Why is it that there are so many women of school age in China, but no one wants to marry me?

Marriage really has something to do with money. As long as you're not stupid, it's generally not a critical factor.

A friend of mine has been unemployed and has been at home for two years, still getting married and having children. The daughter-in-law is still a teacher and is very virtuous.

People from poor families should get married as soon as possible. Why?

Because when you are 30 years old, the woman you dock with is also about 30 years old, or even older, because you are poor, she will not introduce you to your early 20s.

And what about these women in their 30s, most of them"I've seen the world", but also looks down on poor B. Therefore, it will be difficult to have results (not that they will not come, but that they will not be able to achieve results).

Therefore, if you are in your 20s, you will get married, and if you are in your 20s, even if you are poor, people will not introduce you to your 30s, but also to your 20s. Don't be afraid that the girl is older than you, (in fact, it doesn't matter if the sister and brother are in love, because everyone is young).

In addition, in your 20s, it is generally difficult to say exactly what you are, because everyone thinks that there is still a long way to go in the future (although to a large extent you will continue to be poor), but people generally do not think like this.

It's just that you haven't met the right person yet, don't worry, hurry up when it's time to come, what's wrong with no car and no house, as long as you are self-motivated, everything else is outside the body, as long as you work hard, these things will be there.

No one marries you, the main reason is not that you are poor, but that you are poor and don't know how to work hard, you have to find the reason from yourself, why would others rather be single than look for you? Is it from you that others can't find the shining point and are unmotivated? Do you only know every day?

After careful consideration, if I am getting married, out of distrust of others, my requirement for myself is: I must have my own house before I get married. But I don't have it now, and it will take a while to earn a down payment on the house.

There is also the fear of having children and the lack of confidence in whether they can educate the next generation. Having a baby is a hurdle for every girl, and this decision is not easy. But more importantly, the child's future education is a problem, I don't want him to repeat the mistakes of his childhood, nor do I want him to become a selfish, morally corrupt or even criminal person.

Because I am not a loving person, I am also worried that I will not be able to provide a loving environment for my children, or let them fall victim to my own selfishness, and I am not prepared for this.

The biggest problem was that I didn't have a boyfriend and I couldn't get intimate with anyone.

It may be that the traditional culture of starting a family has been infiltrated into my bones, and I do feel that it is still necessary for me to get married and have children, so I am worried that I will be coerced by the general environment in an anxious situation, and I will make a hasty decision for the second half of my life, and finally make a mess of chicken feathers.

In short, I am torn apart by all kinds of possibilities, anxious and helpless, I want to grasp everything with empty fingers, but I can't grasp anything, I am not sure what I want most, and I have no clear goal.

Forget it, let's make money first, it's always right to make money.

There can be a variety of reasons why a woman chooses not to get married, but there are several possible reasons:

Personal values: Some women believe that marriage is not necessary to achieve their goals in life, or that they can achieve happiness and fulfillment in other ways.

Economic factors: In some cases, women may choose not to marry because they want to focus on career development or financial independence.

Mental health issues: Some women may have suffered injuries or other health problems that lead to resistance to marriage.

Changing Concepts of Marriage: In modern society, more and more women are beginning to reflect on the traditional marriage model and role division of grandchildren, and may choose to seek a more open, equal and free form of relationship.

Personal and family background: Women's family background and personal experience may also affect their attitudes towards marriage, such as a family environment with poor marital stability, domestic violence, etc., which may make women have a cautious or even negative view of marriage.

With the development of society, women have higher and higher social status, economic independence, and obvious advantages, so more and more people choose to marry later or not to marry. There are many reasons for the continuous decline in the marriage rate of women, the main reasons are:

Higher and higher social status: In the workplace, many women hold important positions, as the company's top management, career success, financial independence, can live without relying on men, and even many women surpass men. Marriage is a kind of constraint for them, because after marriage, they need to spend most of their time on their families, which seriously affects their work, career and future.

Career-oriented, too much family affairs: Many women are reluctant to get married, first of all, because they are unwilling to give up their hard-won jobs. After a woman gets married, she has to work and take care of her family, children and husband, and her career cannot develop well, resulting in financial independence, long maternity leave, and it is difficult to return to work in the future after being out of touch with society.

If you choose to work after marriage, Jiaqiao Naiting has to go to work in the morning, and take care of the children, buy groceries, cook, and wash clothes at night, which is too tiring for a woman. If you meet a husband who is not sympathetic and considerate of a woman, it is indeed too tiring for a woman, and there is no need to live so tired. It's better not to get married.

Influenced by single thinking: These women are generally active, open-minded, quick to accept new ideas, more fun-loving, and have a lot of their own circle of friends. They are unwilling to be good wives and mothers in the family, lose their freedom, and be obedient and even blamed by their husbands.

They disdain their parents' forced marriage, and always listen to the script, prevaricating if they can, and dragging it back if they can. They think there are many things in the world that are much more interesting than getting married. Deeply influenced by the idea of celibacy, he over-interprets the hot spots of domestic violence, contradictions and disputes, and the divorce rate in the social news that is getting higher and higher year by year, and has the idea of never getting married.

The formation of the concept of marriage and love is largely affected by the social environment, all along, we have the cultural custom of early marriage and childbearing, "men should marry, women should marry" and "more children and more blessings" has always been the mainstream cultural concept in society, and some people do not want to marry The idea is a phenomenon in recent years. We should create a strong atmosphere of marriage and childbearing in the whole society, form a social consensus that it is wrong not to marry and have children, and that eugenics and childbearing are everyone's responsibility, and study and introduce a series of incentive policies for young people to get married and have children. For example, priority should be given to providing affordable housing for people who are more economically difficult to marry, so as to solve the embarrassment of people of appropriate age who dare not get married and have nowhere to get married.

