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People who sincerely hope that you will have a good life will provide you with motivation and self-confidence, so that you can be more motivated to move forward no matter how difficult it is. She doesn't want you to live in a gloomy life, and what he says to you is what you want to hear. Feeling sorry for you and choosing your ideas is unlikely to eliminate your initiative, less likely to make you doubt your abilities, less likely to persuade you to go backwards.

And the people who don't want you to live well in their hearts have always created opportunities to say something that hurts you harshly, so that you create a false impression and feel that you have no skills. Every time you do something independently and get some edification, he doesn't agree with it, it feels like it's nothing great, and anyone can do what they say. You have to remember:

Not only do they not praise you, but they also say such ugly things, they are jealous of you, and they are afraid that your life will get better and better, and you will climb higher and higher.

In fact, the path of life requires not only hard work, but also fortune. That is to say, if you work hard, try to complete everything, and do not have lazy thoughts, your ability will improve, and then there will be a good opportunity, and if you grasp it, your money will increase. You can't work hard if you don't work hard, you can't do it without luck, you have to have both.

Your life is constantly moving in a good direction because you have always been diligent and lucky, don't mess around, and don't imagine waking up and getting everything.

When a person denies your efforts and thinks that you are living your current life only because of your good fortune, then you have to tear up your face with him and stop contacting him. Often treat such a person like this because he no longer wants you to go to the life you want. There is a high probability that such a person will happen next to everyone, so when getting along with people, you can see that he is very "sour", so don't go deep again.

Perhaps many people have not thought about this situation: "Is it right or wrong to treat someone sincerely?" "Because I feel in my heart that if I only need to do something for one person and treat him as a good friend, the two will become friends, and they will never be invested in vain.

This may seem like no problem, but the person you live with is likely to have three views of the problem, and the things you do for him will often be taken for granted by him.

Not only will he not realize that you are good to him, but he will continue to look down on you very much, and always feel that you don't deserve anything. A person like this who looks down on you and doesn't agree with your opinions is not easy to accept any of your suggestions, and every time you spend time and ideas trying to find a way for him, he will use some words to scold you. If a person doesn't speak well, he just wants to harm your mood, so that you don't have a smile on your face, and you don't have a lot of things in your heart, so you don't get so close to him anymore.

You can't do this, you have to listen to me, you don't have great skills. The person who says these things is really hitting you and not giving you self-confidence, so we must stay away from this kind of person.

People who can't see you often tell you: Yo, do you eat well all day long, I don't have this treatment.

1。It's not a big deal, don't be so confident. People who sincerely hope that you are doing well will give you encouragement and self-confidence, so that you will be more motivated to move forward bravely no matter what difficulties you face.

He doesn't want you to live passively, and what he says to you is what you want to hear the most.

2.You're just lucky, otherwise it makes no difference. In fact, life requires not only hard work, but also luck.

That is to say, if you work hard, do everything seriously, and do not have lazy thoughts, your ability will improve, and then you will have a good opportunity and seize it, and the money will increase. You can't do it without hard work, you can't do it without luck, you have to have both.

3.Who do you think you are, don't be so presumptuous. Many people have not thought about this question:

Is it right or wrong to treat a person sincerely? "Because I feel in my heart that as long as I do something for a person and treat him as a friend, the two of them will become good friends, and they will never pay in vain.

The same rice raises hundreds of people, some people are generous and tolerant, and some people are selfish and stingy, narrow-minded, and calculating. Some of us in life call for sincerity and goodness, and some people wish that you are not good at anything and can't see you well. A person who is really good to you, he wants you to live well, he will not be jealous of you, he wants you to live happily, if you live well, he will be happy for you.

And those who are jealous of you and don't like you will not be able to see your goodness, you will not be able to see your excellent place, he will be jealous of you when you are doing well, he will be jealous of you, hate you, and even hate you, and find a way to destroy you, you are not as good as him, he will be happy and proud. If you are better off than him, he will hate you, be jealous of you, dislike you, hit you behind your back, belittle you, and slander you. Sometimes people are so selfish that they can't see the people around them doing well.

