When a relationship is placed in front of you at the wrong time, how do you deal with it?

Updated on workplace 2024-07-13
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What is appropriate and what is not? I should know this in my heart, and I won't say much. In fact, I myself was experiencing the inappropriate meeting of the two people at the same age.

    I met my current boyfriend a year and a half after falling out of love, he is a mature man, and I am just a girl who is still in school, but fate makes us like each other. My encounter with him was for me to meet the right person at the wrong time, and I was so upset for a while that I almost ruined my happiness. I am grateful to a friend of mine who asked me:

    What is appropriate and what is not. Yes, in one way we are inappropriate to love each other, but think about it, if we can't go on like this, but it's good to have it, isn't it? When a relationship is placed in front of me at an inopportune time, my answer is to accept it and accept the relationship.

    So what would you do yourself?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on whether it is inappropriate for you or the other person, if it is inappropriate for yourself, then if you love him (her), you should be brave and persist, if it is inappropriate for the other party, then don't start, because if you love him (her), you will not bear to embarrass him (her)!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The right time meets the wrong person Regret! The wrong time to meet the right person sighs for a lifetime! This sentence is very reasonable, I hope you understand it well, I don't understand what you mean by inappropriateness, but if this relationship is what you have always hoped for, it is very precious, I hope you accept it, face it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do your best to make him befit.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Accept what you need, let it go if you don't need.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is nothing suitable for the right time in the relationship, and it will help you in your current situation if you handle it well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you want to pull it down lightly, or do you want to heat it up? Needless to say, if you heat up, you have to keep the freshness between two people, and you can also go out for a trip together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you keep it, add some heat in time, and if you give up, you will explain it directly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A month of separation is appropriate.

    If it is short, it will not be effective, and if it is long, it may change.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, after waiting for a long time, it is really light, so it is better to say it boldly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If we knew that compromise can shorten suffering, and that even issues of principle have the possibility of compromise, then we would not destroy happiness because of a person's small mistakes! Be generous, especially men! (provided you love her).

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Very normal! Usually you and me communicate with your girlfriend a lot, explain the situation to her, and sometimes don't care about what you say when you are angry! Remember to communicate more!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How humble it is, if there is a matter, it will be solved, don't quarrel, quarrels will only happen when two are not calm, if there is one party, do not get excited,,, go out for a walk, and come back after a while, it will be solved.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The key to maintaining the relationship between two people is their feelings for each other, as long as the feelings are there, the so-called contradictions are floating clouds.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When two people fall in love, it is important to trust each other, but it depends on whether you can give each other enough confidence. Give each other more privacy in life, be more honest, and be more tolerant, I think everything is easy to understand.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Learn to deal with it, apologize in time, admit mistakes in time, control the situation first, don't expand it, and then think about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is inevitable that there will be contradictions between the two together, and if there is no contradiction, then the relationship between these two people must be maintained. Men should be generous, don't worry about her, if there is anything to say.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Now make her laugh and explain.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It shows that you may really have no emotions when you sing, do you just care about showing off your skills, singing requires a full understanding of the lyrics to sing well. Blindly showing your singing skills, the high pitch is useless.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is a person around me who has a feeling when he speaks Mandarin: hypocrisy. He didn't dare to speak Mandarin for us, and he spoke a dialect, so he felt better.

    You may be in a similar situation, it is difficult to change it, you have to change the pronunciation fundamentally, read the text first, speak slowly, pronounce it accurately, and then slowly get used to it. Singing should be natural, don't deliberately go to the artistic conception in singing, you will draw a tiger and not become an anti-dog, the main thing is to be natural, don't be too self-absorbed.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It may be a matter of input, and the next time you sing again, you try to keep your voice a little lower.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello, this shows that you are a very rational, very sober and self-respecting person! Don't show your emotions easily! Consciously or inadvertently, I am always in a state of self-protection!

    So how to solve the problem of not having emotions when singing? What's the key? My suggestion is:

    1. The key point is the transformation of one's heart, less self-esteem and more self-confidence, learning will accept everyone, and be willing to show your heart in front of friends! 2. Sing each song attentively (including understanding the background of the song, understanding the connotation, investing in your own feelings, and experiencing the artistic conception of the song with your heart; You can practice a lot at home, you can start practicing with popular love songs, the key is to be attentive, you don't have to pretend deliberately, and you don't have to care about whether you sing well or not)! 3. As long as you persist for half a year, you will find that you can also become a powerful amateur singer!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no such thing as a perfect life. Of course, if the pursuit of love is really better for you than the family relationship that has been established, then please wait for your children to have enough discriminating ability before pursuing your love. Because children are always innocent.

    Since it's the wrong time, be patient and wait for the right moment. Marriage does not mean that you will never have the right to pursue happiness again. If the decision is really wrong, then please end it in the gentlest and rational way.

    I'm sure your children will understand you then. With your child's forgiveness and understanding, I believe you can be happier.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Wife and children are your relatives Life is not perfect Everyone is similar in the family Relatives stumble with each other is also family affection What about you and the lady How long have you known each other How well do you know her Do you dare to say that you will not repeat your current life after you are with her Do you dare to say that you will not regret it after you divorce If you do divorce your wife What about your children Are you willing to raise your children What about your stepwife Will she like your children Will she treat your children to her own What about your parents Can they accept it So I think we should think about this matter for a longer time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    , This is a serious question, you can't glance at your wife when you see a beautiful woman.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not bad to be a confidante.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do what you should do during this time period, and don't give up emotionally, but don't put too much thought into your feelings

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You have to weigh the two sides, one side is the wife and children and the other is your own love, 2:1 I think it should be obvious.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the other person doesn't mind, just give it a try!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Life is short, no matter whether the ending is beautiful or sad, it is worth everyone to experience and experience. I think you can give it a try, and I wish you your own happiness. Of course, also selfishly bless yourself, haha.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If it's this mentality, I think it's better to forget it, because it's not firm,

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course you start, let's go now, you'll regret missing it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Cherish what you have. Do what you want!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If there is no beginning, how can it end.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Helpless, how to understand this word? I also feel that my life and marriage have now reached the point of helplessness, in fact, I am an anxious person, when I am engaged in a partner, as long as he makes me angry, I don't even want to think about it, every time I stand up and leave, now it's good, on the other hand, he is unhappy and slams the door and leaves, do you know why? I now have a one-year-old daughter, very cute, very obedient, and even more beautiful, I am very reluctant to her, so I stayed for the sake of the child!

    Don't know what you're for? If you don't have anything to worry about, just separate! Living like this will only lead to unhappiness.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Separate for a while and see how it works.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let go and give each other a new chance. After separation, there should also be corresponding responsibilities!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Treat it coldly and talk about it later.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is a saying that if you love her, let her go, you are all helpless, it's time to let go, you and she will be relieved!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Is it to the point where you have to get married? Then get married!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Calm down for a while, and then look at it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    What does helplessness mean??

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you want to catch this relationship and cherish it! Take the initiative to be sure!! Opportunities wait for no one! Cherish it!

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