Broke up! Go for it! What did my girlfriend say? What am I going to do????

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's clear that the reason she left you was because you didn't have a career. To put it mildly, all girls like capable boys, and they don't like a wreck. A man who is incompetent is not attractive.

    So no matter how much you keep it now, it's useless. Since she left you because of this, she must be very disappointed in what you did. Otherwise, as long as there is still love, she will have some hope for your future.

    You really love her, and you work hard for her. Of course, working hard is not only for her, but also for yourself. When you really have a career and money, even if she doesn't want to come back to you, I'm afraid there will be other excellent girls who take the initiative to approach you.

    And really when you have money, even if she is willing to return to you, it is hard to say whether you are willing to accept her again at that time... In short, since she left you because you have no money, then if you don't have money, you can't keep her, and there will be a next time if you keep it this time. It's better to earn money first...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Of course it's worth it, a man's greatest charm is work and career, if a man can't even eat by himself, dare to ask how many female compatriots are willing to be with him? Love is built on bread.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe!!! Friends advise you to give up!!

    She's made it clear!!

    Can't you understand it???

    When you have a career and ability in the future, I will return to you, but during this period we will be strangers, don't disturb my life, you don't care who I am with. ”

    Forget her!!

    There was a time when love was called letting go!!

    You've done your best.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's work hard for our own career first! Girlfriend will talk about it later, and she says to you like that shows that she has done to you...I'm in the same situation as you, brother, we should know what's most important to us!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do you know him, is she a materialistic girl, if not, then he is good for you, you must have disappointed him, she wants to use this method to stimulate your fighting spirit. Let you make the way for your future.

    Did you find the reason for your breakup?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on whether you think it's worth it, not what others say.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    During you strangers.

    She'll look for other men.

    If you don't find it, they will choose you.

    Give it up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you qualified to say love now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Depend on. If you have a car and a house, let's find a good one, who cares about her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The twisted melon is not sweet, and the feelings are not forced. She sees your relationship very clearly, she is very rational and knows what she likes, maybe you are really not suitable or you are not the type she likes, and a peaceful breakup is the best ending.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at me. Description: In Weinan, how to recover? Girlfriend who broke up peacefully. You have to be sincere to her. It's so impressive. He will ruin you, and you will be happy forever. Who is she playing when you move her heart?

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I just want to tell you that life is not only romantic, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you really like it, you have to work hard to get it. Ask the girl, you're not doing well enough. Whether you work or live, you have to be mature. Be her lean, not the penis.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She still has her boyfriend in her heart, don't bother him, she doesn't like you, and emotional matters can't be forced.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If this guy cares about you everywhere and loves you, then he must like you, have feelings for you from the heart, and are willing to do things for you. But when you ask him, he says he doesn't like it, probably because he feels that the time is not yet ripe and he needs to deepen the relationship further, or express it at some stage.

    No matter what he says, since you feel this way, then develop it well, and you will have good results in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You know she has a boyfriend and you want to redeem it, only you are better than her previous boyfriend and surpass him in every way.

    It is possible to redeem it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think you'll be a little more happy after a long time? Or maybe just forget about him? Didn't forget about each other. Go on a trip together or deepen your communication with each other, let.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It should be her emotional window, looking for you to be a spare tire, it's best not to be sentimental.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Use your sincerity to touch her, use your love to soothe her, not force to be with her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Sincerely apologize. In the relationship between men and women, you really don't have to worry too much about who is right and who is wrong, after all, falling in love is not reasonable, and it is not cost-effective to win and lose to her. Therefore, the first step to getting your girlfriend back is to sincerely apologize to her, whether it is you who is wrong or not, it is always right to apologize.

    However, it is important to note that the apology must be sincere.

    Girls care very much about "attitude", and it is better not to apologize than to apologize perfunctorily. Be sure to say sorry with sincerity, think about what you did wrong, why you make the other party angry, and why she wants to break up with you. Think about these questions clearly, and then go and say sorry to her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your girlfriend then broke up with you, and it is very good that you want to redeem this attitude, which shows that there is still a certain emotional foundation between you and him, and you want to save this relationship through your own efforts.

    But if you want to save your love, you must figure out what the reason for the breakup is, if it is a matter of principle and the other party is deeply injured and unwilling to believe in you anymore, then you must show more sincerity than before, so that the other party can see your changes, and you will not be hurt again after getting back together with you, then the other party should be willing to turn back.

    However, if you only break up because of some misunderstanding, then it is advisable to find a quiet time to avoid illness and talk to each other when both parties can calm down.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, it's no fun to redeem it, the paper won't be flat anymore if it's wrinkled, and there's no original feeling when you're together.

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