If a person can't see you, you have to keep your distance, because the person who can't see you will not treat you, he won't like you, and he will be deeply jealous of you in his heart, and he will find a way to torture you and make you unhappy.

People who are jealous of you will not be kind to you, they will only fight and suppress you and deliberately find fault with you. If you get along with him, he will only say something that makes you uncomfortable to tease, hit you, and make you feel uncomfortable.

The more you don't see your good person, the more malicious he is to you, because because he is jealous of you, he will make you uncomfortable everywhere, and the world will make you uncomfortable everywhere, as long as he sees you uncomfortable, he will be satisfied when he sees you uncomfortable. This kind of person is narrow-minded, selfish, only wants to be good for himself, can't see the good of others, only wants good things to belong to him, and others are better to be worse than him, and he still has to keep his distance when he meets this kind of person.

People who can't see other people's good, they will say bad things about each other behind their backs, and they will also make other people cut off contact with each other, and even often sour words behind their backs, secretly mocking each other, I think if someone has these performances, just cut off contact with each other, don't add too much trouble to yourself.

The first is evasive, the second is very jealous, the third is that I don't want you to live well, the fourth is not sincere to help you, and the fifth is always wary of you.

When you are in trouble, he will fall into the ground, not only will he not help you, but he will laugh at you, he will pour cold water on you when you are happy, and he will show you off when he wins.

Life is a solitary walk, and the cultivation is all alone. No one can guarantee that everyone will think about others everywhere, and more often than not, thinking is about personal interests. Wise people understand that they cannot stand on a higher level and anticipate human nature.

If you want to make fewer mistakes in your life, you need to think about what to do if the worst happens. Risk cannot be avoided, and the risk level that is solved is the most important thing in a life. People's hearts are unpredictable, and emotions are the most taboo.

The vast majority of those who end up being killed are due to false feelings and human nature.

In adult life, not everyone is as simple as it seems, a smiling face does not mean friendliness, and life is full of masks. One of the most distressing things in this world is to be slandered and severely attacked by those around you. But bias is not good for people who are always around you.

There are usually the following 4 types of personal behaviors on each body, and one of them must be guarded against. Vitriolic and mean, staying out of the matter is the whole process of going through difficulties, and frustration is unlikely to be absent. No matter how much patience a person has, he can't avoid hardships and hardships, and when life is at a low point, he can see the sincerity of the people around him most clearly.

It is not easy for a true friend to watch you fall down, they may not be able to help for various reasons, but they will definitely do their best to help, and it is impossible to stay out of it. On the contrary, those who used to wear a mask around you and continue to brag will take off the mask when you are down. Beware of those who are snarky when you encounter setbacks or disappointments, they may sound reasonable at first glance, but as long as they only say but don't do it, the endless blame is not worth the sincere effort again.

It is easier for people to see the world clearly when they are down, no matter how good the relationship between two people was before, as long as they are down, everything will be clear and clear. Whether the people around you treat you sincerely or not will only be seen most clearly during the low tide period.

Jealousy of you with the increase of age and experience, you will find that the person who is most disliked to you is usually the person next to you. This kind of person can't see the good of others, doesn't want you to live better than yourself, and is very jealous.

is very disdainful of what you do, and will often tease you in normal times, and will say bad things about you behind your back.

It's easy to laugh at you when you're down, and look down on you when you're down.

This kind of person's behavior is that when you are successful, she will be jealous and envious, and when you are down, she will sarcastically mock you, ridicule you, take other people's disasters as good news, and gloat.

Nowadays, it is very common that except for their parents and spouses, few people can accept that others are better than themselves, and this kind of person is generally secretly happy when others are doing badly, and others are jealous and hateful when they are doing well.

If you look at what kind of achievements you have achieved, they will be very disdainful, and they will always feel that it doesn't matter, and there are always some very unpleasant things that irritate you, making you feel that this is not through such means, in fact, they can't see you well.

Jealous of you, what she said is indeed good, this kind of person still stays away from her early, and when she sees you good, she will sarcastically say to you, deliberately ignore your feelings, or deliberately belittle some of your feelings, in fact, she is jealous of you, and sometimes she likes to say bad things about you in front of others.