I m a woman, and the male leader wants me to go to his house for dinner at night, can I go?

Updated on workplace 2024-07-15
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If a girl is asked by the male leader to go to his house for dinner at night, you can't go, because some accidents are easy to happen, and you can't take care of yourself as a weak woman.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's best not to go, or it's about going to the house in a public place, going to the house in many situations, first of all, what is the situation of your leader, what is your situation, is he married, if he is married, it is best that his daughter-in-law is also at home, although the probability is very low, if his daughter-in-law is at home, even if he wants to ask you to dinner, he will not make an appointment at home, secondly, you can bring a colleague, if it is just the two of you getting along, or in his house, anything can happen, the heart of defense is indispensable, girls are outside, it is best to protect yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I suggest not to go to this to lead, it must be thinking of you. I just want to wait until you're almost done drinking, and then something happens, which is the unspoken rule as the saying goes, you know.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Female. Is it a private matter or a company for your male leader to ask you to go to his house for dinner, well, is it a business or a private matter? If you're unmarried, you're definitely going to be if everyone goes, you can go, if you're going alone, you'd better not go, there's something I can't talk about at work, if it's home, you're married, well, you don't care a little, but how to say it?

    This leader must not be very good, must be a little, if it is a company, everyone can go together, and if it is implemented, if you have no objection to him, or if this person is more bold, his family is alone, you don't want to go, I don't know what you think in your heart, what do you mean by this leader? Do you have a crush on you? Or think about that, well, it's better to be a mosquito to be steady.

    It's best not to go and find a suitable reason to reject him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm a woman, and the male leader wants me to go to his house for dinner at night, can I go?

    This can't be generalized!!

    If you have been with the lover of the leader! Daughter, it's a friend!! The two families have had a good relationship in the past! It doesn't hurt to go!!

    Besides! That depends on the situation!! Chinese sometimes just say it casually!!

    Safety first!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he thinks about you differently, and you don't think it's possible with him, and you don't like him, then don't go, and if you want to lose your job and don't lose your life, if he also calls someone else, then you can go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No. The purpose is not pure! Such a thing should be rejected outright! Make it clear that you have been taught not to go to a man's house day or night!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on the specific situation between you, if you are single and don't hate him, then of course there is nothing wrong with going, if either party has a family, I suggest you find a reason to euphemistically resign, not that people call you something, but there is no impermeable wall in the world, some people will say irresponsible things, which will have a greater impact on your reputation, if you really can't refuse, you can invite your girlfriends to the banquet together!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are a girl and the male leader wants you to go to his house for dinner in the evening, you had better ask a female girlfriend to go with you, which will be safer.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can go, but if you don't go, you don't know how to lift. The premise is that his wife is at home and your husband has no opinion.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, but to have a sense of safety, first of all, you have to know what the character of the male leader is, so that you can decide whether to go or not.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In this case, it is best not to go or ask the leader to talk about business during the day, which is more conducive to work. If you have to go, it's better to bring a colleague!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's better not to go. When a man asks you to go to his house for dinner at night, his wife must be not at home. I think about you, and you will be in a dilemma when you go! Not being satisfied, he will make things difficult for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think you're a woman, and both men and women also let you go to his house for dinner in the evening, which is an obvious hint, if you are single, and the two of you are true love, let me feel that you can go if you are not then I think you have a boyfriend, I can take my boyfriend with me, if it really can't be so postponed, if he gives you small shoes, then you must remember such a boss, then it is better to leave early.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are invited alone, don't go, after all, the cameras that can be seen everywhere nowadays, as well as the mobile phone photography and photography function that everyone has, will make many people dare not mess around.

    Unless you invite a lot of employees to have dinner at the leader's house, then you have to leave early.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If he is the only one in his house, then you should not go, lest you be uncovered. If you just want to be treated, you can eat outside. If his family is still around, it will be fine.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The male leader asked you to go to his house for dinner at night, I think you can go, go with your girlfriends, or you can politely refuse, you can go to the restaurant for dinner, why go to his house.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is recommended that you find out if your boss has invited other colleagues, and if so, you can gladly accept them. If you are only invited alone, it is recommended that you decline politely.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on the situation, if he is inviting your colleagues to come along, then it is definitely necessary to go, if it is just you, and he is also a flower of one person, then it is better not to go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're a woman. The male leader wants you to go to his house for dinner in the evening. It depends on how many people were in his house at that time. You two alone aren't quite suitable. It's terrifying. It's ok to go out to eat.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If this woman wants me to go to his house for dinner at night, can I go? I think if it's like you, if it's just you and the two of you and him alone, then you definitely don't want to go, because it's not good to say it like that.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't go, find euphemistic reasons to refuse.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you are invited to his house for dinner alone, do not go, but if you have other colleagues with you, you can go.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The leader can talk about work in the company or at the party, when the employees are there, the leader wants a female subordinate to go to the house alone for dinner at night, which is a little inappropriate.

    You can find an excuse to push it off, and it's better not to go. Think for yourself so as not to cause bad influences and harm.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on whether there is anyone else in his family, if he is the only one in his family, but he comes to invite you to his house for dinner, there is something ambiguous and unclear in it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you have other colleagues, you can do it, but if you are alone, it is recommended that you do not go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you are invited alone, you should politely decline, and if you invite other colleagues, then it's okay, you can go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he is a family man and does not eat with him alone, then go and get closer to the leader.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you can go, call a few more people over, or you can go after getting along for a long time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    <> can choose to accept it, provided that their urgent business must be done first. If a colleague asks you to do some help, you can choose to help out of human affection, provided that you don't violate the principles.

    It's not someone else who has a difficult problem, and it won't let you intervene to help. For the sake of human affection, things that do not belong to oneself can also be done. Because you don't know when you're going to get into trouble, there's no need to make the relationship too stiff.

