The more people who can t see you, the more characteristics they have, and you should pay attention

People with higher kinetic energy than you recognize you and praise you, while those with lower kinetic energy suppress you and slander you, and their spiritual essence controls you and hates to turn you into the same person as him. You will find that as soon as you get close, some people start to perform in various ways, often suppressing you in various categories and making you feel very uncomfortable. That kind of person himself is the spiritual essence that controls you, and because he can't see you well, he keeps pouring cold water on you, suppressing you all the time, and wants to pull you down.

You should believe in your own ideas, and if you are always robbed of your momentum, and when you get close to some people, you can choose to avoid them. Don't let the other party hurt you again and again because of your face, don't let the other party hurt you again and again because of your indecision, this is cruel to yourself. The person who is really good for you is ruthless and can't hurt you, even if a person suppresses you every day, how can it be for your good?

Don't believe his reasons, it's just a cover for jealousy of you.

In the case of your weakness, you can actually see people's hearts the most. People who really feel sorry for you will not give up when you are at a low point and do their best to pull you along. And people who usually don't look down on you well, when you are at a low point, will be very active, eager to step on you, so that you will not be able to turn the tables for the rest of your life.

Maybe you haven't done anything wrong, but some people are bad engraved in their bones, they can't see you well, and when you are weak, they also cross the river and tear down the bridge.

You must know that the people who poured frost in the snow during your trough period were never teachers and friends, so they avoided it fiercely, fought back with their own efforts, and shut up these people who looked down on you. There is no purity in the world at all, and everyone must learn to protect themselves, and they don't have to show sincerity when they meet others. Some people are engraved in their bones, and you can't influence them, so you have to take precautions when you meet them.

People who really care about you, who are good for you, will give you happiness when you get benefits from your unremitting efforts, and regard your happiness as your own happiness. And there are always some people who don't like you, and when you have something to achieve, they like to cause you trouble. For example, they will gossip about you in private, make rumors about you, and add a lot of trouble to your life for no reason.

Even, no matter what you want to do, even if you don't hinder him, he still stumbles you everywhere. This kind of person who sees that he can't be kind to you in his heart, really don't move his compassion anymore, think more carefully, and can't give him the opportunity to damage you again and again. I really want to give it to someone who is very worthy, but some people don't like you at the beginning and cause you trouble everywhere, so don't be soft-hearted when you see that person again.

There are characteristics that care about you very much in front of you and say bad things about you behind your back, and you must stay away from such people when you meet them, because there is no benefit in associating with such people.

They may be very close to you on the surface, but what they say to you will make you feel uncomfortable, that is, they will not see you.

will show off in front of the other party and defeat the other party's self-confidence; Helping others with a false heart.

Life is a solitary walk, and the cultivation is all alone. No one can guarantee that everyone will think about others everywhere, and more often than not, thinking is about personal interests. Wise people understand that they cannot stand on a higher level and anticipate human nature.

If you want to make fewer mistakes in your life, you need to think about what to do if the worst happens. Risk cannot be avoided, and the risk level that is solved is the most important thing in a life. People's hearts are unpredictable, and emotions are the most taboo.

The vast majority of those who end up being killed are due to false feelings and human nature.

In adult life, not everyone is as simple as it seems, a smiling face does not mean friendliness, and life is full of masks. One of the most distressing things in this world is to be slandered and severely attacked by those around you. But bias is not good for people who are always around you.

There are usually the following 4 types of personal behaviors on each body, and one of them must be guarded against. Vitriolic and mean, staying out of the matter is the whole process of going through difficulties, and frustration is unlikely to be absent. No matter how much patience a person has, he can't avoid hardships and hardships, and when life is at a low point, he can see the sincerity of the people around him most clearly.

It is not easy for a true friend to watch you fall down, they may not be able to help for various reasons, but they will definitely do their best to help, and it is impossible to stay out of it. On the contrary, those who used to wear a mask around you and continue to brag will take off the mask when you are down. Beware of those who are snarky when you encounter setbacks or disappointments, they may sound reasonable at first glance, but as long as they only say but don't do it, the endless blame is not worth the sincere effort again.

It is easier for people to see the world clearly when they are down, no matter how good the relationship between two people was before, as long as they are down, everything will be clear and clear. Whether the people around you treat you sincerely or not will only be seen most clearly during the low tide period.

Jealousy of you with the increase of age and experience, you will find that the person who is most disliked to you is usually the person next to you. This kind of person can't see the good of others, doesn't want you to live better than yourself, and is very jealous.

is very disdainful of what you do, and will often tease you in normal times, and will say bad things about you behind your back.

It's easy to laugh at you when you're down, and look down on you when you're down.

Relatives and good friends in the true sense of the word, from the time you encounter difficulties and are at a low point in your life, they will help you in meaningful ways. Even if it really can't help much, at least it will still actively care about you, encourage you, and sincerely hope that you can get out of the situation as soon as possible. A person with a good heart, even for a down-and-out stranger, is destined to have mercy, let alone the people around him.

But you never know what kind of attitude the person you think you can believe in has towards you.

Some people, this person is narrow-minded, good at jealousy, and can't see that others live better than him. Only when you are unlucky, when you are down, is they the happiest. It may sound a little hard to believe, but this is their truest state of mind.

If he were a passerby, he might not care so much, but if you were close to him, then his jealousy of you would be more obvious than anyone else's.

Every time they hear the news that you are in a predicament and at a low point in your life, they will feel very comfortable in their hearts. On the one hand, it is they who find psychological solace: there are people who have lived worse than me.

