Is it true that husband and wife are not compatible with outsiders?

Husbands and wives do not deceive outsiders, but if a family is not harmonious, then others will take advantage of the loopholes, which will make the family even more disunited.

That's for sure, if your husband and wife are not compatible, outsiders can also bully you, so if you don't want outsiders to bully, your family must be harmonious.

It is true that if husband and wife are not united and not harmonious, they will be looked down upon by thousands of people.

Of course, it is true that husbands and wives do not bully with outsiders, because you yourself don't get along well, and others will not value you very much.

It must be like this, as long as the relationship between the husband and wife is not so harmonious, then outsiders will definitely provoke the relationship between the two people or bully the two people, just because the two people are not working together, and the relationship between the two people is not good.

If it is really a family member, they will be bullied by others, and couples will also be bullied.

As the saying goes, if you don't get along with others, you will look down on you and not necessarily bully you.

If the husband and wife are not in harmony, no matter whether outsiders will bully you or not, the family will also be discordant and unhappy.

Ordinary people have such a saying, because the husband and wife are not in harmony, Wei Ran must be bullying Party B.

Your discord problem may be true.

It is easy for a third party to get involved if the husband and wife are not compatible, and most of that person cheats money and sex!

Personally, I feel like this.

You must face this attitude well, so that there will be a more harmonious world.

Family discord and outsiders deceive', these 3 family matters cannot be told to outsiders, otherwise they will be bullied.

This is still a specific problem and a specific analysis, but the situation is still the same.

Since ancient times, family culture has always been an important part of China's traditional culture, and foreign concepts of raising children are different, China has always been adhering to the concept of supporting and helping future generations, which in the mouth of the common people is "one generation after another", behind this concept of family harmony has become an important goal.

The saying that family affairs are not bullied by outsiders is that if there is no unity within a family, they will be bullied by others, especially in the former rural areas, people uphold the idea of "having more children and more blessings", that is, they want their children to help each other in their future lives and resist all kinds of difficulties together. In addition to having sufficient labor in agriculture, families with many children are also a symbol of strength in the village.

In the past, there was a family in our village, a family of seven buddies, so when the old man of this family went to the village to chat with others, he was more tough, and occasionally encountered disputes with other villagers, and others also gave in a few points, after all, there are many buddies and brothers are united.

But on the other hand, if there are few buddies in a family, and there are always disputes between each other, and the brothers are not in harmony, then such a family is looked down upon by outsiders, and the family is easy to be bullied by others.

Therefore, in rural areas, people attach great importance to family harmony and believe that family harmony is the foundation of all good things, so there is a saying that "family and everything is prosperous" and "family and wealth are extensive". Even the dumplings for the New Year must have a vegetarian dumpling, hoping that in the new year, the brothers and sisters in the family can be "quiet and quiet" to avoid quarrels, all for the purpose of family harmony.

The saying that family affairs are not bullied by outsiders is very reasonable, from small families to large countries, if the husband and wife are not harmonious, they will not be respected by relatives, and they are easy to be bullied. If a country is constantly in dispute, it will also be easy to be bullied by other countries.

That's how I understand it, if we don't have a family relationship, it will make a lot of people laugh at us, and some people will bully us, I think it's quite reasonable.

Yes, because if you can't even handle the affairs of your own family, you will be considered incompetent in the eyes of outsiders, and then you will be bullied.

I think this sentence is still very reasonable, because if the family members do not live in peace, it is easy for outsiders to gossip about the family.

Or maybe it's because I like to make friends so much. In fact, in real life, friendship and love are very different, if you find that a female friend often goes outside to play with his friends, regardless of the family, basically because he likes to make friends very much, you can't say that she doesn't love her husband, but because she really likes to make friends, and friends bring a lot of things to themselves, maybe her husband is very busy with work, then at this time he will also have a better relationship!

The reason why this situation occurs shows that two people can't consider each other's feelings when they get along, or they manage the relationship with their hearts, resulting in the relationship between the two people is not particularly good.

Because some couples have no love at all when they are together, they have no feelings, they just live their lives, and they often quarrel over some things, so their lifestyle is not as good as the relationship between themselves and outsiders.

Two people have been together for a long time, and they can't solve problems well, and small contradictions gradually accumulate and become big contradictions, and the relationship will definitely not be particularly good after a long time.

Because these couples intersect too much in their daily lives, they will infinitely magnify each other's shortcomings, and their feelings are definitely not as good as outsiders who have a sense of distance from themselves.

Because it is inappropriate for these couples to be together, it is understandable that the twisted melon is not sweet, and the relationship is not as good as that of outsiders.

Because the husband and wife have been together for a long time, they hate each other very much, and they can always see each other's shortcomings, so they have a lot of boredom.

Because husband and wife do not know how to manage their feelings, nor do they know how to understand, tolerate and trust each other, and there is little communication, which leads to the occurrence of various contradictions, the more contradictions accumulate over time, and even a sense of disgust, so the feelings of some couples are not as good as outsiders.

The relationship between husband and wife is not deep, mainly because they know each other too much. There is nothing to say, I still love each other in my heart, and I don't respect each other on the surface.

Because some couples have no feelings between them at all, and often quarrel over some things, their feelings are not as good as those with outsiders.

Yes, it means that the girl is as beautiful as a flower, and the man is sorry for the woman.

Husbands and wives in life do not have the same three views, and family members are not completely identical in terms of thinking, concepts, values, methods, etc., but many people attribute the happiness of marriage to the three views and disagreement for a long time. For example, one husband and wife say that the sea is very wide and beautiful, full of poetry, and the other says that the sea is rough and turbulent, and it will capsize and drown, so they argue endlessly, who is right and who is wrong? In fact, no one is wrong, but they just have different opinions.