    Since you belong to the same company, it's understandable to help each other. Although this is not something you should do yourself, but it is also for the good of the company, why not do it?

    Some things happen in the workplace that change rapidly, and maybe the person you don't like will take charge of you one day. Therefore, you have to leave room for life and work, give priority to handling your own affairs, at this time others ask you to help, you can choose to help, there is no need to say too straightforwardly.

    Although the work in the workplace is said to specify which group work you are responsible for, the rules are dead, and the people are alive. When there is an urgent shortage of talents in other departments, the leading company arranges for you to be transferred at this time, and you must also obey the order. Anyway, eating and burning is a thing, and it won't affect your interests.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Summary. There may be many reasons why a female subordinate invites a male leader to dinner, and the male leader agrees to go but then cancels it, such as an urgent work arrangement, a sudden other plan, and so on.

    The male leader always asked the female subordinate to go out for supper a few nights, and one day the male leader sent the female subordinate to his residence, but the female subordinate did not go, but after a few days, the female subordinate invited him to dinner, and he agreed to the first day, and said that he would not go the next day.

    The male leader always asked the female subordinate to go out for supper a few nights, and one day the male leader sent the female subordinate to his residence, but the female subordinate did not go, but after a few days, the female subordinate invited him to dinner, and he agreed to the first day, and said that he would not go the next day.

    There may be many reasons why a female subordinate invites a male leader to dinner, and the male leader Naijian agrees to go to Sezhou, but then cancels it, such as urgent work arrangements, sudden other plans, and so on.

    The male leader has been promoting this attack on the female subordinate, and the female subordinate has rarely been in contact with him before, communicating or something, that is, recently, the female subordinate is going to be promoted again, and he began to ask the female subordinate from time to time, I don't know if he likes it, according to this, he deliberately hanged it? That day, he pulled his female subordinate Bi Ma to his house, but the female subordinate didn't go, and sent him a message after he went back, saying that he hoped that the female subordinate could keep up with him, what did he mean? What should a female subordinate do?

    Kiss, if the female subordinate has indeed been promoted many times by virtue of her ability and performance, then these behaviors of asking female subordinates to eat supper at night may be a male leader who wants to better understand the work of female subordinates, and it is also a kind of letter and support performance.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't think it's easy to refuse the leader's invitation to dinner, because after work, the leader invites you out to eat, and Yu Tong thinks that you can help him out of the siege at the dinner, or you can become his right-hand man, so you can also play your greatest value in the company or the dinner.

    The point is that many employees are not aware of this nowadays, they always feel that they are easily taken advantage of by the leader, and sooner or later these employees will be abandoned by the leader, because the leader may have been seriously disappointed in the employee.

    In this case, if you always choose to refuse the leader, it is actually very disadvantageous for the employee, because the leader wants to arrange work things or work tasks to make you have a better development in the company, but you have no choice.

    Through your ability to make the leader feel that you are worthy of the key to destroy the trust, then when the task is arranged in the future, the leader will arrange important things to other subordinates, and when you see the leader and other colleagues achieve a win-win situation, then your position in the company is also very embarrassing!

    Leaders attach great importance to those talents, and they want the employees in the company to be more self-motivated, so they will also use various occasions to help employees improve their abilities. But some employees have a straightforward personality, and they are not willing to give face to the leader in a public place!

    Even if they are criticized by the leader, or after hearing the leader's suggestions, they are not willing to correct it as soon as possible, so these employees will leave a disappointed impression on the leader in the workplace, it is difficult to develop in the company, and they may be fired and fired in the end, so it is necessary to pay attention to some ways and means to get along with the leader.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You must go, but when you go, you must also be mentally prepared, maybe he will have a non-point idea for you, at this time you have to think about how to reject him in advance, if there is no non-point thinking just a light meal is better.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The male boss calls you to go to dinner at night, in fact, I think you should go, but if you go, it feels more dangerous, so I think you can find another male colleague to go with you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It depends. If it's everyone together, just go, and if you shout alone, make an excuse not to go, so as not to be misunderstood.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Is it appropriate to invite the leader to dinner and bring a boyfriend?

    Two male leaders and one female leader are invited.

    I think it should be appropriate.

    First of all, there is no problem with bringing someone as a host.

    Actually, as a girl.

    Be sure to bring a boy to protect yourself.

    In this way, you can happily accompany the leader to drink.

    Otherwise, something went wrong.

    Leaders who drink together are also responsible.

    At the same time, you can also introduce your boyfriend by the way.

    Let me know the leaders.

    Of course, if the leader does not agree to fall in love with colleagues.

    It can be said that he knows to ask for leadership.

    Be sure to get involved.

    Of course, when you eat together, you can't let the leader see the flaws.

    Or pretend to be a chance encounter.

    It's more logical.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because it's off work, don't talk about work when you eat, there's nothing inappropriate, there's a beautiful woman to accompany you, and it's not necessarily necessary to have more appetite, hehe, your old worker is waiting for a raise.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's not suitable, there are ladies present, and some can't let go

    Men have a man's way of communicating

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In fact, it's nothing, just live simply, don't think too much and be too complicated, just let everything go naturally.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There are several possibilities for this:

    1. If it is your husband out of politeness and respect, it will be better for you to be present, but it depends on what kind of people these leaders and colleagues are, sometimes, and some people just like to joke during meals, especially what "sister-in-law" and "younger sisters" and the like make some meat jokes, at this time you will be very embarrassed when you are present, and then there may be some unpleasantness because of drinking.

    2. If these leaders and colleagues have a good relationship with your husband and can be called "buddies", then you will be very suitable to be present, but you can't accompany you all the time, find an excuse to leave and go home when you eat almost, and give them some free space and communication scale, the effect will be better.

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