How does a son strategically balance his parents, and how does a son strategically balance his paren

When you are admitted to university and fly away, it is when you win strategically.

But don't expose your edge during the previous period.

When you get out of the cage, you will step into your own world. At that time, the sky is high and you will fly.

Gudrake!

What kind of family are you? The whole thing is put together.

Look at Grandpa Mao's "On Protracted War", you are still young.

Fu Father: You have been admitted to university, obviously with a higher education level than your father's generation.

First give your father a "reassurance" and say that your education is enough, so that your father does not worry. Your academic qualifications will not restrict or delay your personal development! Personal success depends half on academic qualifications and half on intelligence

Let your dad trust you to be conscious, and he won't force you. You tell him that now that you have grown up, there are some things you have to learn to face by yourself, and you have to write your own life!

Dealing with your mother: As you said, your mother just wants to treat you as one"Cash cow"I don't know what happened to you and Mother, but as you said, you need it too"Huairou policy"Rely on strength to speak!You have to communicate well with your mother!

Tell her that you will be able to earn money to support yourself and support them even more!What's better is to be able to make a turn of achievements to make him raise his eyebrows!

I said so much, just a truth, with a sincere heart to talk to your parents, don't dislike this is not the way, in fact, this is the simplest and most effective!It's also a strategic strategy, it's up to you to do it or not.

Then you should be independent, go to a distant place and fight on your own, and if you don't have the means to survive, just stay honest and go back when you think you can do it.

Communicate more with your parents, but you can't communicate and you can't do it. Whoever calls them your parents.

When you grow up, make it up to your parents in your own way.

Leave them and go to work in the field

The first time I heard that there were people who wanted to strategically balance their parents' ......

There is something wrong with this attitude of yours.

The affairs of the previous generation have nothing to do with you, you should put yourself in a position of balancing the relationship and being responsible for yourself, the parents cannot influence your future, your decisions, how you feel that how you develop yourself is beneficial to your future, or what you want your future to be, you develop yourself in this direction, and it is unrealistic for you to deliberately try to reverse the decisions made by your parents about you. You should not put yourself in a position against them. It's enough to think about your own business and do your own thing!

Of course it's not good. The appropriate situation is okay, he wants to go out with friends, Sunday can be, do interesting activities can also pull, but don't be too strict, or the child will be bored if the child is unbalanced in the future, and he will be rebellious, the right thing to indulge him to do, the wrong opposition, disobedience is not good, education children should be strict, occasionally you relax him then he will be very grateful to you. So I think to myself, you should control the child's words first, but don't object to him doing the right thing!

Restraint is absolute, but in moderation. Otherwise, it will put heavy pressure on the child, so that the child will not grow up healthy and happy.

The key also depends on the constraints, such as washing hands before meals and brushing teeth after meals, these are fine, but if the child is already doing well or has improved, and the parents are not satisfied, they often restrain the child to be better and better, then often this has a great impact on the child.

Should. Parents are held accountable for their children's mistakes.

nonono~~~

Don't break the law, don't learn bad... It's OK...

Especially boys.,It's always naughty.。。。 If he is not allowed to play in elementary school, he will play in high school, and if he is strict in high school, he will play in college, and there will always be such a stage.

As for girls, it's better to be strict with your family.

Children are ignorant and lack social experience because they are young. As the saying goes, "A newborn calf is not afraid of death".

So they often do things that don't make sense. For this reason, in order to educate their children and enable them to grow up physically and mentally healthy, parents should often restrain certain behaviors of their children. However, it should not be overly constrained, otherwise it will be "counterproductive".

As a child, you have to accept the constraints of your parents, so that the child will grow up to be promising.

It's better not to put.

Children are still very curious, as adults should encourage children's ideas, explore his hobbies, but it's not that you don't care about anything, some polite upbringing, or start from an early age.

After all, children are children.,There are many places to learn from adults.,Teach by word and deed.,So adults must grasp the degree.。。

It depends on what aspects, mainly by guidance, parents and children set an example first, and it is best to educate children (around) with examples

Why should you restrain your children and spend more time with your children It is important to communicate more with your children.

It's not a constraint, it's a love. For example, parents often limit their children's online time because they don't want their children to be overly addicted to the Internet, and it's not good for their eyes. Children's understanding of the world is often more limited, and may only notice one side of a certain thing, while parents are more knowledgeable and always want their children to take fewer detours, such as:

Parents will say:"Don't go straight ahead, there's a pit in front of you. "Can you say that they restrained your behavior?

It's just that parents should pay attention to the ways and means, if you are a child and are not very receptive to some of the parents' practices, you can tell them what you think, don't feel that you are constrained. It's not a good thing to feel this way for a long time.

Because children are not strong in distinguishing right from wrong, they need the help of their parents.

The child's cognition, world view, and values are not mature enough, and many problems cannot be dealt with properly, so he needs the advice of his parents.

Silent, silent, without their own hobbies and sexual interests, the personality will be very withdrawn.

Before the child has self-control, he has to let his parents help restrain him, after all, his parents are older and have more social experience than us. I think that's how they came.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Because the child is still young, he doesn't understand many things, and the parents are more experienced, but when parents teach their children, they don't have to be restrained, they can be a democratic parent, and tell the child the reason when they ask their children to do something.

I don't want my parents to restrain me, but I can't help it, because I'm still too young, and they gave birth to me! It's good to want to open a little.

Because it is a child, the society is too big, and it is necessary to restrain children from not learning countless things.

First, move the computer from his son's bedroom to the living room, and prevent him from having the condition of "sinking the net behind closed doors". Second, the time spent on the Internet is limited, and you can go online for a few hours after completing your homework every weekend, and in normal times, you can't go more than one hour a day. Third, when surfing the Internet, try to surf with your child, which can not only play a role in supervision, but also provide real-time analysis and guidance on some content; If you don't have time to accompany your child on the Internet, check the ** he has browsed through "History", and find bad tendencies and make amends in time.

Fourth, find a few good teens** and e-publications, and put them in the "favorites" as the ones that your child often clicks. Fifth, I learned anti-pornography software from the Internet and banned my son from entering unhealthy web pages. Sixth, register your child in an online school and receive guidance from famous teachers.

Seventh, encourage your child to play football and socialize with his classmates. After a period of time, Xiaoyang's excessive Internet access improved. His academic performance has risen, his knowledge has broadened, and his writing skills have improved significantly.

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No parent is good to their children, and you will understand their good intentions in the future!

Lack of communication, your dad is too serious, what happened to make you feel that your dad has majesty, not easy to approach.

You don't really know your dad, you only see the surface, and you know your dad more from the side or the front.

In this world, Mom and Dad are your dearest and dearest people, what can't you communicate? This phenomenon of yours is because there is too little communication.

This is the majesty of my father, normal.

Later, when you get married, you will treat your children like this. That's how your children see you.