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This father's parents are too indulgent of their children, and they go to grab other children's toys, and the property said that it has called up the monitoring and intervened to deal with it.

When the police received the mother's report, he did not ignore the incident, but patiently explained the seriousness of the theft to the child, and after ideological education, he brought the child into the interrogation room of the police station and told the child that if the person who made a mistake should sit here and educate the child in the form of the scene.

This way of dealing with it is a bit extreme, I think the mother should communicate with the child, reason with the child, such a small matter should not alarm the police, do not waste police resources.

I saw a ** like this on the Internet**, ** shows a parent-child paradise in a dining bar, in which two children were playing together, it is estimated that the two had a conflict over toys, which attracted the attention of the children's parents.

When the child's father saw that his son was being bullied, he immediately rushed into the parent-child paradise in anger, dragged a 4-year-old boy out of the "small castle", threw him several meters away, and the child fell to the ground and cried.

According to the mother of the boy who was thrown, she went to buy milk tea for the child at that time, but when she came back, she found that the child was injured, and the child was so frightened that he didn't speak for more than an hour. ”

Some netizens believe that because the father's child is indeed younger than a 4-year-old boy, he is bullied by other people's children, and this mood is understandable, but most netizens said that no matter what, as an adult, it is definitely wrong to treat children like this, not only other people's children are injured, but also their own children are passed on the wrong concept.

How should parents deal with a child fight?

Find out the reason for the fight first.

Generally speaking, children's world is relatively simple and simple, for them, when they see something they like, because they do not have the consciousness of ownership of the object in their minds, they will generally go directly to fight, fight, etc.

When there is friction between children, it is recommended that parents must calm down first, and then ask their children what happened to them, and then analyze the specific problems after figuring out what happened.

You must not indiscriminately blame all the faults on other people's children just because you protect your own children.

Be patient and reason with your child.

Because children's hearts are generally more sensitive, and self-esteem is relatively strong, therefore, no matter which child makes a mistake first, it is not recommended that parents severely reprimand or punish the child who made the mistake in front of everyone, this behavior not only does not set a good example for the child, but also may seriously hurt the psychology of the child who is scolded.

The most appropriate thing to do is to patiently reason with your child, analyze why they are doing wrong, and instruct them on how to correct it. Cultivate children's safety awareness, even if parents are careful to protect their children everywhere, they cannot be by their children's side at all times. Therefore, cultivating a sense of safety in children from an early age is one of the best ways to protect them.

For example, parents can teach their children how to better protect themselves when they have a conflict with others, and how to properly seek help from those around them when they encounter difficulties.

All in all, it is relatively common for children to have a small fight, when encountering conflicts between children, parents must be patient to guide and educate their children, so that they can protect themselves under the premise, rather than punching for children, contradictions are inevitable, but with the help of contradictions let children learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships, wouldn't it be better?

I don't think two kids are really grabbing toys, as a parent, you shouldn't throw a four-year-old out that far. There is a high probability that the child will have physical injuries.

Although it is incorrect, it is understandable, I can't tolerate seeing others bullying children no matter who that person is, but this kind of behavior, without evaluating right or wrong, is really too much for you as an adult, and if it is, I will directly embarrass the other party's parents.

I think this parent is very irrational and unqualified, even if the two children have a quarrel, they should also find out the facts, not hurt the child.

In fact, even if the two babies are really grabbing toys, there is no need for parents to come forward to solve it, because the child has the way the child thinks.

Because he was born was not of his choice, and the time of birth was not something he could decide, he should not be allowed to suffer this pain. Don't spoil the little child too much, because no one will spoil you in society, and no one will let you, so I think parents should be fair, don't think that the small should be spoiled, the big one should be humble, as long as the small needs it, the big one should give way to the small one. This kind of education is very wrong, and such an education will affect both children.

At this time, parents can't start to let the older let the younger because of the old and the young, it's very bad to do this, they should let them share with each other and explain to them well.

Of course, it is necessary to say that children are still young and ignorant, but they are still very teachable, so you can tell them some small stories about humility, so that they can know how to be humble to each other.

You should still manage your own children, let your children not rob each other first, and there are many times when children still need to be restrained.