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People who can't see other people's good, they will say bad things about each other behind their backs, and they will also make other people cut off contact with each other, and even often sour words behind their backs, secretly mocking each other, I think if someone has these performances, just cut off contact with each other, don't add too much trouble to yourself.
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The first is evasive, the second is very jealous, the third is that I don't want you to live well, the fourth is not sincere to help you, and the fifth is always wary of you.
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When you are in trouble, he will fall into the ground, not only will he not help you, but he will laugh at you, he will pour cold water on you when you are happy, and he will show you off when he wins.
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This kind of person's behavior is that when you are successful, she will be jealous and envious, and when you are down, she will sarcastically mock you, ridicule you, take other people's disasters as good news, and gloat.
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Nowadays, it is very common that except for their parents and spouses, few people can accept that others are better than themselves, and this kind of person is generally secretly happy when others are doing badly, and others are jealous and hateful when they are doing well.
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If you look at what kind of achievements you have achieved, they will be very disdainful, and they will always feel that it doesn't matter, and there are always some very unpleasant things that irritate you, making you feel that this is not through such means, in fact, they can't see you well.
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Jealous of you, what she said is indeed good, this kind of person still stays away from her early, and when she sees you good, she will sarcastically say to you, deliberately ignore your feelings, or deliberately belittle some of your feelings, in fact, she is jealous of you, and sometimes she likes to say bad things about you in front of others.
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In daily life, everyone has their own life circle, and in their own life circle, they have to associate with countless people, who often play the role of the world, reflecting everyone's joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Mr. Lu Xun once said: "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat it together", which means that it can really pull you when you are in difficulty, and it is enough to have such a confidant.
It is conceivable that sometimes having more friends is not necessarily a good thing, because not everyone around you wants you to live happily, if the people around you have the following four "not seeing you well" performance, then you should be properly vigilant.
1.When you're at a low point in your life, it won't pull you along.
People often tell you that when you have a happy event, the people around you are often the icing on the cake, but when you are really in trouble, you are often surrounded by those who are not in trouble.
Everyone on the road of life, it is impossible to go on smoothly all the time, know when, you may encounter difficulties, there is a trough in life. If in such a situation, those who were originally around you are all gone.
Then such a person should beware of him, and the person who can share the happiness with you, but does not want to share the hardships with you, is the most dangerous person in your life.
2.When you are a small achievement, they always speak ill of you behind your back.
The gentleman is frank, and the villain is a relative", this sentence is from the "Analects. Narrative and. If it is a gentleman, they are usually open-minded, and only those villains will be calculating and saying bad things behind people's backs.
When people make some small achievements in something, it will inevitably hinder some people's eyes and make some people feel uncomfortable. It's all because of your success, which has become an obstacle for some people, so no matter what you do, they will not like it, but they are helpless against you, and can only say some bad things about you behind your back.
This kind of person will always be a white-eyed wolf who can't be raised, hiding in the dark and wanting to bite you at any time, so such people must stay away.
3.Will sneer at you when you encounter setbacks.
Some people never know how to treat people sincerely in life, no matter who they get along with, they wear masks, and they have two faces when dealing with people. When you are successful, you may be flattered by your beard, and I can't wait to follow you every day and sprinkle water for you.
But once you encounter a setback, they will slip away faster than anyone else, not only draw a clear line with you, but also sneer at you, eager to trample you in the mud.
4.Once you are better off than him, he is not convinced.
The kind of people to watch out for are those who have a very strong, jealous mentality. This kind of person can never look down on others better than themselves, they are born with a character of fear of chaos in the world, as long as they see that you are inferior to him, or when you are unsatisfactory, they are happier than anyone else.
This kind of person regards the interaction between friends as a contest between each other, and with this kind of person, you will never see your sincerity.
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People who can't see you will have these 3 performances, and no matter how good the relationship is, you have to cut off contact.
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Jealousy can make people ugly, although they hear your good news, their faces are full of smiles, but they think about your bad in their hearts, hoping that you will be unlucky, and they will give you small shoes, but they don't help you, and they still talk bad about you and ruin your character, such friends must stay away.
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Because people who "can't see you well" will sneer at you from time to time, and will block and hinder what you have to do, so it is better to stay away.
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