On the other hand, they can look down on you with pride and say things like "I didn't want to see you then" or "I know it's not good," all in a cynical tone.

If you are diligent, they will not be able to see you when they are cold, and they naturally don't want you to cheer up again. Only the one who collapsed after failure also met their expectations. When you are depressed and sinking, they will not feel sad at all, and in turn they can only feel very secure.

But one day when he came to his senses and made up his mind to work harder, they began to feel uneasy. As we all know, if you persevere, you will reach your dreams sooner or later.

Once you're getting by, they're going to feel bad all over. Striking your faith is what they are most passionate about at the moment. No matter what you say you want to do, they are very unwelcome, and they will pour cold water on you, hoping that you will give it up yourself.

For example, if you say you want to investigate, they will also say that you have to be able to pass the exam, and everyone in China can be admitted.

If you say you have to start your own business, they will say that it will be like this, and there is no doubt that they will end up bankrupt. If you "don't listen to dissuasion" and persevere to be your true self, they will be unwilling but helpless to say some cold words. For example, "it consumes time", "I will regret it in the future", "I don't know what the devil is", etc., in short, it is very difficult to hear.

At the end of the day, they just don't see you well and therefore don't want you to be diligent at all.

People around you who don't see you well, when they see you doing well, will say something sarcastic. Will gossip about you with others. Such people must be vigilant.

may often talk to you in a mocking tone, and may chat with you in a yin and yang tone.

They will tell you that someone is bad or provoke you to have a relationship with others, and then they will be hot and cold to you.

Saying bad things behind your back, pouring cold water on you when you're particularly happy, saying sarcastic things often, won't help you when you're in trouble, and looking down on you when you're at a low point.

The first manifestation is that they are very close on the surface, but behind the scenes, they speak ill of us or do something that hurts us; The second manifestation is that when you are good, the other party is close to you, but when you are frustrated, they choose to stay away from you.

Often talk bad about you, often get angry with you, often show off, often speak ill of you behind your back, often make bad things behind your back.

He always belittles you, speaks ill of you, chews his tongue behind his back, laughs at you, and looks down on you, which shows that he can't see you well.

People who sincerely hope that you will have a good life will provide you with motivation and self-confidence, so that you can be more motivated to move forward no matter how difficult it is. She doesn't want you to live in a gloomy life, and what he says to you is what you want to hear. Feeling sorry for you and choosing your ideas is unlikely to eliminate your initiative, less likely to make you doubt your abilities, less likely to persuade you to go backwards.

And the people who don't want you to live well in their hearts have always created opportunities to say something that hurts you harshly, so that you create a false impression and feel that you have no skills. Every time you do something independently and get some edification, he doesn't agree with it, it feels like it's nothing great, and anyone can do what they say. You have to remember:

Not only do they not praise you, but they also say such ugly things, they are jealous of you, and they are afraid that your life will get better and better, and you will climb higher and higher.

In fact, the path of life requires not only hard work, but also fortune. That is to say, if you work hard, try to complete everything, and do not have lazy thoughts, your ability will improve, and then there will be a good opportunity, and if you grasp it, your money will increase. You can't work hard if you don't work hard, you can't do it without luck, you have to have both.

Your life is constantly moving in a good direction because you have always been diligent and lucky, don't mess around, and don't imagine waking up and getting everything.

When a person denies your efforts and thinks that you are living your current life only because of your good fortune, then you have to tear up your face with him and stop contacting him. Often treat such a person like this because he no longer wants you to go to the life you want. There is a high probability that such a person will happen next to everyone, so when getting along with people, you can see that he is very "sour", so don't go deep again.

Perhaps many people have not thought about this situation: "Is it right or wrong to treat someone sincerely?" "Because I feel in my heart that if I only need to do something for one person and treat him as a good friend, the two will become friends, and they will never be invested in vain.

This may seem like no problem, but the person you live with is likely to have three views of the problem, and the things you do for him will often be taken for granted by him.

Not only will he not realize that you are good to him, but he will continue to look down on you very much, and always feel that you don't deserve anything. A person like this who looks down on you and doesn't agree with your opinions is not easy to accept any of your suggestions, and every time you spend time and ideas trying to find a way for him, he will use some words to scold you. If a person doesn't speak well, he just wants to harm your mood, so that you don't have a smile on your face, and you don't have a lot of things in your heart, so you don't get so close to him anymore.

You can't do this, you have to listen to me, you don't have great skills. The person who says these things is really hitting you and not giving you self-confidence, so we must stay away from this kind of person.

People who can't see you often tell you: Yo, do you eat well all day long, I don't have this treatment.

1。It's not a big deal, don't be so confident. People who sincerely hope that you are doing well will give you encouragement and self-confidence, so that you will be more motivated to move forward bravely no matter what difficulties you face.

He doesn't want you to live passively, and what he says to you is what you want to hear the most.

2.You're just lucky, otherwise it makes no difference. In fact, life requires not only hard work, but also luck.

That is to say, if you work hard, do everything seriously, and do not have lazy thoughts, your ability will improve, and then you will have a good opportunity and seize it, and the money will increase. You can't do it without hard work, you can't do it without luck, you have to have both.

3.Who do you think you are, don't be so presumptuous. Many people have not thought about this question:

Is it right or wrong to treat a person sincerely? "Because I feel in my heart that as long as I do something for a person and treat him as a friend, the two of them will become good friends, and they will never pay in vain.