I m a sad one! I want to say why am I so sad!

Don't feel sad.

Everyone's personality is different.

Maybe you're the kind of person in your life who is very introverted and doesn't like to deal with people.

In fact, I am the same, I am uncomfortable in a crowded place, and I always like to hide in a corner where there is no one in a daze.

Maybe when, there will be nasty trouble again!? Do you always get into trouble? When you are in trouble, don't try to avoid him, learn to solve trouble. If the trouble is solved a lot, you will not be afraid of trouble, and you will be mature.

Why does no one want to follow you? Let's find your own reasons first, don't you like to deal with girls or don't do it? If you find a girl, you have to be able to give her happiness, right?

If you can't give him even the bare minimum of protection, then who wants to follow you? -- This is about to join the WTO, you can't escape this society! You've got to learn to deal with people, that's for sure!

Dealing with people is a means of survival. In this society, even ability is secondary, and relationships are paramount. By relationship - this is again by dealing with each other, right?

I hope you can figure it out, it's impossible for you to rebel against life, so change yourself slowly ... Be happy!! The beauty in life is up to you to find it.

In fact, there are many things that we can't think of, in fact, life is difficult and easy, the key is whether we are willing to face it.

Everyone has a love for beauty. Especially youth!

The problem of hairstyle, after the age of 30, it is estimated that no one will be troubled by it. It's a psychological problem.

Break the psychological barrier, cut whatever head shape you want, and your own hair, it's not up to you to decide. Hehe.

Whether the cut is good or not, you will know if you try it, and you will not cut it as you like, and after a month, you will cut it again. The point is, in case the cut is not good, others will make irresponsible remarks, which is a matter of their own psychological endurance.

Take this opportunity to exercise your endurance!

The most beautiful thing about a man is his temperament! One of those qualities is endurance. No matter what others say, the heart will be calm, and there will be no explanations, resentments, and annoyances for honor and disgrace. A man's success comes from being attentive, tolerant, and calm in the face of various problems.

It's very simple, making a decision is a matter of a moment, that is courage, and then it is endurance, daring to face the rumors of others.

Victory, not rejoicing, defeating, not discouraged, with thunder in the chest and face like a peaceful lake, can worship the general! —From: "Emperor Zhuang Lie, Volume I, Weak Crown Son of Heaven".

If the heart doesn't even thunder, it's a saint!

There is nothing sad, just be casual, being yourself is the best, being someone else is the shadow.

Hello, the most fashionable hairstyle and the best hairstyle to take care of right now is the stab. After waking up every day, add some elastic element, which is both beautiful and stylish, and is used by handsome guys of your age. It doesn't distinguish any face shape.

I don't think you can say that it's not a happiness, it's not a tragedy.

For example, some people feel sad that they don't have good shoes, but they don't realize that there are still people who don't have feet.

A lot of things, when you think about it from the other side, will be completely different.

Your family is okay, at least you have a house in the city, and the mortgage is not much. Your parents, though they are strict with you, do not let you feel the warmth of the family, and even make you autistic. But they just love you in the wrong way, they are you, and they just want you well.

You look good, at least there will be girls who take the initiative to show you affection.

Although you have become depressed in college for many reasons, no matter what time it is, as long as you repent and work hard with your heart, it is not too late. At least it's better than if you don't work hard!

In addition, you should continue to work hard, enrich yourself with struggle, improve yourself, then you will slowly have self-confidence. Don't pay too much attention to what others think, you have to remind yourself often, go your own way, and let others do the talking. Also, tell yourself that there are many people who are better than you, and there are many people who are worse than you, and you should abstain from being petty.

Overall, not a tragedy:

1. You are very handsome, this is a capital, it is better than being particularly ugly, and when you join the work in the future, you can get more or less cheap. Anyway, I'd love to see handsome guys in the office.

2. The conditions at home are okay, at least I don't burden you.

3. In terms of learning, it's not good, but it's better than your brother, right?

4. The most important one, you are still young! And you are also aware of your own shortcomings, but the latter point, depending on how you want to do it, doing well is an advantage, and not doing well is a tragedy.

Here's a suggestion for you :

Graduation is imminent, don't say anything else, desperately looking for a job, it feels like you are not a particularly goal-oriented person, in order to prevent you from really getting depression, give yourself a clear goal:

At present, I am looking for a job, and after finding a job, no matter how bad the job is, at least stay in this unit for a year, don't change jobs, and the goal after one year is to find a clear position for myself, whether it is further study, or to accumulate experience and qualifications, anyway, continue to work hard, and work hard to a certain degree of success, and then talk about job hopping or something else.

Step by step, you'll be able to find your way.

I think direction is very important, with direction, you have to do more things, as soon as people are busy, they will be enriched, and once people are enriched, there will be less effort to think nonsense. In the process of adapting to work and fighting with interpersonal relationships, your sentimentality should slowly disappear, and there is not so much effort in society for men to think nonsense.

Of course, if you still sit in your dorm room and say that you can't find a job, and spend all your time thinking about it, then you are really tragic.

