Why do I always have such thoughts?

Let me analyze it, I think the reason why you have such thoughts, as you yourself said, you have encountered some unsatisfactory things in your life (it must be something that has an impact on you, or even a big impact), and your unsatisfactory has directly led to some of your pessimistic and disappointed emotions in life to some extent. On the other hand, you will be more or less afraid of the future, you are afraid that the good times are always very easy to pass, you are afraid of those unknown tomorrows, you are afraid of the passage of time. You want to do as much as you can when you're young, experience more things, and even if possible, you want to condense your life into the first half of your life, you don't want to wait until you're old to do a lot of things, just like many people take out loans to buy a house and a car, you want to 'spend your life in advance'.

There is a saying: the passing years are not returned, and life needs to be happy. Because there is only one life, and no one wants to live up to it.

And the so-called joy contains a wide range of meanings, which is what you think is, the joy of life. What is within your reach, what you can do, what you can achieve. Everyone has a different perspective on life and has different expectations for life.

As you said, your point of view is just a view of life, it is your personal choice, there is no right or wrong. You think that life is too short to be timely, and you have to seize the time to do what you want to do. Who could have predicted what would happen tomorrow?

Therefore, when we can do what we can do, we must fulfill our wishes as soon as possible, and gradually achieve them one by one. In fact, in a sense, this is not without positive aspects.

But the premise of all this is that you must have a clear goal in life, have a plan for your life, and figure out what things are especially important to you, and you will regret it if you don't do it. If you travel to a place when you are twenty years old, it will be different from when you are fifty years old. I think that's what you mean.

Write a little more. But in any case, I think it's right to cherish the time and do what you want to do. Everyone knows the story of waiting for tomorrow, and those who wait for tomorrow will always be left behind by time.

You're a woman, your husband doesn't love you much, and you're having an affair.

Why do people say that there are a lot of things to do when they are old, and then do it later, people are a little powerless when they reach old age, and there is endless work to do, and working at this age is not like when they were young, (so they always say: wait to do it later) but it does not mean that this person is pessimistic about life, everyone has life and death, can not be pessimistic, must be optimistic, pessimists may not be able to live to 50, optimists can live to , or even more than 100 years old, so you don't think so much, You must be optimistic, listen to ** every day, think about happy things, and if you can't do it, you will go to see a psychiatrist.

Forget the past and the future. Seize the present. Devote yourself to auspicious wishes. Life can be truly enjoyable. It can also comfort the loneliness of life. Don't wait until you can't move to realize that you have lived a life in vain. Treasure.

In fact, life is beautiful, and there are many people who live to be 70 or 80 years old and still feel that it is not enough? This is not a matter of age at all, but a person always maintains a young mentality, they are eager for everything, and think that life is colorful, and since it is a colorful life, it will be a never-ending ......When a person is critically ill, her children are all by his side, and the grandchildren all hold his hand and say, "Grandma, you will be fine, we are all by your side, and when you are well, I will take you to the plane you have always wanted to take .......""At that moment, how she wished that her illness would get better, not to mention how happy I was to have my children and grandchildren by my side!

In fact, beautiful things are all around you, and you must live them seriously, to discover them, to dig them, and to appreciate them ......

Your current idea is really a failure, people can only live once, there are so many things to do in a limited life, even if you die on the day you die, you may not be able to accomplish it. At the age of 50, many people's good life has just begun!

Don't have that thought anymore @!@好好生活吧!

Don't be so pessimistic, you may go back to depression...

50 is the beginning of life, and it is the only way to truly understand what is right and what is wrong!

Many people in modern society think this way. Perhaps it is caused by boredom, helplessness, and indifference to reality. People at different ages will have different thoughts, and they will also have different reluctance, and they will be reluctant to leave this world.