Is it necessary for college students to be strict in their behavior?

Of course, it is necessary for college students to strictly regulate their behavior. When we go to college, although our life is freer and richer than that of high school, when we go to college, we are given the title of college students, and we are destined to pay attention to our words and deeds. As the saying goes, if you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight, when we appear in the public eye as a college student, we represent not only ourselves, but also the group of college students, if the words and deeds are inappropriate, it will give everyone a bad impression of the quality of college students, which is not advisable.

As a country known as the country of etiquette, etiquette is the essence of Chinese culture, which is very important. The group of college students is a very representative group, and as a member of it, we should pay more attention to our own behavior and establish a good personal image. It's like the incident of a female college student abusing a delivery person in a college some time ago, which rushed to the hot search of major platforms at the first time, which is not only a problem for this girl, but even reminiscent of the education problems of college students and schools.

It can be seen from this that the behavior of a college student has a great impact on the group of college students and society. What's more, although college students are students, they are basically adults in terms of age, so they should control their words and deeds well. Moreover, people's impression of a person is observed from his words and deeds, and if there is no good behavior, it is not only disrespectful to others, but also irresponsible to oneself.

Just like when looking for a job, in addition to academic qualifications, good words and deeds will also make a good impression, which is also an advantage.

Therefore, in general, it is important to strictly regulate your behavior, even if you are not a college student, you must be strict with yourself. But this is not just a verbal shout, you need to start paying attention to the small things around you, and slowly develop a habit, so you must take action.

As college students in contemporary society, we are unfamiliar with everything in society, especially the scholarly atmosphere on our bodies, and others can know at a glance that we are young people in school, because we have been on campus for almost fifteen or sixteen years, and we need to make some changes from one circle to another, especially our own behavior.

First of all, start from the outside, no matter what you go, you must be clean, if you can change to a stable hairstyle, and dressing is not so dazzling and cool, it is best to be plain, the color of the clothes is matched between black and dark, the color of the whole body is best not to exceed three, less than three is a bit monotonous, more than three will be a little unsuitable, this is an era of looking at the face, appearance is the first impression of people, so everyone must pay attention to their appearance, the first impression is the appearance.

After talking about the outside, say the inside, the second impression is the voice, when talking to people, the volume should not be too high, let people hear it, and speak slowly, so that it will show their own moral cultivation, everyone looks at you through speech and behavior, speak slowly, don't worry, and, you must be polite, politeness will increase the impression of others on us, before you have a deep understanding of you, your behavior is a mirror that reflects yourself, everyone likes to interact with friendly people, When speaking, the eyes look into the eyes of the other person, we must also have eye contact, as the saying goes, the eyes are the windows of the soul. In the process of interacting with others, our faces reflect our attitude towards the occasion, and often keep smiling, which is a sign of goodwill, even if we are not very interested in this topic, but we must also signal to others, respond to others' words, this is our most basic respect for others, and our faces must not show boring, annoyed these expressions, because others show you what they think is the best, maybe it is nothing in your case, but it shows that others value you, To respect others is to respect yourself.

I think it's necessary to be strict about my behavior, I think college students must be adults, they must have a lot of things that need to be restrained and corrected by themselves, I think it is very necessary.

It is necessary. College is not just about learning knowledge.

There is also self-cultivation. Character.

Improve your temperament.

Enrich your knowledge.

Broaden your horizons.

in order to go to the next level.

As an individual in a civilized society, every citizen has the responsibility to restrain his words and deeds in life, and college students who have received higher education should take it seriously and make their behavior more standardized. As a member of society as a whole, our personal life is inseparable from the communication with the people around us, and our words and deeds are not only personal behaviors, but also affect the people around us. Everyone wants to live in a civilized and warm environment, and institutions of higher learning, which are respected as "ivory towers", should become a model for "building a civilized environment".

Admittedly, there is a lack of role models for student behaviour at universities. Just the teacher's hard work in the etiquette class, or a few leaflets of "standardized behavior", the effect on the cultivation of standardized behavior is still very limited. The cultivation of norms mainly stems from the habits in life.

