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People in the same family can live together, everyone is relatives, if there is something, there are many people, they can help each other, everyone gets along in harmony, and they are happy, this is a good thing, there are such cases in ancient China, they are all living together in the same family, of course, everything has two aspects, both its benefits, then there are his shortcomings, people in the same family live together, there are many things, it is inevitable that there are disagreements, occasionally get together can also, if you are together for a long time, That will inevitably produce contradictions, and even disputes, so according to the current situation, it is better not to live together, now people like small families, so that there are fewer people and fewer things, and there are fewer contradictions. If there is really something, it is easy for everyone to greet them, and it is still a family, which is not bad. Family and blood ties are forever severed.
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According to normal speaking, people in the same family can live together, after all, a family does not speak two languages, everyone is a relative, so why bother to see outside, so there is nothing to live together, it is recommended to live together, and everyone can get along. This is a big family, and they will live happily together.
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If you only live together occasionally, of course you can. But to live together for a long time, I don't think it's good, because there will always be some contradictions after a long time. So it's best not to live together.
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Yes, this is how rural China lives, and I am really helping you look forward to it
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With the advancement of rural urbanization and the continuous development of commercial housing, it is becoming more and more common for two generations to live in one room, and the cost of living separately is much higher.
The weather is a barometer of mood every day.
However, I believe that many young people do not want to live with the elderly, saying that there is a generation gap in the vertical tassel. But with children, working women are bound to work together to take care of the children, so it is much more convenient to live together. Convenience is convenient, but everyone knows that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult to reconcile, mainly because of different positions, and the mother-in-law can not really regard the daughter-in-law who has just entered the house as her own child, what about the daughter-in-law:
At home, free and capricious, accustomed to not fitting in the new family.
The sunset is infinitely good, but unfortunately it is close to dusk.
Coupled with the differences in childcare, when there are many contradictions, it is difficult to have the best of both worlds, especially men, who are caught between their wives and mothers. After a long time, a man's patience will gradually wear out, and the balance will fall to his parents, and after 30 years, the balance will fall to his wife, why do you say that? This is both a sociology and an economics, because at this time, the man's interest community is the wife, and the marriage has not been stabilized before, and the interest community is the mother, I don't know if you have resonance.
What kind of mood to see what colors of the world.
On the other hand, the old people think traditionally, everything is the first choice to save water, save dirty water and reuse it, paper products can be saved, eat overnight dishes, repeatedly hot and hot, buy more and are reluctant to throw away, young people look tired, although it is just some trivial things, quarrels will become big things, and some may become the fuse of divorce.
There is also an extraordinary beauty in dusk.
So whether to live together with two generations, young people generally choose to deny, elders should also want to be enlightened, for children to help as much as possible, can not feel that not want to live together is unfilial, in fact, most of the life has to carry their own, life can not take care of themselves, children will not stand by, unpleasant but become a rival, can not draw. Although the juniors live under great pressure, they must also know how to be grateful, first the old people are worried and worried, and then the old people are happy.
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If you take it literally, this sentence means that in a family, family members cannot have more than three surnames, otherwise there will be a lot of contradictions. "Three" here is not a specific number, but represents three or more. The third surname generally refers to the two people with two surnames, and the daughter-in-law is the person with the third surname.
There is a big gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in terms of living habits and educating children, and it is difficult to communicate with each other.
If you only ask your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and your children and grandchildren, it's not necessarily true, as long as your daughter-in-law is filial and her mother-in-law can't be together. The premise is to help and love each other, the mother-in-law should lower her posture, take care of her grandchildren, take care of the family, and the daughter-in-law should respect the elderly and not be picky. There will be contradictions in the family, and encountering contradictions is not a war of words, but to know how to take a roundabout and not be tough, after all, it is not a contradiction between the enemy and me, or after a while, the rain will be clear.
No matter how good the tongue and teeth are, they will bite it, and long-term harmony must be humble to each other. As an old man, don't blindly stare at the younger generation or accompany you, looking left and right is not pleasing to the eye, the generation gap will always exist, and the culture will be updated, resulting in a different world view. Looking at new things with old eyes is equivalent to using your own ruler to regulate others, and you must love your grandchildren.
If the children get married, the spouse is the third surname, and people with three surnames live together, which is prone to conflicts. Because people from different families have different living habits, cognition of things, opinions, etc., it is easy to have disagreements and contradictions. Newlyweds also need to run in from falling in love to becoming a family, adapting to each other from all aspects to achieve a perfect and harmonious family atmosphere.
