As soon as a guest comes to the house, the child suddenly becomes unwell behaved, is this normal?

For today's parents, when they see a group of guests coming to their home, they will find that their children suddenly become unwell-behaved, which is a very normal phenomenon. The reason why parents have such feelings is more because of their children, when facing guests at home, children will think that some people are crazy. Especially when you see a large number of guests at home, children will want to be more enthusiastic about entertaining guests.

When the child sees children of the same age at home, the child will always want to take the children of the same age to play with all kinds of toys, and want to show the children the most fun toys to each other.

For today's parents, when educating their children, they will hope that their children can behave more well-behaved at home. However, I found that whenever there are guests at home, the child suddenly behaves more excitedly, and when doing things, he will also act out of an abnormal mentality. When parents see their children's performance in this regard, they will want to criticize their children from the bottom of their hearts, thinking that the children who come to the house should behave honestly.

However, it is found that the children's actions are often against the will of the parents, and even the parents will want to hit the children when they see that the children are a little naughty.

As a parent, when you see the house again, as long as there are guests, the children will become extremely excited. And this excitement is not only that the child's personality has become a little naughty, but also that the child will always fight with the other child's children when playing with children of the same age. Because the child wants to declare the dominance to the other child, especially when the other child's child is robbing the child's toy, the child is not willing to give way to the other party.

When parents take care of their children, most parents don't want guests to come to their homes, and most of them consider that children will always have all kinds of competing for toys when they play together. If you persuade your children to give up their toys to each other, you will also find that your children will be more aggrieved. Therefore, when there is no one at home, the children are relatively silent.

This is not normal, if parents always let it go, the child will become more and more unwell-behaved, and the child's personality will change a lot.

This is not normal, probably because the child wants to show himself in front of these guests, so it will. To become what it is now, you need to guide your children correctly and tell them what to do, so that they will be liked by everyone.

Of course it's normal. Because the child is very naughty, and the child feels that there is someone to protect him when there are guests at home, so he is not very obedient.

Some parents find that their children are not as well-behaved as usual when they come to the house, which is a very normal phenomenon. First of all, after the guests come to the house, most of the attention of parents will be on the guests, which is incomprehensible to children. Because children feel that their parents usually pay great attention to themselves, and if they don't pay attention to themselves today, it will definitely make children feel very unhappy.

So the child will be mischievous, hoping to attract the attention of his parents, because the child has a sense of security at this time.

I felt that my parents had other guests to receive, so I didn't care about myself.

This is a childish psychology of children, and it is also the truest expression of children's hearts, so parents can actually pay attention to their children when taking care of guests. For example, communicate with your child every once in a while, or let your child sit next to you, so that your child will feel more secure and will not deliberately mess around to attract the attention of parents.

In addition, some children are usually very noisy, and they don't particularly like to listen to the discipline of their parents, but after the guests come to the house, the children will be even more noisy. Because children know that as long as there are guests in the house, then parents will not casually accuse themselves, so children will choose to deliberately mess around at this time. Because the child thinks that even if he doesn't make trouble, his parents can't cure him, and for the child, the guest is equivalent to a shield for himself.

In addition to this, it may also be that children want to attract the attention of their guests and make them aware of their prominence, because children like to be praised by other people, and in front of their parents. If the children are noisy, it will attract the attention of the guests, and the guests will praise the children for the sake of face. Over time, it will cause children to have a wrong perception that they can be praised as long as they appear in front of other people.

This is because at this time he knows that his parents will not strictly manage him and will not criticize him, so he will do this.

It is because the child is very excited and very happy in his heart, so there will be such a situation, and the child is also very happy.

It was because the child's possessiveness was relatively strong, and he felt that after the guests came, it would affect his safe area, so he chose to resist in this way.

Because children are very expressive, and want to be praised by many people, this is a very normal phenomenon.