I have a tsundere boyfriend, how do I get along with him?

You should try to change your boyfriend's personality and give your boyfriend a new understanding of himself, only then will he feel a little easier to get along.

If you have a tsundere boyfriend, the feelings need to complement each other and give in to each other, if he is tsundere, you can try to be spoiled and inadvertently express what you want to express to him.

Generally, the more arrogant the boy, the more reluctant to reveal his heart to the girl, at this time, as a girlfriend, we need to observe the boyfriend from the details, if there is an abnormality, we should take the initiative to ask them, and tell them that no matter what happens, we are there.

Be good to him, this kind of boyfriend needs you to look up to him and need you to worship him, so that the relationship can be harmonious.

The boy's family of origin, his way of getting along with his mother, will be projected into his mode of getting along with the opposite sex. If he has a strong, picky, and not easily satisfied mother, then he also lacks self-esteem when he gets along with the opposite sex in his heart, but this lack needs to be satisfied, so he will belittle you and find fault with you through his mother's way of belittling him and picking on him, so as to satisfy his hurt narcissism when he gets along with his mother.

<> to love one person is to make both people live with dignity, you have to ask him!The world is very big, there are people everywhere, some people like to play with their hearts, fight openly and secretly, and count people, and some people like to play tricks, which are inconsistent and harm people. He doesn't let you have dignity anymore, you haven't been together yet, wait together, obediently go home to wash clothes and cook, anyway, Lao Tzu has money and can support you.

He may have been unintentional and discouraged, and he may not have realized that his actions had hurt the other person, or he may have done it intentionally, and it was a courtship method that he thought was correct, first weakening the other person from the mental will, and then further gaining the other person's dependence.

So it's very important for a boyfriend, to have a steady personality, of course, it may be my idea, maybe the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, if you have any doubts in your heart, talk openly and honestly, why bother guessing each other in your heart, if you mind, tell him clearly, don't like his way of speaking, communication is the most important. But I think people with an arrogant personality are generally caused by inferiority, and low self-esteem is arrogant, and what you say has been hitting you, and I think the character is even more flawed.

It may be a personality problem, straightforward and don't think much, talk and do things directly without turning around, there is a kind of like called mutual torture, if the blow is positive energy is acceptable, but not good at expressing it in other languages, hit it to attract your attention, if it is negative energy, not only does it not help you, but also makes you unhappy, then give up!may hurt you, but he doesn't care, but the good heart lies in your approval.

In the long life of long-term communication with their partner, couples should have learned to see the essence through phenomena long ago. If the boyfriend is unhappy, it may be because he eats the vinegar of the female ticket, or the female ticket is unreasonable, unreasonable, late, etc., which is why boys always like to reason with girls when they quarrel, because when boys are angry, they think that it is because of some objective factors and that the other party is quite unreasonable. But boys measure more than girls, and it's much easier for girls to coax boys than for boys to coax girls.

If a boy gets along with his girlfriend in the process, especially when quarrelling, "talking about things" is simply a wave of life-threatening operations, girlfriends will not talk to you about things, and in terms of reasoning, she may be more concerned about your attitude. If you have a good attitude, it is possible to reason with her. But when a girl quarrels with the ticket, as long as she shows weakness, is reasonable, and pretends to be pitiful, she can get his forgiveness.

But there's a better way to try it out, and of course it's to make a sweet breakfast to coax him! Don't underestimate making breakfast, a man who can make breakfast is ** in the eyes of girls, a man who is responsible and takes care of his family.

Girls making breakfast for the object are also charming, gentle and virtuous in the eyes of boys. These beautiful halos don't need you to render, he saw your busy figure in the kitchen, and the distress rose to his heart, and all the anger disappeared.

Get up early for him, give up lying in bed, and be more divided in his heart, plus a delicious breakfast and some warm care as a wave of strong attack, this kind of flattery will make you look down on you, and the boy can feel your intentions, feel your seriousness and hard work, and naturally feel more sorry for you, and let you do everything.

Don't think about any tolerance, run-in, don't think about it, you can't bear it for a while, you must know that the country is easy to change, and it is difficult to change.

Finding someone who is satisfied is the right way, he can have some bad temper, he can have some bad habits, as long as it is within his tolerance.

If it is beyond the scope of one's own tolerance, give up decisively, otherwise it will be chaotic when the judgment continues.

On the other hand, if there is nothing beyond your tolerance, or if the shortcomings are harmless, then please discover more of the other person's strengths. In addition, you should also examine whether you are too harsh and hypocritical.

Tsundere boyfriend, let him get away.

