I want to get a divorce, but I m afraid of it, what should I do?

You have indeed entered a predicament, for a woman, it is really sad to find out that she married the wrong person for many years after marriage, at this time, children, outside eyes, and financial dependence will become an excuse for you to be inseparable from this man. It seems to me that it is already a very painful thing to be with a person who is very deep in the city every day, and it is very serious that he can't even respect your parents, regardless of the respect between husband and wife. But there are some problems that you have to face on your own, and no one can help you make a decision, I just suggest that you leave all your mental baggage behind and think carefully about a few questions:

1. You have been married for many years, if you really leave him, can you give up emotionally?

2. Try to put yourself in his shoes, what role do you think you play in his life? Is it a loving family that supports each other, or is it just a tool for taking the children to cook? 3. How much love does he have for his children, and can he play the role of a good father?

4. Leave him and Genhe to continue to live together, which one pays the greater price.

It is a good thing to be admitted to graduate school, it means that your life has a new color, don't underestimate yourself, as a woman or a mother has great potential, I hope you can survive this difficulty and find the starting point of your new life.

Think about children, or don't do divorce easily.

The child is innocent, really, don't let his young heart be clouded.

The days still have to go by slowly.

Let's go! Hurry up and leave while you're still young, and you can't leave when you're old! Find a lawyer to fight a lawsuit, the property should be divided equally, you go to the law firm and ask!

If you choose the wrong one, you will pay the price, there is no way.

If the husband and wife voluntarily divorce and reach an agreement, both parties should go to the marriage registration office to go through the divorce formalities in person. If the other party does not agree to the divorce, he can directly file a lawsuit for divorce with the people's court.

[Legal basis].

Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Summary. Two paths: divorce and changing yourself.

If you are afraid of gossip from colleagues after divorce, you can first work hard to improve yourself, ignore your husband first, let yourself have some money in your hands first, and then keep changing yourself to make yourself excellent, sometimes the ability to make money determines the status of the family, so let yourself make money first, and then slowly change your appearance and image, people are not cherished after getting. I believe that after you become better, your husband will also change his attitude towards you.

What should I do if I want to get a divorce but am afraid of the situation after the divorce.

The child is one year old, and many of my husband's actions hurt me very much, such as disliking my parents, being lazy at home, not caring for me, talking about my parents when I open my mouth, and being very aggressive, saying that my parents are not, looking at me nowhere and not sleepy, being with her makes me feel very unhappy, I want to leave him, but I am afraid to face friends and colleagues.

Two paths: divorce and changing yourself. If you are afraid of gossip from colleagues after divorce, you can first work hard to improve yourself, ignore your husband first, let yourself have some money in your hands first, and then keep changing yourself to make yourself excellent, sometimes the ability to make money determines the status of the family, so let yourself make money first, and then slowly change your appearance and image, people are not cherished after getting.

I believe that after you become better, your husband will also change his attitude towards you.

When you care too much about someone, the other person may not care about you too much, so try not to take the other person so seriously, and start by changing yourself. If you are at home with children, you may want to consider going out and finding a job after your child goes to kindergarten. speculate that your husband's behavior may be because he thinks that it is easy for you to take care of the child at home, and he thinks that it is too hard for him to work to make money, in fact, you can also occasionally find a less obvious reason for him to take the child, for example, you praise the child's father more, let him take the child, and when he is too busy to come, he will understand your hard work, there is really no empathy in this world, even if it is a husband and wife, unless you let the other party taste the suffering you have suffered, so you can let your husband take the child more, Don't let them take care of their children because of their mother's love.

Another point, if you have a bad relationship with your mother-in-law, it may also cause your husband to use cold violence against you, because some old people are really very broken in their mouths and like to stir up trouble, especially in front of their own sons, in order to highlight herself, it is possible to say that you are not, and it is useless for you to explain at this time. Because your husband definitely believes in his mother, he won't believe you very much, at this time, don't be in a hurry to get angry, you can find a way to make your husband feel that your mother-in-law is really sowing discord, and then your husband will naturally choose to protect you slowly. Or have time to have a good chat with your husband to see what the other party is like.

There is a saying: Marriage is like shoes, only you know whether the shoes are suitable or not, so I will not advise you.

What I want to say to you is, has your marriage really come to an end with no return, and have you figured out what you want most? If the answer is yes, you have the right to choose your own life!

Unhappy marriages are shameful, and sometimes divorce is really an effective way to improve the quality of marriage. Children will not grow up healthily in such an environment. My neighbor's house often heard the sound of two people scolding, crying, and colliding objects in the middle of the night.

What I couldn't stand the most was the child's crying: "Mom and Dad, don't hit ......."Stop it! "I can't imagine how long that fragile and young heart can endure ......

If the marriage really can't be sustained, give the child a proper placement and tell the child that Mom and Dad are not in love with him anymore, but that they are not good together, it is very painful, and even if they are separated, no matter who the child lives with, the other party will always be his father or mother.

Think carefully about whether your marriage has reached the point of no return! Bless you!

It is inevitable that there will be some unpleasant things between husband and wife, there are many things that will lead to divorce between you, after the divorce, for everyone, each of them will go to find their own life, in the case of no special situation between the two, it is best not to divorce, because divorce is not much of a problem for the two of you, the problem is that your own children will be affected, because after they are separated from your family's education, they will become unconfident in their own subjective perspective, There are also a lot of ideas, which lead to the psychological health of children, everyone has the idea of wanting to divorce, that is to say, in life, it is possible to encounter long-term quarrels between husband and wife, or they have no good feelings for each other, and they feel that each other and themselves have no common language, so there are many things that will lead to this idea, if everyone has nothing to do with mediocre, it is best not to choose such an ending, because divorce is a bad ending for anyone, when you have this idea, You should establish your own mentality, go to the people around you and the diameter of the people to communicate more, talk about your own thoughts, which link needs you to communicate? Your indifference to marriage due to lack of good communication, or no expectations for marriage, that ending.

If you should divorce, you have to leave, you should care or you should care, after all, mercy is not love. Marriage is not only love, but also commitment, no matter how difficult it is, we must never give up, share the joys and sorrows, this is the real married life. If you can't do it, you still have to be decisive.

If you should divorce, you have to leave, you should care or you should care, after all, mercy is not love. Marriage is not only love, but also commitment, no matter how difficult it is, we must never give up, share the joys and sorrows, this is the real married life. If you can't do it, you still have to be decisive.

If you should divorce, you have to leave, you should care or you should care, after all, mercy is not love. Marriage is not only love, but also commitment, no matter how difficult it is, we must never give up, share the joys and sorrows, this is the real married life. If you can't do it, you still have to be decisive.

If there are no principled issues and contradictions between you, and you just quarrel over some trivial matters, then there is no need to divorce, and it is not worth it at all to ruin the marriage of two people for a trivial matter.

If you especially want to divorce, then tell the object that you want to divorce very much, if the object agrees, then go through the divorce procedures smoothly, if you don't agree, you can also go through the legal process.

If you especially want to divorce, this must be very disappointed in the marriage, so you can only sit down and negotiate and go through the divorce procedures.

If you are particularly tempted to get a divorce right now, ask yourself "three questions" and the answers are clear.

If you especially want to divorce, then calm down and separate to see if you will be happier without this marriage, and if so, then you can sue for divorce.

When two people in a marriage live together, it is inevitable that some unpleasant things will happen, but you must sit down and discuss it with two people, and don't always think about divorce, because this is not good for two people, and if you have children, it will have a great impact on your children.