When chatting with girlfriends, there is always a question and an answer

Dear landlord.

Glad to analyze for you.

I've had your problem before.

The following is my hope to help the landlord.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

If there are any inaccuracies in my opinion, please forgive me!

Looking forward to your !!

When chatting with girls, it is taboo to use the chatting method of checking the household registration. Especially when you are not very familiar with the relationship with the girl, asking the girl all kinds of questions all the time will only make the girl wary of you. Today, Chestnut will teach you 3 practical chat skills, so that you can stay away from awkward chats.

Tell me a little bit about the scene when you met, how did you meet... Tell us about the little things in everyday life ...

The key to this question is to be cheerful and communicate more with your girlfriend.

When encountering this kind of problem, you should mainly reflect on yourself, not that the other party is unwilling to take care of yourself, but that your topic cannot attract the attention of the other party. The problem may lie in the following areas: The topic is not extended enough.

The content of the topic is not engaging enough. The direction of the topic is not to the point. The other party is not interested in himself as a person at all.

The extensibility of the topic. That is to say, when chatting, the topic is very rigid in one direction, you must know that the pleasant chat atmosphere, may be the last moment is still talking about hot pot, the next moment may start to talk about movies, and then the next moment to talk about other aspects, the extensibility of the topic determines the resilience of the topic, if you want to improve the resilience of the topic, you should first enhance your own experience, knowledge, when these are strong enough, the resilience will naturally not increase, and there will be no embarrassing situation. Since the attraction of the topic is chatting, of course, it is impossible to ask a sentence like checking the account, but you should locate your own identity, work hard to match the other party's topic, and guide yourself to the field that you are familiar with and interested in.

The focus of the topic. When the chat comes into the beginning, it is to catch the point and talk.

Summary. Hello, when my girlfriend asks this when she is chatting, she means that she asks if you have done anything else besides chatting with her again.

When my girlfriend chats, she often asks what you are doing and why, not at the beginning, but often while chatting and chatting.

Hello, when my girlfriend asks this when she is chatting, she means that she asks if you have done anything else besides chatting with her again.

I once asked me what I was doing, and I replied to him about the rest, and she immediately followed and asked what you were doing, and I replied very quickly.

You reply to her other questions, so she thinks you're not paying attention to her and that you're doing something else.

In this way, she may think that you don't pay enough attention to her and talk to her while doing something else, which is why she asks that.

Summary. It could be that she likes to be a little distracted when chatting with you.

When my girlfriend chats, she often asks what you are doing and why, not at the beginning, but often while chatting and chatting.

I once asked me what I was doing, and I replied to him about the rest, and she immediately followed up and asked what you were doing.

Dear, the other party asked you.

Don't you want to tell her?

I still think girls are annoying.

It's not that I'm annoyed, it's not that I don't want to tell, but I want to know her mentality and why she asks so often.

Dear, have you communicated with girls?

Some girls will have some problems that they don't feel like.

Is this a sign of insecurity? She sent a message to me and I basically replied in seconds, all of them were small or responded, so she also asked Senpin what I was doing, what kind of heart and mind activity this is.

If a girl often asks you what you do.

It could be that she likes to be a little distracted when chatting with you.

So what are you doing, divert the topic.

Dear, the topic of your chat with her, is the girl not interested?

I can know that.

Dear, when the other party asks you what you are doing, it is actually a diversion.

It is advisable to look back and wait for her to ask you again.

Ask the other person if they're bored and uninterested.

If she's not interested, she'll not reply.

She replied with a lot of words or very few words.

More words means she's interested.

Fewer words mean she is perfunctory.

The most quarrelsome.

Dear, boys and girls are in love, it is recommended to coax girls more in quarrels, girls don't like to listen to your reasoning and debate, they like you to let her love her.

That's good. Otherwise, no reply will be given.

Break up, she doesn't like you because that's how I am.

It means that you don't have a topic anymore.

Find a topic that interests her.

Explain that she doesn't like you to find out why

There is a kind of chat, called to do what they like.

She is afraid that she will show that she likes you too much and cares about you too much, you will feel that this is a matter of course, and she will feel that she can't do without you, so she would rather show that she doesn't care about you so much, in fact, she wants you to care about her more, she is insecure, so you have to give her a full sense of security, so that she will not be too tired.

Everyone loves someone differently, some girls are very clingy, but some girls don't like sticky, want to have a little bit of their own personal space, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you. Don't say you're breaking up at every turn, if you really break up, it's basically no fun to get back together, so give her some personal space!

Oh, be cautious, be careful; As soon as we met, I knew that if you want to buy valuables and high consumption, it is absolutely unreliable. I've experienced it myself.

It's rare to like each other, don't miss the opportunity, it is recommended to get along more, pay attention to not this kind of on the Internet, people on the Internet are often just one of their own side, really get along with each other to understand what kind of person this is!

The Internet is virtual, and online dating is really unreliable. Leave some time for each other to get to know each other well before falling in love. I feel that this is playing, and it is not about the future marriage at all.

I think there are 2 possibilities for her to treat you like this, 1. She doesn't like you, and her friends may lie to you, 2He likes you, but doesn't know how to express it.

But right、Personally, I think。 Online dating is unreliable.

Because she doesn't want to show that she likes you too much, men are often frightened by girls who like them too much, or think that they are not as mysterious as before.

Please give her a constant sense of security.

It's all like this, just having fun.

Online dating is unreliable, give it up, delay your youth and hurt yourself.

Personally, I think. Online dating is unreliable.