It's a helpless and sweet experience.

1. He generally doesn't just say "I miss you".

I'm a very direct person, I will express any emotion directly, if I miss him, I will say it directly, if I feel that I love him very much, I will also say it directly. And my tsundere boyfriend is the complete opposite of me. He never said that he missed me, even if he was chatting on WeChat, he would never express it so bluntly.

Sometimes, when I force him to tell him, he just diverges from other topics.

His purpose was obviously to get my attention and get me to come out and talk to him. But if I ask him if he misses me, he will never admit it, and he usually says that he has collected a few new emojis today, and he thinks these emojis are very interesting and in line with my temperament, so he will send me the emoji packs. So he became the one who gave me a love bag.

2. Even if my boyfriend is jealous, he will always be stuffy in his heart.

Once, I was holding an event with a handsome guy who was good-looking, and that handsome guy was a little interesting to me, so he took good care of me during the event, would help me with my clothes, would make me pay attention to my step, would also make me slide carefully, etc. My boyfriend was jealous after he found out, so he didn't talk to me all the time, I took the initiative to find a topic, he was also very cold, after a few rounds of questioning, he revealed a little bit to me, fortunately I was smart, and immediately understood what he meant.

3. If I quarrel, he won't take the initiative to find me.

The two of us had a fight, and he was never the one to apologize. Although he felt that he was at fault, and he also wanted to reconcile with me, he always wanted to save face, he would not come to me to admit his mistakes, nor would he give me small gifts to make me happy, and he would not say funny things to amuse me. Every time, I took the initiative to go to him, and he would reconcile with me.

I think it's okay to joke appropriately, if a person accompanies another person for a long time, then that person will form a habit that two people will be together without asking for anything else, but hoping to spend the rest of their lives with the other person.

Encourage him to go out and see the outside world more, integrate more into this society, and he will slowly become humble when he encounters nails, Tsundere is because he wants to protect himself, Tsundere is because he is not strong enough.

Or when his proud peacock tail follows him, he will be lifted directly to the sky, and no matter what kind of request we make at this time, they will most likely agree. Or just knock his tail off and let them restrain their prideIf the boyfriend is indeed much better than himself, then we have to find the reason in ourselves, we must work harder to make ourselves better, so that we can become an evenly matched relationship. If the other party always has a sense of superiority in front of him, it is not conducive to the long-term development of the relationship between two people.

Ignore him, be indifferent enough to him, his pride will not help, make him realize that his pride is of little use to you.

The boyfriend is very proud, so at this time you should make yourself better and never lose to him, so that the two of you will be on an equal footing.

No matter how proud he is, he is also your object, and many times he still has to listen to you, you can let him do something you like and direct him to do it.

You have to use some facts to tell him that he doesn't have any proud capital, let him see clearly what he is like, and stop being narcissistic.

You can tell your boyfriend not to be so proud in front of yourself, and to be very capable in front of others.

Or coax. This kind of boy's inner activity may be all the time in his heart: A little cutie like me, what else can you do but spoil it.

Do you sometimes find this mad you? But what's the solution, you're just hanging on to him. I have to say that you must have a good temper.

Because, tsundere boys have these performances: they will not take the initiative to apologize when they quarrel; Dating is also all kinds of casual; The confession is a kind of twisting and euphemism ...... the eighteen bends of the mountain roadSometimes you don't think you've got a boyfriend, but you've got a little princess.

Don't want to go hairy? Then give him some "color" to see. Let him see that without you, I have another choice, what are you still messing about.

Let him feel a little crisis, don't really think that he is amazing. Even if it's a cold war, you have to hold on, wait for him to take the initiative to come to you, of course, the more arrogant your boyfriend is, the longer you have to wait, so if you want to cure his stinky problem, you have to be ruthless. Of course, you have to grasp the degree and let him know that there is such a rival in love, instead of letting him think that you have a leg with your rival.

The more arrogant the man, the better the face, if he comes to you, you can also give him a little step down.

1.When you meet Tsundere for the first time, don't expect him to have anything to do with you. At best, it's just a polite introduction to yourself.

Please don't talk too much to Tsundere when you meet for the first time, Tsundere will unceremoniously show her dislike for you. Of course, if Tsundere takes the initiative to talk to you, that's a different story.

2.When Tsundere takes the initiative to talk to you, please remember to answer. A few simple "um" sounds are fine. Tsundere is a good face, if he says it alone and you don't dump it, he will feel that he has lost face, even if he doesn't hate you, he will feel a little mustard in his heart.

Tsundere boyfriends are rare, but if you run into them, go with him tsundere.