There will always be disagreements between husband and wife, but they don't know that the argument wins the result, but loses the relationship, sometimes the argument will not have the desired result, it will only make people physically and mentally exhausted, bored and uncomfortable. When the long-term happiness of marriage is greater than seeking the same three views, the contradictory result is no longer important. The three views of a good marriage are of course important, but more important than the three views is that you understand me, I understand you, and tolerate and accept each other.

There is no reason for husband and wife, only love or not, there is no right or wrong in family affairs, only harmony and discord.

Can husband and wife really go to the end for a long time if they don't have the same views? I personally think this is not necessarily, in fact, at the beginning of the beginning, the three views of husband and wife may be the same, but with the difference in their respective jobs, with the change of years, the growth of age and experience, may have their own different views and propositions on many issues, over time the formation of differences in the three views, but this does not affect the feelings, because the husband and wife are mutually tolerant, mutual understanding, mutual compromise, if this is done, even if the three views are different, can also go to the end.

Will a marriage with "incompatible views" last long? Is it ridiculous or pathetic? You'll understand after reading it!

I don't think it can go to the end for a long time, because the husband and wife don't have the same views, and there will definitely be a lot of contradictions in life.

I think that if the husband and wife do not have the same views, there will definitely be no way to go to the end, because the least two people together must have the same point of view.

It's difficult, if you don't understand each other, how can you live a good life together, a little thing can lead to separation.

Is it true that husband and wife can't go to the end if they don't have the same views? This is just an excuse for the weak and the fleeing party. Some people say that it is difficult to communicate if the three views do not coincide, have you not communicated before getting married? And why do you want to get married if you don't have three views?

What needs to be said is that couples with the same three views will definitely be able to go to the end? For example, two people who are very harmonious but strong, and there are many people who have lost their families for their careers.

Therefore, it is normal for husband and wife to have different views, and the key is mutual tolerance and tolerance, and whether they respect each other's way of life. No one should be an appendage of the other party, and has the right to choose what they like and what they hate.

The essence of the main problem is not whether the three views are compatible, but whether each other can continue to live in his own way, so that the husband and wife can live happily ever after.

The three views are constantly learning and correcting by people, as well as fickle changes, the three views have been changing, the environment in which people are living is changing, and they cannot adhere to the bottom line and principles of being a man, and they will inevitably make mistakes. A happy marriage is maintained by the correct three views, and a failed marriage is fixed by the wrong three views, but the reasons are varied, and the attribution is emotional breakdown, the inability to solve the problem through correct communication, the death of conscience, and the reckless mutual harm. If the marriage with an immortal conscience remembers the previous emotional foundation, the 100 days of grace of a husband and wife, and the fate of the same boat for thousands of years, the wrong three views that are gradually drifting away can be reshaped through change.

It is impossible to have the same three views, and the three views of perfectionism are an important reason for the rupture, no one is perfect, and mistakes can be forgiven and corrected. But everyone is a unique self in the world, mutual appreciation, complementarity and perfection, this kind of marriage is still happy. Marriage needs to be operated together, and it is a kind of cooperation and win-win situation based on seeking common ground while reserving differences, not a game of winning or losing with each other, but a win-win situation in cooperation and compromise on accommodation.

Because it is a free separation, sometimes the cost of separation is too low, such as buying a bowl of early money to get a divorce book, sometimes it is the reverse thinking under the wrong behavior to attribute the fixation, regardless of the cost of separation, so the disagreement of the three views is not a legitimate reason, and the fickle heart has a decisive role.

A person's worldview is generated by a person's life experience, and a variety of factors can affect a person's decisions and behavioral habits, and it is normal to have different dreams in the same bed. Values also include the concept of money, some people are born not to like money, controlled by the other party, there are also peaceful, but it is also easy to be depressed for a long time unfair heart and burst out of dissatisfaction, most of the people who control money are women, love vanity, this kind of quarrel is also fierce, and it is possible to break up at a moment.

The outlook on life is controlled by the inner outlook, people can not change the environment, but they are often influenced by the environment, if a person fails in a certain situation, encounters the dislike of the other party, the outlook on life is collapsed, originally hoped that the support of the lover to sum up the lessons to make a comeback. Husbands and wives need to understand each other, respect each other, confide in each other, communicate with each other, admire each other, and achieve each other, purgatory each other's hearts with a common soul, and protect small love from being shaken with inclusive love. The three views have no effect on marriage, and the death hole of an unhappy marriage is not in line.

I think the most important thing between husband and wife is the same three views, after all, they are lifelong partners, and they get along day and night, right?

Think about it, if you find a friend, you and your friend don't have the same views, and then you get along with your friend day and night, can you continue to maintain a friendship with your friend?

The so-called three views are the outlook on life, values, world view, outlook on life, for example, that is, your view of life, people live to make money.

ValuesTo give an example, I think money is the most important.

Worldview: To give an example, I think that when men are rich, they become bad, and girls become rich.

You've got it, right?

Do you want to be with such a person with three views, or even get married to someone like this?

A person's life is to make money, and he thinks that money is the most important, and he is afraid that men will become bad if they are rich, and women will be rich if they become bad.

If you have no money, you will work hard to earn money, and when you have money, you will beware of the other party's second heart, what happiness can such a couple have?

So I also ask everyone if they don't agree with each other, can such a couple go to the end for a long time?

I think it's that when such a husband and wife are together, two people have a special affection, but when disaster comes, they fly separately like birds in the forest.