My husband and my dad have a bad relationship, how can I, as a daughter, mediate their relationship?

Updated on society 2024-07-25
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The relationship between the husband and the father is not good, as a daughter, as an intermediary, the relationship between the two parties should be adjusted, and there must be a reason why the father doesn't like his husband.

    1.Create more opportunities for solitude

    As a wife, you should take the initiative to explain to your husband the aspects of human sophistication, and should let her husband bring some gifts back to his father during the New Year's holiday, see if his father likes to smoke or drink, give him gifts according to his hobbies, go home to accompany his father to eat, and create more opportunities for the two to get along, so that the father has more opportunities to understand his husband.

    2.Don't worry too much about gains and losses

    In front of your father, as a daughter, you should say more good things about your husband, ask your father if he is dissatisfied with his husband, know that he can explain to his husband in the future, and correct it, the family does not have to worry too much about gains and losses, if you are too careful, you will lose the taste of family affection.

    3.Think more empathetically

    The father must want his daughter to live happily, try to look at the problem from the father's point of view, and he will know why the father does not like his husband, and if his husband is good to his daughter, he believes that the father will accept his son-in-law.

    When there is a conflict, we should be neutral, not take sides, and analyze specific problems on a case-by-case basis.

    Dad and husband are the closest people to themselves, if you help your dad talk too much, then the husband will feel that you don't treat him as a family, if you talk too much to your husband, dad will feel that his daughter doesn't care about himself when she gets married, so we should remain neutral, sit down and discuss slowly, it is normal for a family to have conflicts, you can listen to your parents, listen to your husband, plus your own judgment, as well as your understanding of your parents and your husband, and seek the best solution.

    There is a conflict between the husband and the father, there must be problems on both sides, a slap does not make a sound, we must learn to compare our hearts with our hearts, don't be too disobedient, and take our parents out with our husbands to see the outside world.

    In short, it's still a word, home and everything is prosperous.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The relationship between my husband and my father is very bad, and I, as the only intermediary between them, should have my own reasonable way to resolve the conflict between them.

    If the two of them have never been able to ease their relationship, it will be very sad and difficult for me to accept. It is not my wish for any of them to be hurt, so I will definitely do my best to ease their relationship, only when they get along well together, can I really live happily, live happily, will be full of expectations and enthusiasm for life, and can love my husband and treat the feelings between us in a real sense.

    First of all, I will figure out the reason for the bad relationship between my father and my husband. If it is my husband's fault, as a backup, I will ask him to admit his mistake to his father, after all, my father is still relatively kind, he must hope that I will live well, with my husband's attitude of admitting his mistakes, I think he will also forgive each other, and it can also make me feel at ease, but if it is my father's fault, as an elder, I am afraid it will be difficult to admit my mistake, at this time I will choose to apologize to my husband, and ask my father to take the initiative to say hello to him the next time I meet my husband, similar to a step for him, so that the relationship between the two people can be eased.

    Secondly, I will also use coercion and temptation to ease their relationship, telling my father that if the relationship between her and her husband is not good, I may be the most uncomfortable person in the middle. Shouldn't I really love my daughter and want my daughter to be happy in all aspects, and I think my father can understand my feelings and mood after hearing such words.

    In the end, the husband will be there. When he found out that his son-in-law was actually very good to his daughter, he was able to let go of all the mustard, and began to accept the feelings between us, and began to accept the husband who had a bad relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, understand the reasons for their bad relationship, generally speaking, unless your husband is particularly bad, otherwise the father-in-law is still very good to see his son-in-law, and then see if such a reason can be solved, if not, then try to minimize the number and time they meet, the distance will be beautiful!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In such a situation, I think you should mediate, and then you should also let the father and her husband communicate more to resolve the conflict between the two people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can go out to eat or have a small family gathering, so that you can adjust the relationship between two people and not let them continue like this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Hope it helps.

    The key depends on how old the daughter is.

    If you are less than 14 years old, it is a crime.

    If the daughter is an adult and still voluntarily has an improper relationship with her father, there is no way. If it's not voluntary, it's also a crime.

    I really hope that I can help you, and I wish you a happy day!

    What should I do if I find out that my husband and daughter are in an improper relationship?

    Hello, what is it?

    My husband and daughter are in a relationship and I don't know what to do.

    This one. It's kind of outrageous.

    I don't know what to do now, I can't face it.

    Hope it helps. The key depends on how old the daughter is. If you are less than 14 years old, it is a crime.

    If the daughter is an adult and still voluntarily has an improper relationship with her father, there is no way. If it's not voluntary, it's also a crime. I really hope that I can help you, and I wish you a happy day!

    How I will face the rest of my life, today you can choose. Divorce.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What should I do if I find out that my husband and daughter are in an improper relationship?

    If you really have evidence that your husband and daughter are not in a normal relationship. I think the only way to deal with it. is to hurry up and send my daughter out.

    Arrange for him to have a general, or arrange for him to have a job, so that he can stay away from this father who is not morally digging, and who is immoral. At the same time, make it clear to your husband face to face with him. You must let him be touched, and you can't let him be the core of the chain at will.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. My question to you, it takes a little time to type, please be patient.

    If there is a conflict between the father and son, can the son-in-law and daughter mediate?

    My question to you, it takes a little time to type, please be patient.

    Hello! First of all, I will definitely tell you that as a daughter and son-in-law, you can mediate.

    It is difficult to say that it is difficult for a clear official to decide family affairs. But if there is a conflict in the family auspicious shack. If you don't want the conflict to intensify. At this time, it is best to mediate between the relevant people in the family.

    As a daughter and son-in-law of a family member. It is also a part of the family members. Ying Dihui should definitely actively participate in this mediation process. Resolve the contradictions of Bixian's family. It is an unshirkable responsibility.

    A family conflict arose between the father and the banquet son. No matter how big the conflict is, it is a matter within the family. The daughter and son-in-law tried to find a way to calm their minds in response to this problem.

    Seize the opportunity to work hard to mediate the mausoleum. Find the root cause of the problem. This is also a very big contribution to the harmony of the family.

    Sometimes it is said that it is better not to let the families of both sides or parents and relatives get involved. Although there is some truth. But the daughter and son-in-law only need to show their attitude.

    Unswervingly, help them analyze what the problem is. Find the root of the question. Maybe this window paper will be broken with your help.

    The contradiction can be resolved. Why isn't it a very good thing?

    Especially the contradiction between father and son. Be sure to communicate through friends or relatives. Daughters and sons-in-law are the most important link.

    Let them turn big contradictions into small contradictions. Be sure to put yourself in your shoes. This is the positive energy that you are accumulating and selling and participating in.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To communicate well, let the father understand his daughter's thoughts, and at the same time, the daughter should know that what the father says is for the good of the daughter, and mutual understanding can get along better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Divorce your wife, your father is inherently wrong, but your daughter-in-law has broken the bottom line.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not a person who does things, it depends on whether you are a human being, or your father, do you need to know how many words dad are? Either your wife is unique in the world, or you weren't born by your father.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let him go with your father, and you leave him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you, if you want to deal with it, you can only say that you can find another one, no way.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The old man is a big turtle, and he looks at it himself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is not far away, you keep giving birth to your brother?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can also look for it outside, and anyone will be a loser.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If I were to break away from the father-son relationship, I wouldn't be human.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Are you sure they're really related?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's really fake, you lie to the experience.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    divided the family property and severed the relationship between father and son.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Leave, you can separate from your father.

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