My girlfriend has a mental problem, do I have to let go?

It's up to you, don't let go if you truly love the other person. If you have a mental problem, you can take her to the hospital for a check-up**, if you leave him, it will only cause more mental damage to her.

You have to let go, which means that the other party's spirit is not particularly normal, and it may also affect your future life, so you should break up at this time.

This needs to be done on a case-by-case basis. If it is difficult for you to meet someone you like in a relationship, and your girlfriend cares a lot about you and likes you, and if you have already told you about this problem during the relationship, I think you should spend more time with her and give him security and comfort. If this situation is found in a later relationship and you can't accept it, it is recommended to choose a good one.

If your girlfriend has told you from the beginning of her relationship with you that he has a mental condition, you should know about it and should get along well, but if you hide it, it means that he has a purpose, and in this case, you can choose to let go.

If you like him enough, even if he has mental problems, as long as he doesn't hurt your problems, then you can continue to date, if she is a good girl, you can deserve it.

You should let it go, because mental illnesses are hereditary, and living together later in life will be very stressful.

If you don't have a particularly deep affection for your girlfriend, you can let it go, and the damage to both parties will be reduced.

Personally, I think that if there is a mental problem, there is still a need to break up, because it will affect the future generations.

It depends. If it is difficult to meet likes in a relationship, and the woman cares about liking it very much, if the appointment has already passed, I feel that I have more accompaniment, a sense of harmony. If the latter case.

I think the biggest contradiction in your family's opposition is the fear that this kind of mental problem will bring heredity, the fear that your next generation will suffer from mental problems, which no one wants to happen, people are selfish, please understand your parents.

I think there must be a relationship between you, otherwise you wouldn't be married, and no one knows if there will be inheritance in the future, so you can consult the doctor about the possibility of inheritance. Secondly, she is now well, and if you abandon her, she will definitely be very uncomfortable, and maybe she knows the reason for your parents' opposition (her past), because this abandonment of her will make her more painful and more wronged. No one wants to be abandoned by others!

Please cherish !!

This disease is not epilepsy, but is caused by study stress. (My nephew also had the same symptoms) is very unlikely to be inherited, and a woman like this is very kind at heart, but also very fragile. Judging from the character of this kind of person alone, a man has a great wife and a good wife.

As a man, everyone wants to marry a woman who is very healthy physically and mentally. But it often backfires. It would be a pity to think that you would marry a woman who would be compared with this woman.

This is a lifelong event, and I hope to be cautious!

After all, that's the problem of the past, give her ** with love, this is the best medicine.

This question should be empathized.,If that girl is you.,He's also trapped for this matter to break up.,What would you think?,Will be an old illness**.。。。 The one on the first floor is right, love is the most medicine, with love**.

I don't know how you would agree to break up, people in the 21st century will still be so feudal.

Is it a mental problem or epilepsy... You might as well take her to see it...

Some friends said that she did this because she cared about you, and she loved you. But we should understand that love is also a ability, and love also needs to be learned. Your girlfriend's problem is:

She may love you, but she doesn't know how to love someone. It does not mean that everything can be accepted and forgiven as long as it is because of love. Sometimes, it's because of love that we feel tormented, just like you are now.

If you cherish this relationship, then I think you must first be generous, but in fact, the key is not that you are unilaterally tolerant, but that the two of you should work together. For your girlfriend, I think you should change the way you discuss problems, don't explain, quarrel, blame or even intensify conflicts every time, but learn to face the differences between two people rationally and calmly, and learn to see the real root cause from the superficial quarrels.

Your girlfriend's behavior seems incomprehensible, but in fact, it may be because she always wants to control you, it may be because she is insecure and afraid of losing you, so she cares so much about your words and deeds. Sometimes, because you don't have confidence in yourself, your feelings, and your future, you will be overly sensitive and persistent, and therefore you will attract your attention through seemingly vexatious behaviors, and unconsciously control your emotions and behaviors.

I feel like you all want to change, and you're all struggling with it. You can calmly talk about the problems between the two of you at the right time. For example, what is the reason for the conflict because of trivial matters?

