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You're both not very happy with each other.

You reluctantly dated him because you thought he was humorous and funny, and you got along for a while, and because he was your boyfriend, you told him that you were a little lazy and felt that you were not very psychologically balanced.

From the words, I know that the wife your boyfriend wants is: a full-time housewife who is obedient to men. (As a modern woman, do you think you can do it?) ）

The difference in age seems to be too great. There is a certain gap in thinking. You want him to change for you, and he wants you to change for him, and you both want to change each other into the object of your heart. (Don't you think it's hard?) ）

I think it's better for you to be friends.

If you think you really, really like him and can't leave him, try to change it.

If not, you can reconsider it, and it's never too late to make a decision after thinking about it. In fact, at your current age, you are not in a hurry to sell yourself.

Good luck.

It's normal, since you're in love, you're getting to know each other, and of course you have to be considerate of each other, and you will have a deeper understanding when you have setbacks.

It's up to you.

I think your boyfriend is cultivating a relationship with you.

That man of yours must be selfish.

You can tell him about the benefits of doing housework:

As the saying goes, "Labor is glorious, laziness is shameful." Abandon the idea of "machismo" and treat it as a great and joyful thing with a good attitude.

In the face of a lot of housework, big men should stand up and do it, and it's worth it to be dirty and tired! It not only shows the manly spirit, but also saves time to exercise the body, why not?

There is a saying in China that "the male is the outside, the female is inside", and under the influence of this factor, many men mistakenly believe that all the housework is "sold" to the hostess and no longer cares. In fact, this is a big mistake, and over time, it will cause an invisible damage to the relationship between husband and wife, making it gradually decrease and drift apart. Housework always has to be done, and you might as well volunteer and be considerate to your wife

Wife, I'll take care of all the work in this house, so as not to make your slender hands calloused. "The other party will also be considerate of you, and will not let you do housework alone. This not only enhances the relationship between husband and wife, but also attracts the other party to do housework with you, which is a high trick.

Most of today's children are only children, in order to avoid children being pampered, forming a bad habit of opening their mouths for food and reaching out for clothes, parents should teach their children by word and deed, and be a good model worker for their children. In front of a child, there is nothing more convincing than action.

You have to go to work, you should be considerate of each other, you cook, you can ask him to wash the clothes after eating, you can wash the dishes by the way, next time you can ask him to wash the dishes, you wash the clothes, whoever gets off work first will cook.

In modern society, men and women are equal, if one party is willing to bear it all, of course, it is the best, if everyone is not willing to do it, either please ask for an hour, otherwise it can only be shared between the two parties.

There are two possibilities in this situation like you said, one is that you deliberately don't do it, or you want to do it. The second is that the level of the two sides is different, your requirements are no longer at the same level as his requirements, yours is too high and his is too low, so there will be a gap, and people with high requirements are more sad.

Sister paper, I advise you in a word, men's care is reflected in all aspects, bit by bit, if you feel very tired or very wronged, then say it, if you can change, of course it is the best; If it can't be changed, then decisively separate. Because they will live together for the rest of their lives. You can't be tired and aggrieved all your life.

Another point is that, according to the current social concept, those who earn more can (but not necessarily) do less.

Housework should be shared by two people, and men who know how to feel sorry for you should take the initiative to take on housework. If you don't cherish it when you're young now, will you still cherish it?