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When he was a child, everyone had their own family to accompany him, but when he grew up, he naturally needed to leave his family, find his other half, and form a new family. Because we live in society, the care and love of the family of origin is not enough. Therefore, we must make new friends and establish new interpersonal relationships, so that we can better establish ourselves in society and develop.
Therefore, according to normal logic, it is unrealistic for a person to have no object and no friends for a lifetime. Unless a person is determined to be a loner, cut off the fate of the world, or he has psychological problems, it is impossible for him to find a partner and be lonely for a lifetime.
If the person takes the initiative to live a single life, this kind of thinking is understandable. If he is forced to be single and finds a partner himself, but there has been no result, it means that the person has a lot of problems. If the person becomes lonely and even dark because he can't find a partner, then he may even be willing to take revenge.
It is better not to close yourself off like this. In this interconnected society, it can feel strange to have no friends or lovers. Whether it's your classmates, your colleagues, or even the waiters in the restaurants where you often go to eat, as long as you want to make friends with them, it is possible to gain friendship and even love.
When you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, you should have a calm mindset. Although it is now fashionable in society that profit is paramount, this kind of thinking is too realistic and snobbish. You can try to communicate sincerely, and try to give without expecting anything in return, so that your popularity will become better.
People need to work on their social skills slowly, because in today's society, it is difficult for a person to gain a foothold in society without friends. And whether it's friends or lovers, they can make a big difference in your life. For example, they can listen to you when you're sad; can comfort you when you are sad; can cheer you on when you encounter setbacks; Of course, you can also share your joy together when you are successful.
That way, you won't want to be in contact with the outside world and rest on your laurels.
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If you are in a bad mood, it is a kind of boredom, and boredom is a kind of psychological loneliness, that is, you are unhappy, if you want to make yourself happy, you just don't want to be bored, you are in a bad mood. How can I make my mood better, listen, my mood is still annoying, that is, your boredom has not been solved and improved, then let your emotions vent out, inexplicably uncomfortable, nothing more than an empty heart, an empty heart, there is no mood! As for why, it depends on your own life situation and the factors around you.
Depression and depression have different concepts, depression has a kind of depressed sadness, and depression is just a mood of idleness.
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Hello, I think the single culture in modern society has become more and more common, and many people choose to enjoy the single life and are unwilling to be bound by marriage. Secondly, the popularity of technology products such as social networking and mobile phones has made people more immersed in the virtual world than in real social interaction. In addition, the individualism of modern society has also influenced people's attitudes towards marriage, and many people focus more on self-actualization and the pursuit of self-worth, rather than through marriage to achieve these goals.
In addition, it is also possible that due to personal experience, growth environment and other factors, some people have a certain resistance to love and marriage, and choose not to fall in love. For example:
1.Different personal values and life goals: Some people may be more focused on their personal career or other pursuits than on romantic relationships. They may feel that their current life is very satisfying and does not need to be supplemented by a relationship.
2.Limited social circle: Some people may lack the opportunity to expand their social circle and therefore not have the opportunity to meet a suitable partner. This may be because they live in a small community or their work environment doesn't have many opportunities to meet new people.
3.Poor relationship experience: Previous love experiences may have caused some people to lose confidence in relationships. They may have had painful breakups or experiences of being betrayed, causing them to fear getting hurt again, or to be more cautious about choosing a partner.
4.Accustomed to being single: Some people may not be interested in being single or more inclined to be single or of the opposite sex. They may prefer to live independently and do not need to be in a relationship to meet their needs.
5.Lack of time and energy: Some people may be busy with work or other things and don't have enough time and energy to devote to a relationship. They may think that it takes too much energy and time to be in love, and that the existing life is already fulfilling.
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Hello, many people say that they are single because they have too high vision. Of course, there are such reasons, but not comprehensively. The reasons for being single are very complex and cannot be simply reduced to one cause.
1. There are wounds, loopholes, and deficiencies in the heart, and there is no healing.
2. I don't have the ability to handle intimate relationships well and don't know how to deal with them.
3. I don't have a good relationship with myself. Trauma and absence, most of which come from the original family's whispering, and the bad experience of the last relationship. Frustration makes people unable to extricate themselves, and the human heart is often not mental health, but more of a process of self-appreciation and self-recognition recovery.
Some people may be three or five months, someone will soon be able to move on to the next relationship, and some may take years. There are very few people who need a lifetime to let go, and this is the popular antidote to time.
A large proportion of people who are incapable of dealing with intimate relationships have resistance to dealing with complex emotions and have an avoidant attachment personality. It may be more about not being able to accept oneself and expecting to find a sense of security from the other person and make up for the shortcomings. In this way, the relationship between the two parties will be very burdensome, and it is easy to go on for a long time.
A bad relationship with oneself often affects various relationships, family affection, love friendship, and social interpersonal relationships. Often such people will self-deprecat, unable to calm their hearts, in the voice of the unexpected world.
Either they seek attention by giving a lot of money, or they close themselves off for fear of being hurt by rent. In all relationships, if you can't face yourself, you can't feel happy, you get tired easily, you lose confidence in everything, you need to break the deadlock, break the existing mode of thinking and disadvantages, improve your life, adjust your time, and do something to regain your confidence. This one requires courage to face and accept change.
In the end, it's your own mutation that matters. I hope that when we are single, we are also responsible for ourselves, and two people are also responsible for both parties, happiness is very important, and we are also the center of the universe.
Good luck.
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