Can you tell us what it s like to live with your parents?

Pretty bad and now separated. Parents and young people have different concepts, and they will not understand young people in many places, so they will not be used to each other when they live together.

It's very uncomfortable, always quarrelsome, and can't control it. I feel that it is enough to live closer, and I can take care of my parents if I live closer, after all, they are old and need the care of their children, because of the age gap, different views, and conflicts with parents, so it is recommended to live separately so that they will have their own private free space, in short, there are more benefits.

It is best to keep the children's home and the parents' home at a distance of one bowl of rice. In other words, a bowl of hot rice is delivered to the parents' house, and the rice is not yet cold. It is the best distance to be able to take care of each other without living together and causing conflicts, but unfortunately, it is not easy to have this bowl of rice distance, it is limited by various conditions.

It's not very good, I actually want to give a word of advice to unmarried girls, it's best to try to get to know your husband's family and family before marriage, don't feel that it doesn't matter if you don't marry his family anyway, my experience tells me that these will really affect your life very much, and it is a long-term state.

At first, I thought it was good to be fresh together, but after a long time, the problem came out. My wife has been having a stiff relationship with my mom lately, and I'm very uncomfortable in the middle.

I feel a little wronged by my wife. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship in the world, if you live together, both parties must be very inclusive, otherwise there will be conflicts over time, making chickens and dogs jump inside and outside the family, and everyone will not be at peace.

In my own experience, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult and difficult, and I tried it, but it finally failed, and it also led to conflicts between the two families to this day.

I can't afford to buy a house, so I have no choice but to live together. My family background is average, and my life can be smooth and transitional. Living in the city, a house of 100 square meters, 3 bedrooms and 2 living rooms.

I have no stable career for the time being, and only one of my parents is entitled to a pension. The family's economic income is low, and it is no problem to maintain the family life, but if you want to buy a house, you will never be able to do it, and you can't even think about it.

I was so willing to live with my parents. The main points are as follows.

It's living with my parents, who take care of all the housework, and when I come home there is a ready-made meal, and it's still the taste of my mother. I can be a hands-off shopkeeper (snickering).

I live with my parents, and all the expenses of the family are paid by my parents, whether it is as small as a needle or as large as the various water, electricity, weather, gas and heating bills at home, I can live a fairy life without spending money on food and clothing (continue to snicker).

It is to live with the parents, if there is a small baby, the parents can be a good waiter for the daughter-in-law confinement, the parents can be a full-time nanny, both responsible and parenting experience, can take care of the baby, I can sleep until I wake up naturally (or steal fun).

It is to live with Yinfan and disturb the parents, and the family does not speak two words, which can reflect the atmosphere of the family, and will also allow the daughter-in-law and mother to establish trust and respect, and can handle the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, and establish a harmonious and happy family (continue to snicker at the sedan chair rent).

Whether it is with parents or there are many inconveniences, friction, and misunderstandings, these problems need to be paid attention to and overcome.

To be honest, it's not very acceptable.

Although living with your parents may help with cooking and taking care of the children, the overall harm still outweighs the benefits.

First of all, there is a big difference between the living habits of parents and the younger generation, generally parents go to bed early and get up early, and young people will go to bed late, which will interfere with the rest of one party to a certain extent.

Second, there is a big difference between parents and the younger generation. Whether the man and the woman's parents live together, or the woman lives with the man's parents, there will be some irreconcilable contradictions, after all, the other party is not the biological child, and the parents and the biological child will have all kinds of contradictions, not to mention that they are not biological. Some parents and the younger generation in China will get along with each other without a sense of boundaries when they become adults, but people need some sense of distance to get along after adulthood.

It's a complicated question.

If you can accept it, that's fine. After all, there is so much social pressure now, if both parties are single, then it is normal to live with their parents after marriage, and for parents, they also want their children to be able to start a family.

However, if you can't accept it, then think carefully! After all, after getting married, you have to face a lot of practical problems.

First of all, there is the economic issue. Although young people are very busy with work now, as long as you have the heart and work hard, it is not difficult to earn a good income. So, in this case, you can completely let your parents come and live with you, and in this way, it can also reduce your burden.

However, you should pay attention to one thing, that is, you must give all the savings of the family to your parents, because, only in this way, they will be relieved to take care of your life.

Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I believe many people know that since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a very difficult problem to deal with. As women, they especially hope that their husbands can be on their side, so when their mother-in-law has a conflict with them, they will feel aggrieved.

At this time, if you choose to complain to your husband, then he will think that you are hypocritical, and even think that you don't know the general situation. On the contrary, if you choose not to care about these things, but take the initiative to coax your mother-in-law, she may understand you and even have some good feelings for you.

The third is married life. You know, marriage is the grave of love. Once you enter into marriage, the relationship between husband and wife can easily fade.

And at this time, if you don't have children, then your relationship may still last. But if you have children, there may be a lot of conflicts between you. For example, the education of the child, or the child's upbringing.

At this time, if you can't communicate well, then, the relationship between you is likely to break down. Of course, this is also a bad outcome. But if you can communicate well with your husband, perhaps, he will change his attitude towards you.

Fourth, it is disrespectful to elders. You know, we are taught from a young age to honor our parents and respect our elders. However, when you get married, you and your partner don't understand this truth, and even behave disrespectfully with your elders.

Just imagine, such a family, do you think it will have a good development?