As a mother in law, what do you look at your son in law?

Kindness. Kindness is nature, and the heart of a kind person is tender and benevolent, and responsible. It is a responsibility to support parents, care for brothers and sisters, raise children, and love for lovers is a responsibility.

Resolve. This word has a special meaning, which means to have both rational thinking and innovative spirit. For relatives, do not be foolish, not foolish.

First, it's definitely good for my daughter. Second, be talented and enterprising. Third, the three views are the same, and the family is harmonious. Fourth, be responsible. Fifth, the conditions are similar to my family, not too good, it doesn't matter if it's a little worse, the couple struggles by themselves.

It is not easy to meet all these conditions, and it is not possible to meet all of them, so they are decided after considering them in order.

My mom is probably different. He has a crush on my husband. Just because the young man was very handsome at a glance, and then when her husband invited her to dinner, he specially ordered a piece of braised beef that protects his heart (this dish is my mother's favorite, and I have a place to work because my sister and I work, he invited my sister to dinner, and my sister told my mother that a boy chased me.

Then my mom came and looked). Then, after that. Just all kinds of boasting.

In the end, he became my husband. In fact, I didn't fancy him at that time, because his salary was low, and although it was an establishment, he had few fronts and couldn't look down on him. My mother took a fancy to it.

However, my mother has a good eye, is careful with me, and has been patiently married for eight years. I've known each other for 10 years, and he didn't quarrel with me, I murdered him. Although I don't make much money, but except for 500, the rest is given to me, and I am patient with the child, and I bring it better than me, and now the child is 7 years old, and he will always say me, you go to your boyfriend, this is my husband.

It's good for him to listen to me, you find your husband. And my family is still a son. There was no bride price for marriage, and 10,000 was given.

Bought a gold ring. Gold necklace. It's really good to save money, the house in the county, the city house we bought independently the year before last.

1 is good to my daughter, 2 has good character, good character, 3 talent (matching education), has a certain family upbringing 4 must be an only child, 5 family background must be comparable to my family (both parents have urban pension and medical insurance, parents have their own independent real estate, children must have independent real estate before marriage), 6 no major disease genetics (such as mental illness, thalassemia), 7 height or above, medium appearance is OK.

Whether the parents of both parties are different from urban and rural areas, whether they are engaged in similar occupations, whether they enjoy endowment insurance and medical insurance, whether they will become a heavy financial burden after marriage, and so on, will mostly become factors that add or subtract points to both parties.

Looking for a son-in-law is the first thing to look at the character, and then the personality of his parents. The guy should be self-motivated, responsible, responsible, tolerant, empathetic, and the best family conditions are comparable, of course, the most important thing is to be really good to his daughter. Parents are the strong backing of their daughters, and there is no need to think about houses and cars.

It doesn't matter what you look like, it doesn't matter if your character is good or not, the most important thing is to have a property right marriage house under your own name, and it is best to be able to meet the basic conditions of the house, car, ticket, seat, and the so-called "five sons of Dengke" for the only son.

The family is relatively wealthy, and if the man's family is poor, it is basically unlikely to get consent to come together, after all, no mother-in-law will agree to her daughter marrying a poor man.

Whether you are honest, whether you are noble, and whether you know how to behave in the world.

Through a period of interaction with my daughter, I understand her character, first of all, I see if I care about my daughter, and then I look at my ability to earn money to support my family. If the above conditions are met, everything else is secondary.

See how he deals with people, what plans he has for the future, whether he is diligent or not, whether he has strong eyesight, quick response, and so on.

In fact, people who have come to see that they are responsible, serious, and able to endure hardships! At first, I must have thought it was good for my daughter, but how could I agree to marry if I was not good! The key is to see how they are created in the future! There is no way to see through it for a lifetime.

Whatever, as long as my daughter likes it, I won't be a wicked person, I will come back if I suffer, I will break up and divorce if I can't get through it, don't be patient, I am his strong backing.

As a mother-in-law twenty years later, looking at a son-in-law depends on character, it doesn't matter if you're poor, it's okay if you're ugly, honesty is the most important, you have to be true to your duty. It's like talking about my husband...

If your daughter and the other party have a diploma from the same type of university, if they belong to the same grade in China, the score will be the same, and if one is a university and the other is a diploma from two or even three universities, there will be a difference between plus or minus points.

The first character, the second and the daughter's three views, the third boy's personal conditions, and the fourth family background!

The number of children in both families is also a major consideration, and now, both parties are only children who can have two children, and at the same time, it has a lot to do with the inheritance of the inheritance.

Must be a kind child, responsible and responsible.

Three views are positive, responsible, must be good to my daughter, it doesn't matter if you don't have money, you have to be self-motivated!

I gave birth to a daughter. My first criterion for finding a son-in-law was to have good academic performance. A boy who reads well will not be bad enough to **!