You have the element of tragedy, but the element of your tragedy is mainly caused by your family, but this is fate, there is no way to change it, you can only adapt, you can see that your own bad is already very good, it is better than many people who find that their life is in vain when they are old or about to die! So it's too late for you to change your life! I think it doesn't matter if others look down on you, you must look down on yourself!

Don't you have a rebellious heart for your family? You prove to them that you can succeed! I'll be able to lift my head when I get home one day!

Otherwise, you will live in the shadow of your childhood for the rest of your life! In addition, treat men and women seriously with feelings, because money can't buy it, and it's also very precious, don't wait for you to find out and see that it's been lost! In short, life is to be changed by yourself!

It's all about your determination ... Don't be indifferent, it's better to die without enthusiasm for life! Why do you want to make a living!

Actually, you're still young! If you are aware of these problems, you can debug them!

It doesn't matter if it's tragic or not, there are thousands of people in this society who are less fortunate than you, but at least you can still express it in this way and have a chance to change. You can try to find friends around you who are better at guiding and talking about your thoughts, in fact, sometimes it is a classmate who has not been in touch for a long time, and the enthusiastic will be happy to enlighten you.

I've always felt that everyone has a bad time, just to see how long that period of depression is, and many times I slowly figure it out by observing the situation around me or in society in real life.

In short, everything is not as bad as I imagined.

Be optimistic and cheerful.

Let it be, and the sense of responsibility and other things that should be possessed will be slowly sharpened.

It's not a tragedy, it's that you think too much.

You were wrong from the beginning, your father was strict with you, it was the mood of Jackie Chan, and you misunderstood your father's good intentions from beginning to end. In addition, you said that you are "sentimental, weak, and will pretend to be indifferent in front of girls", because you have a shadow in your heart, as long as you get out of this shadow, I believe that you must be a handsome guy full of confidence!

If that's a tragedy, then the world is full of tragedy. You're just in a state, a pessimistic state! Life can't be smooth sailing, there are always a lot of bumps and bumps, you haven't stepped into the society yet, and when you step into the society, you will face more problems than you are now.

As long as you're strong, it's OK!!Don't be discouraged. Personality is something that is born and can hardly be changed, unless something happens that hits you quite hard, and that is your whole temperament will change drastically.

Not a tragedy! At least you have a graduation certificate and a handsome face, your personality can be forged slowly, you don't need a doctor, as long as you reflect more and change more, it's OK, and your future is still very developing!

Hehe, I grew up in the countryside, the family situation does not know how many times worse than you, you don't just see your own bad situation, but to find yourself a little bit of your own strengths, and strive to use these specialties to develop yourself, for the girls you like should also be brave to chase, as long as you are good, good to that girl, you have a chance, everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness. Bless you!

We're like!!

I think, people, you can't be too yourself, only for this life, be kind to yourself, be happy, don't put too much pressure.

You will never be a tragic person!

I used to have a similar experience, and then I left my parents to regain my self-confidence, I don't think you are tragic, at least you are handsome, many people can't ask for it, you have this understanding of yourself, it's good, people can change.

Brother, you're not a miserable person yet, you at least have time to think about these boring things, and you still have time to type these words.

I believe in marriage and love.

I'm still cautiously optimistic about marriage and love:

1.Believe in true love.

Sincere feelings and love still exist, but they are difficult to find and maintain in modern society. People now have more choices and a greater sense of self than ever before, but true love is still one of life's most precious experiences to discover and cherish.

2.Marriage is more pragmatic.

Modern marriage has become more pragmatic, and people marry more about the matching of life conditions and rational needs, rather than just emotional factors. This makes the marriage more stable and also leaves room for extramarital affairs, and the two need to be balanced in reality.

3.Greater sense of freedom.

Modern people are more self-conscious, no longer automatically accept the restrictions of traditional marriage concepts, and pay more attention to personal freedom and the development of filial piety. This makes people more selfish in the face of relationships and marriages, but it also prompts more tolerance, understanding and compromise in getting along with each other.

4.Life is becoming more stressful.

The pressure of life in modern society is increasing, and the pressure of busy work and empty life is easy to disintegrate feelings and affect the quality of marriage. But the more the relationship and marriage are maintained in the face of adversity, the more prominent its value will be, which requires the joint efforts of both parties.

5.The mindset needs to be calm.

In the modern environment, marriage and relationships need to be faced with a calm mind. Neither too dx, nor too desperate, maintain positive confidence and open thinking. Life has its ups and downs, and relationships also need to go through hardships and then mature, which needs to be experienced and dealt with with with calmly.

So, in general, despite the complexity of the modern social environment, sincere feelings and stable marriage are still worth pursuing. It requires a more pragmatic attitude, a stronger sense of tolerance, and a more relaxed attitude to explore and face. Under the right conditions, marriage and love remain important ways to achieve happiness and meaning in life, and this will not change.

The key is to have a correct understanding of relationships and marriage, as well as reasonable expectations.

Please believe that love is beautiful, and don't deny love because of a momentary setback. Take your eyes in the sunshine and you will live happily every day!