If the influence of other family members is added, it is easy to expand the conflict, which is not conducive to the resolution of conflicts between husband and wife, affects the harmony of husband and wife, and is even more detrimental to the harmony of the extended family. Therefore, living separately is to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or between mother-in-law and son-in-law. Three generations living in the same house are more likely to have conflicts, so try to avoid them.
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In many hotels, parents and adult children are not allowed to stay in the same room, which is a quick move because some hoteliers believe that this situation will involve sexual relations between family members, which will have a bad impact on the image of their hotel. However, this approach is not reasonable.
First of all, there should be no restrictions on the accommodation of parents and adult children provided that there is no sexual relationship between them and their adult children. Staying in the same room between them does not affect the safety and interests of other residents, nor does it violate any moral and legal requirements.
Secondly, if the hotel imposes such restrictions, it will cause some unnecessary trouble. For example, if parents and adult children have to live in different rooms, additional costs are required, which is unnecessary for the family's financial burden. At the same time, this practice can also limit the communication and communication between parents and children.
Finally, not allowing family members to live in the same room can also affect the image and reputation of the hotel. Since such regulations can cause dissatisfaction and complaints from guests, it can negatively affect the image of the hotel and thus its business.
While some hotels believe that not allowing family members to stay in the same room can maintain the hotel's image and increase revenue, in practice this restriction is not reasonable. Therefore, we hope that hotel managers can take this issue seriously, treat the accommodation needs of family members reasonably, and let guests feel a warm and comfortable accommodation experience in the hotel. At the same time, it is also hoped that the relevant departments will strengthen supervision and protect the rights and interests of guests.
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Kiss, you don't have to live together all the time, even if you live with your family in a colleague, if it's for the convenience of work, or guess that you can live with your family before you are financially independent, but if you have your own job or your own family, you have the financial ability to buy a house, buy a car to have a home of your own, you can consider moving out, you have a space of your own, and your lover has a space that belongs to your two people. But since you live in the same city with your family, you must remember to go home more often, go home often, and spend more time with the elderly at home, and it is still very happy to be able to live in the same city as your family<>
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I think there must be a lot of right and wrong. Because three generations live together, there must be differences in living habits, consumption concepts, and values, and after a long time, there will be contradictions because of these things.
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There are many rights and wrongs, because there are many people with mixed mouths, and sometimes the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intentional, and after a long time, there will be complaints in each other's hearts.
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I think a lot. Because there are too many people, it is easy to involve some personal interests, which can easily lead to some contradictions and affect the relationship between family members.
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It's a lot, if you look at the TV series in ancient times, you can know how many rights and wrongs there are, and in modern times, a large family lives together, and there will be no fewer rights and wrongs than in ancient times.
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There are indeed many rights and wrongs for a large family to live together. Everyone's ideas are different, and their requirements for life are also different, and it is inevitable that there will be friction between each other and cause right and wrong.
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There are many rights and wrongs for a large family to live together. Because everyone's concept is different, there may be some friction between things, and the relationship will be alienated over time.
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In my opinion, there will indeed be rights and wrongs when a large family lives together, because everyone has their own calculations and is unwilling to suffer, which will naturally cause disputes and cause right and wrong.
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There are many rights and wrongs for a large family to live together. A large family includes several generations, and each generation has different ideological concepts, and often causes a series of disputes because of some concepts.
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I think it will be more. Because a large family lives together, not everyone's ideas are similar, and conflicts are likely to arise over a trivial matter.
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Many, I used to live with my husband's sister's family for a month or two for various reasons, and my mother-in-law, a total of seven people, and the relationship between their mother and daughter must be good, but the result is that they dare not quarrel loudly, and they dare not say that the food is not in place.
Brothers and sisters working together should live separately, even if they live together, they should live in separate rooms. Although they are brothers and sisters, there are differences between men and women, and sometimes it will be inconvenient.
Personally, I think that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not suitable for living together for a long time; If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, they need to pay attention to their words and deeds at all times, and they must also show due respect to their mother-in-law.
If you live with your mother-in-law, I think you can bear it, after all, there will be a certain generation gap between people in the two generations, which is a normal thing, and I guess there will be, so if you feel unhappy, then take a look at whether you can bear it or not, just reason with him, right? If not, forget it.
Roommate cleanliness, drying clothes accidentally touched her clothes, her face immediately changed, no matter what you do, you have to be careful, you have to accommodate others, living together like this, it's quite tiring.
Absolutely. Because I lived with my parents, I have been living with my parents for 10 years, and although it is inevitable that there will be some stumbles, I feel very happy. >>>More