Often the contradictions between two people are because of small things, and trivial things may not be a big deal, but slowly accumulated, maybe the last feather overwhelmed the camel, but in fact, the problem is not the last feather, but the accumulation of little things in the early stage. Also you should make a contract, a contract about quarrels. For example, whenever there is a conflict, it is not allowed to turn over old accounts, it is not allowed to break up, it is not allowed to exceed x days, it is not allowed to run away from home, it is not allowed to ignore it, and so on.

Be as clear and specific as possible, but it will only be worthwhile if both of you really want to change the status quo.

The methods may seem concrete, but it really depends on whether you want to change or not. If it's just outwardly painful for this, but internally relying on this sense of control, it won't have much effect.

I wish you all happiness.

Hehe, your girlfriend is very similar to me, but I'm a little better than her. I'm always very sensitive, I have to think about a little bit of things in my heart, I always feel that my boyfriend is not good enough for me, how much I give, I feel very pitiful. Crying and making trouble.

But I'm also really nice to my boyfriend. He also said he was going crazy. But I'm also very coaxing, as long as he softens a little and coaxes me, hugs me, and makes me feel warm, it will be fine soon.

So I thought, you should hug her right away, coax her, maybe she won't cry anymore. Regardless of whether you really feel that you are wrong or not, admit it first, and you are not an enemy anyway, so why take advantage of it. When you're happy afterwards, you'll be fine.

If it's just a little angry, then just tease her.

You try it, it may work.

I was surprised after reading your story, because I am also such a girl, and it is exactly the same as the girl you described, so I can best understand your question.

You can't let go, because she cares about you to do this, love you like this, you should be happy, learn to be generous, be tolerant, coax her more when she is angry, you must be patient, but it's best not to make her angry, or she will think that you don't love him, you know? Remember what I told you, it must work, this girl and the two of us can really go and worship, really, it's too similar, friend!

I remember someone once said to me: When people's thoughts change, their behavior changes; When behavior changes, habits change; When habits change, personality changes; If your personality changes, your fate will change. Therefore, character determines fate.

In fact, your girlfriend's temper can be changed, as long as she wants to change it. If you love someone, what can stop her from changing her temper. If she really can't change her temper, it proves that she doesn't love you enough.

So do I. Or maybe she needs your help.

Take her to see a psychiatrist, or break up with her right away. Good for both people.

Take good care of her, she really can't live without you.

Then change your mindset. Explain everything slowly and slowly.

Don't give up, love is not easy. It's trust, it's tempering. Tears are each other's silent language, quarrels, and care for each other, and worry about each other.

Love her well. I wish you all happiness.

I think you should communicate well and understand and tolerate each other. Don't make a girl sad and sad easily! The last thing I can see a girl cry is because tears are contagious, and I wish you happiness

You're so miserable, although everyone says persuasion and don't persuade to separate, but my experience is that if you want a wife, then divide it as soon as possible, you can't stand it now, so what will you do in the next few decades?!

Brother, I'm about the same as you, but not as badly as you.

My girlfriend is always getting into trivial things as if it's serious. You have to tell a lot of truth every time. It's annoying to make people's hearts.

I'm also annoyed, so it's better to break up.

If it was me, we would have broken up a long time ago, but then again, I can understand that you love her!

You need to sit down and have a good talk, say what you want to say, and let the other person understand!

She is too sensitive and can only find a boyfriend who has no temper.

If you have such a mentality now, what will you do when you get married in the future, and you will continue to walk for decades, do you bear it?

What if your child has a mental illness? It's okay if you don't think about yourself, but you always have to think about your future children, and you have to be responsible for society!!

It must be, live with anyone, love will disappear one day, and the rest is family trivialities.

It's intermittent, so if you really love it, don't give up, maybe you can get better by going to the hospital or through your usual mood.

Hearing you say that, I feel very sorry for that girl. Everyone cannot choose to live, grow old, sickness or die.

If it's true love, do you still need to ask this question? If you ask, it means that you have already made up your mind, but you don't dare to face your true self.

Psychosis is congenital. There is also an acquired one.

Love continues, and if you don't love, you can't give up, after all, you have gotten along, and having neuropathy is not necessarily bad