Nowadays, there are indeed many women of appropriate age who are reluctant to get married and just want to live a free life alone, and there are three main reasons for this situation.

The first is that they are too lazy, unwilling to take on the responsibilities of the family and the obligation of educating their children, and just want to enjoy life alone.

Not getting married is not that you don't have a boyfriend, on the contrary, there are a lot of friends of the opposite sex around you, and you go out to eat on weekdays, and you have a special relaxation and happiness when you play.

Now that the society is relaxed, others will not strongly oppose it, so many women of marriageable age are reluctant to get married with the mentality of being drunk today.

In fact, it is still yourself who hurts like this, and after the age of 30, it is impossible to live so freely, and all the consequences must be borne by yourself.

The second is that the world is sober, and in all kinds of competition and complex relationships, it is understood that the relationship between people is to pretend to be hidden and exchanged, and no one can rely on them without sensitivity, and they can only rely on themselves for everything.

At this time, they will only focus on their own work, only want to make money, and are unwilling to get married, their own inner insecurity is strong, they only want to have a guarantee for their lives, and they don't trust many boys at all, so they don't want to get married.

Finally, many women of marriageable age have too high requirements, and they always feel that they would rather lack than overuse, and are unwilling to make do with life.

If you don't find someone you are satisfied with, or find someone you feel about, you'd rather live a single life alone than get married.

Nowadays, many women want to find a rich and handsome man with particularly good conditions, but there are very few such boys, and the result is that many women of school age can only be single.

In short, there are still some women who want to play for a few more years and look for it when they are older, and for various reasons, many women of marriageable age are unwilling to get married, which has also become a unique phenomenon.

Now we see a lot of girls, they don't fall in love, they don't get married, and even many girls are still like this when they reach the age of trial marriage.

It stands to reason that for many people, they feel that in fact, as girls, they will have more fantasies and expectations for love. Today for each of us, we all know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful, and it is precisely because love is so happy and beautiful, so many people are very much looking forward to having love.

Especially when we meet someone we like, then many people will be more attentive, they will take the initiative to care for each other and love each other, because they believe that through their own care. In this way, they can be with the person they like, and it will also allow them to have a happier and better love.

But we see a lot of young people, especially some marriageable women. They don't fall in love and they don't get married, so some people wonder why they don't want to get married.

First of all, it is because of the destruction of many girls now, they are very realistic, especially in love, ours. They will put a lot of high demands on boys, and they will demand good jobs and good families. Only meet the requirements and conditions of the girls, so that.

Girls want to be with boys. And even if they are together, girls also require boys to care for and take care of girls very carefully, as long as the boys do a little badly, then girls are not willing to be with boys. So we see that although there are many boys who want to be with girls, because they can't meet the requirements and conditions of girls, they can only choose to be single.

Of course, there are some young people, especially some girls, who feel that they are not good enough. So they want to be better, me. They will study more seriously and work harder, because only in this way will they be better.

So we see that there are indeed some women of the right age now, who are not married and do not fall in love. But in fact, they are also full of infinite expectations for love, so we hope that they should work harder.

Because the banquet can only be allowed if they work harder. can be more excellent, and when they are more excellent, so that they can find a suitable person for themselves, so that in the end the two can get along better, and only in this way can they finally have a happier and better marriage.

Hello! Now there is too much pressure in life, there are fewer and fewer good men, and the standards for women to choose a mate are too high. That's why I don't want to get married.

Nowadays, many school-age women are vain and reluctant to get married, mainly from the ideological changes that have been produced after accepting the culture, and they have a misunderstanding of the meaning of marriage, which needs to be improved in many ways.

The reasons why women of appropriate age do not marry are none other than the following reasons:

1. I don't want to be bound by family and marriage, I just want to live my own free life;

2. I don't want to take on family responsibilities and the pressure of having children;

3. I didn't meet the right person, and the ideal person didn't find it;

4. Celibate, don't want to get married;

5. I was hurt by my partner or marriage and was afraid of getting married. Or frightened by someone else's unhappy marriage, afraid to get married.

6. Selfishness, self-centeredness, not wanting to share and give.

Some women choose not to marry for many reasons, such as family influences or personality reasons, or maybe they are injured. But I think it's more because of the criteria for choosing a mate.

For example, because of the problem of mate selection criteria. For example, family, educational background, job, and income must match or be higher than their own, allowing girls to narrow down their options.

Today's girls are very superior in terms of education and background, work income, and family conditions, so their mate selection standards must be higher than theirs, and at the last time, equal to them. Rather lack than abuse has become the bottom line of many girls and children, if marriage can't have a better life, why choose marriage?

Among my best friend's high school classmates, only her daughter is married, the marriage object is a high school classmate, and the other children are about 30 years old, but there are not many who are really married.

The daughters of the girlfriends who have three classmates are all working in Beijing, one of them is coming back from graduate school, and has a very enviable financial unit in Beijing, the girl is 1.7 meters tall, tall and tall, good looks, the conditions must be more than 1.8 meters, have a Beijing hukou, and have a house; Another girl is studying in graduate school in China, a public institution in Beijing, and the girl's family bought a house in Beijing.

Another girl has no house, no hukou, the conditions are very average, but the conditions for choosing a mate are not ordinary, I hope to change the status quo by finding a boyfriend with good conditions; The girlfriends persuaded that they should relax the conditions, and the mothers said, this can't be improvised, raise the daughters, so good, they can't be cheap, so they are in a hurry, and they don't lower any standards.