We ve been together for five years, and she said they treat me like a relative.

Well, classmate. Although it is a bit hurtful, but the hope is very slim, first of all, she is a college student, and you say that she is a very good girl, so naturally in the university there is no shortage of boys like you who have feelings for her, second, you are a jobless vagrant, the reality is cruel, you should fight for yourself, men must have their own achievements, third, you are a long-distance relationship, and only once a month there is a chance to meet, often come and go although there will be a lot of contradictions, but too far gradually naturally estranged, fourth, You have been talking for 5 years, but as early as a year ago she didn't feel for you, which means that you are far away, fifth, she said treat you as a relative, you have changed, well, in fact, it is an excuse, but whether you have your own reasons, it depends on you, well, in fact, I personally do not agree with early love, but really fall in love is to get married, this sentence I agree more, I hope that you find everything about yourself, and understand what you need and make changes, I believe It's still possible for you to look for the love that will be your first love, and white-headed.

good luck 。

In college, there are all kinds of people, and you don't often accompany her, she is not comfortable, she is actually reluctant to let you go, I hope you can accompany her as often as before, come on, there is still hope.

It's hard to move an inch without money, so you'd better change yourself first.

Heart disease also requires cardiac medicine.

The key is to see her intentions, if she can't let go of your 8 years of love life. From there, you can talk to her and see if you can get it back.

Usually women stay alone in the empty room for too long, and you communicate too little, which will cause this kind of thing. It's also your own fault, and learn from it.

Is it already lost ?

I haven't kept it for eight years, and I still regret it this time?

Then she is going to something else, money or something, she has given up on you, and it is very ruthless for women to leave, or people say that it is the most poisonous woman's heart.

I advise you to give up and find your future again. Good luck.

The first thing you have to do is spend a lot of time digging deep into your faults. Okay, you go first, find the question and come back to ask.

1, this matter has nothing to do with how many years you have been together, and it has nothing to do with the fact that you have helped them, and of course, it has nothing to do with whether you are married or not. Because the above phenomena you mentioned cannot solve any practical problems at all. Complaining is not the end goal, but to solve the actual problem.

2, to give you an idea, there are only two possibilities for her to retreat, first, the conditions are not allowed, so it really can't help you. Instead of spending all your energy complaining, it is better to find another way to solve the problem. Second, you don't have enough faith in you or the relationship between you.

It is not easy to make a rational and accurate judgment in (1 and 2) points, so try your best.

3. Have more mouths, use more empathy, and start from yourself for anything, any idea, called self-grasping. Self-grasping people rarely go to the hearts of others, and how can they know what others think if they can't go to the hearts of others.

Hope the above ideas can help you. Once you have an idea, you will know what to do.

Don't be sad for him, let him give you a reasonable explanation, that's it if you're not married, after you get married, his family doesn't take you seriously, this time you have to teach him a lesson, and if you can't break up.

Dude, you must first learn to understand people's hearts, it is good for you. I used to be like you, I have deceived people, I have learned how to see through a person's heart, see people's greed, human instinct, human heartlessness, human aggression, human arrogance. People are like computer systems, and then they are composed of small software one by one, and you have to disassemble it one by one to analyze and understand.

If it's a problem that money can solve, he won't help you, and this kind of person doesn't want it.

Summary. Through this passage, it can be clearly felt that this sentence is full of complaints and complaints, and at the same time, there is a slight unwillingness.

What are you talking about? After all, you've lived together for more than ten years, and I also have family affection for you+!I'm not.

Through this passage, it can be clearly felt that this sentence is full of complaints and complaints, and at the same time, there is a slight unwillingness.

Kiss, is it convenient to tell the teacher what happened?

are about to get divorced.

This must be a snippet of your quarrel, right?

What is the reason for this?

Is it that he doesn't understand you?

It seems, she's doing this very well, is she your ex-wife?

Not divorced yet. Cooling-off period of one month.

So, are you trying to get her back, but you don't know where to start?

Yes. Let's talk about the reason for the divorce first. Is it emotional discord? Or do they not trust each other? Or is there a third party involved?

Find the cause first, and then talk about how to solve the problem.

There was a third party before. After a long time, there is no third party, and now there is no turning back to him. I can't put it down.

In this case, the relationship is still relatively difficult to repair.

Even if there is no third party, that feeling will not dissipate.

But you can try to talk to her about how you feel this month, and you will only find out about your problems when she is not with you.