

Generally, first love is the most beautiful, but generally first love is the most fruitless, and now that you are married to your husband, he belongs to you, don't be afraid, it will be good after a while :) I wish you happiness

I guess it's your own problem.

Husbands and wives should trust each other, shouldn't they?

You also know that it's the first love, that's in the past.

Don't worry. Adjust yourself and you'll be fine.

Suspiciousness is a sign of lack of confidence in oneself, and you have to surpass the other party to win. Without competition, there will be no development, and if we fall behind, we will be beaten. The old man was right.

You don't like to hear it, do you? Okay, one more trick.

Another one, see if he still has the energy.

I'm having a similar problem, and I always feel like my husband is still thinking about his ex-wife.

This is because of behavioral psychology, to put it bluntly, it is human nature, just let it be, if you think about it, don't force yourself to forget, as the saying goes, if you think enough, you don't want to.

Don't forget, you know that she's not good, she deserves not to want you, you're so handsome, so cool and so likable, a better vote is waiting for you, so don't get entangled, if you don't hurry up, you'll be brushed away!

She should have dumped you in the first place, right? You're just unwilling, time will dilute everything, find something to keep yourself busy.

The deeper the love, the deeper the hate, and it is normal to have hatred.

You want her to have a bad time, cry and come back to you again, and say I'm sorry, I didn't forgive me before.

You are not convinced by being dumped by her, you think that she doesn't want you to be her loss, so you will be happy when you see that she is not doing well!

That's revenge, and the best way to forget about her is to find another girlfriend.

Normal, maybe she's hurt you before.

Kicked! That's the mentality!

Normal, how much hatred and how deep love is!!

You have the mentality of crossing the river and tearing down the bridge.

Show you still love it! Either you're starting to hate her, or you just think you deserve it! This one can be bigger.

Of course, because he didn't make a good life for losing you.

You don't realize that you're only fit to be a confidant. Similar people are suitable for playing together, and complementary talents are suitable for dying together!

Do you think you can still be friends after separation? Your last sentence has already indicated that you want to give up, and after the breakup, you can be the strangest friend, meet and say hello, at most.

It will still be embarrassing, or less contact, to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

It's really hard to decide on something like that.

That's what people think, it's up to you.

Because you don't like him and think it's a burden to be with him, now that you've broken up with him, you're relieved both in life and mentally, so you're happier than before.

That's when you find the right direction and make the right choice!

Many of your inner desires before were suppressed and you couldn't release yourself, but now you know your true self.

In fact, what we do is about mentality, and many things can't be done as you wish! Of course, I've known so many friends in the inner years, and the confession was rejected a little.

Embarrassing or embarrassing! But the emotional thing is consensual! The refusal party believes that there will be his or her own reasons!

As long as you can understand that you will not be rejected as a grievance, and can face it calmly again, I believe you are still good friends! As the saying goes: a lover doesn't make a friend!

Wishing you a long time in your friendship!

Tell each other that they have figured it out, and the two may not be so suitable, no longer obsessed with this, and hope to return to the beginning.

It's easy to deal with when you're rejected, take the initiative to talk, do the same things as before, you can't be embarrassed, and you're going to become friends.

This kind of thing is inevitable, after you confess and are rejected, there will be a gap between each other, and she will not get too close to you anymore because she wants you to know that it is impossible between you.

Make it clear, otherwise something will happen in the future.

Goodbye is also a friend, don't be too stingy.

Of course, I should review it to see what I did wrong, and then apologize to her, what else can I do.

1.Calm down and think about whose fault it is;

2.If there is no one who is right and who is wrong, then it is a question of personality, think about whether this personality difference can be understood and tolerated; and whether it is worth the friction you have over it, and may even cause serious emotional problems;

3.Maybe she is also very hurt and aggrieved, and she also wants to solve this matter, as a man, you have to be generous, find an appropriate time to take the initiative to communicate with her well, and understand each other's true thoughts.

First of all, we must find out why we quarreled, we will not quarrel for no reason, take her things seriously, treat everything, review and review, and cherish love.

The novelty has passed and needs to be run-in.

Review yourself, and even if you are not wrong, admit your mistakes to her.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let Bei Qingyuan learn to give up, bury yesterday in the bottom of our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun. Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up and being poor is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door anymore, or hit your head and bleed until you don't wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Hehe, me too. But I've been there, I'm working now, really, this position gives us more. How to say, in college, it's better to learn more things and exercise more.

If you're not happy, find a few like-minded friends. I know a lot of things and details, but I still have a sense of accomplishment after every event. Be sure to stick to your hobbies, that's the answer.

Let it be, think about it, it won't change anything, and you can be happy without thinking about it.