Etiquette courses and codes of conduct tell students what civilization is, and only a civilized school atmosphere can make students consciously abide by civilization. Only by going deep into the life of students and advocating standardized education can we develop standardized behaviors among students. The Faculty of Humanities draws cartoons depicting scenes such as "queues in the cafeteria", "dormitory hygiene depends on everyone", and "crossing traffic lights and walking on zebra crossings", which is the embodiment of penetrating into the lives of students and promoting the formation of a civilized atmosphere.

However, the publicity of only cartoons and posters is still somewhat insufficient, and in order to make civilization a habit, it is necessary for schools to use administrative means to carry out serious management in the early stage, supervise uncivilized behavior, and form a demonstration effect. When the canteen eats, the canteen can draw a queue prompt line on the ground, and the staff will kindly remind those who cross the line and cut the line; Self-study in the study room, arranging patrols by the management of the teaching building, for loud noises, it is not necessary to verbally remind them, and the silent gaze is enough to make a self-respecting college student immediately understand and quiet down.

The students will also cherish the good atmosphere formed under strict management, at this time, they have consciously maintained this atmosphere because of the "collective effect", and after a period of time, the management personnel no longer have to bother to supervise and remind, and the students have also developed standardized behavior habits.

This is for sure, as college students, our words and deeds when we go out not only represent ourselves, but also represent our parents and the school. Strictly restraining one's bad words and deeds is also a sign of respect for oneself and others.

In college life, we should discipline ourselves in those aspects. As a person who has come over, I have the following points to share with you, I hope it will be helpful to you who are about to enter college.

First of all, we must learn personal self-restraint and sharing. Do a good job of our own estate planning, because in some high school or junior high school, we have developed a large amount of money to spend, never consider whether the money is enough, and after going to college, we must know how to manage money, because we can no longer just ask our parents for money as before, or spend money with a large amount, because we must know how to reasonably plan our living expenses when we go to college. This can not only make parents feel that we are mature, but also train us to live in society in the future, and financial problems.

When I was in high school, because it was under unified control, I didn't think about the concept of financial management at all, but since I went to college, I realized how important financial management is, because when I was in college, my parents gave me enough living expenses, but I spent it in less than a month and I didn't want to ask my parents for money anymore, but I couldn't help but be humiliated by my parents for a period of time and then successfully got the money, which made me feel humiliated at the age of almost 20. So you must learn to do your own estate planning.

The second is to do a good job of planning your own time, and controlling your own time is the best requirement and constraint for yourself, because there is a lot of free time to plan in college life. If we don't plan, then we say that the rhythm of life will be disrupted, and the study will also disrupt the unplanned time, resulting in a decline in grades.

If we can do that, then we have successfully disciplined ourselves. Take an example of my own self-requirements: 1

Don't miss every class, every evening self-study, study carefully during the evening self-study, and don't play with your mobile phone. 2.Freshmen and sophomores talk less, read more, and go to the library more to read.

3.The freshman and sophomore years are the time to learn professional knowledge, don't fall in love, don't have objects, socialize with people more, and learn to help others make good friends. 4.

Learn more from the experience of every failure, learn from each other's strengths, be humble and courteous, be cautious and respectful, and be helpful. 5.It is necessary to pay attention to foreign languages, especially after speaking, and after passing the fourth or sixth level, it is necessary to pay attention to personal appearance, pay attention to nutrition, dietary hygiene, strengthen exercise, and have a good body, and stay up less late at night.

To have an independent mind, not to follow the crowd, to do meaningful things.

That's all I have to ask of myself, and I hope you can be helpful to you as well. Here is another negative example, there is one in our dormitory, he has no time planning of his own, he does not require himself to do what he must do, he plays games in the dormitory all day long and stays up late in professional classes, and has been in the concept of 60 points and long live, all day long as expected, he has a final exam in his freshman year, and he has failed the professional course, and the results of the make-up examination at the beginning of the school have not passed, so as a college student, he must be strict with himself, which is not only responsible for himself, but also responsible for the future.