Staying at my boyfriend s house, going to my boyfriend s house for the first time, is it okay to sta

Updated on society 2024-04-17
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's very uncomfortable for you to do this, there is a feeling of being under the fence, I think you should move out, if your mother-in-law said this is aimed at you, it can be seen that you are a little unpopular now, if you don't care about the face, then you can go to find a job, just say that you want to work, you want to live in the company conveniently, after all, you can't make money depends on your face, you have to be a little backbone, why should you be so angry, how to say that you are also a member of their family, there is no such work, as a parent, I'd rather give it to my daughter-in-law if I don't eat or drink, this old woman, her brain is rusty.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, although I haven't lived with my mother-in-law, but I know that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the most difficult to get along with, you have to come on, you have lived in his house for two years, and now if you move out, she has to say more, and there are more topics to say, you are not the only one who has such troubles like you, really, some are more pitiful than you, for your boyfriend, the palms and backs of his hands are meat, and he is also very difficult, but you have to remember one thing, you are living with your boyfriend for the rest of your life, not with his mother, you can't back down, you have to face, Communicate well, because this is something you have to face sooner or later, so you have to make yourself self-reliant and cheer.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's stand on your own.

    If you don't have an income, it's okay for a day or two, but if you have to reach out and ask for money for something after a long time, they will feel that you owe them. Even if you are a helper in the store, you don't have any name, and you are still an outsider.

    If you want to be good for yourself, don't live together if you're not married, it's not right. God knows what the future holds.

    If you are self-reliant and have an income, you don't have to look at other people's faces if you want to buy anything. It's going to be terrible in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A woman's personality can not be independent, she can be mentally dependent on a lazy man, but she must at least be financially independent.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you live in his house without getting married, you can really do it, and you have two years, and you really have the face to say!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It should be moved out, the time is often normal, and the contradictions are normal! Learn to deal with contradictions! Get married early!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's very uncomfortable for you to be like this, there is a feeling of being under the fence, I think you should move out, everyone looks like this, no matter how much money is spent on what she thinks is not good,

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You did it wrong at the beginning, how can you live with each other's parents if you are not married?

    Now that you're in trouble, you should find a way to move out, and you should find a job on your own. , otherwise you don't want to get along with his mother in the future

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Women should be self-reliant, move out, and find something to do, without having to look at their faces.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why do you go out when you have money to spend? What are you going out to eat???

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Try not to.

    Try not to. I feel that during the relationship, try not to laugh at the boyfriend's house to live, what will his parents think, maybe they will think that you are too active or too casual, which is not good for a girl to meet the age of the bird.

    Why. It's not suitable, don't go, remember, you're only in love, not after you're married.

    What kind of society is it now?

    It's really not good to search out, after all, you have lived in someone else's house, and if you marry this boy in the future, will his mother look down on you, Bi Que Rollun went to live with the man before he got married.

    Aren't you afraid that he will put you to sleep?

    What you said was whether you want to live in the same room with your boyfriend or in each room There is a difference if you want to rest in the same room.

    Try not to live together, because in the end it will be the girl who will suffer It is recommended to protect yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not appropriate to go to your boyfriend's house to live during a relationship.

    Girls must be reserved, don't be too casual, even if you think it's okay, but your boyfriend's family may not think like this, they will think you are frivolous.

    So girls must remember, don't let others look down on you, if once you break up, you will leave a stain, or don't go to live at your boyfriend's house.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it depends on how long you can be in love, if you have been in love for a long time, both parents agree that the family is also very good, you can go to your boyfriend's house to live, it is not recommended to live for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's okay to go to your boyfriend's house occasionally during a relationship, not for a long time. If it is not suitable to live for a long time, it will also be looked down upon by the man's family, and the girl will not be self-respecting enough.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you want to rest in a room, you have to find out if your boyfriend's parents are enlightened, if you are open-minded, of course it's okay to live together, if your parents are not open-minded, I suggest you live alone in a room, otherwise his parents will feel that you are too casual, and your impression score will be low, and it will not be good for future relationships, and his parents already know that you are dating You just go to play as a girlfriend It's okay By the way, although you are still a student and won't make money But go to the man's house to play Don't be empty-handed Find out what his parents like It doesn't have to be too expensive Buy some gifts and go over to help wash dishes or something to help you increase your impression points You also want your parents to know that you have a boyfriend This depends on whether your parents are against you falling in love at school If you don't object, it doesn't hurt to know I hope it can help you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Try not to go to your boyfriend's house to live during the relationship, if it is not suitable and you are not engaged and married, try not to live together, because it will be a girl who will suffer in the end It is recommended to protect yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This mainly depends on the relationship between the two people, if it reaches the point of talking about marriage, it is basically normal to go to your boyfriend's house to live, but the general situation is to go back to each house to find your own mother, because after all, you are only in love and have not reached the kind of marriage discussion.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on how far you are in your relationship with your boyfriend? If it's just the two of you who are in a relationship and haven't considered getting married, it's really inappropriate to go to your boyfriend's house to live. If the relationship is confirmed, both parents agree that you will be together and decide to get married.

    It's okay to go to my boyfriend's house to stay.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is not appropriate to do so. Girls should have self-esteem, self-love, and not do things that are out of line.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The first time He Limb Tsai went to his boyfriend's (girlfriend's) house, there was no special reason, he must have lived directly at home. First of all, out of politeness, the other parent will also let you live at home. Think about it, the first time you go to see the other party, it must be to the parents, and the other party's parents also hope to see the many aspects of your life, and they will generally leave you at home.

    Of course, it is also possible that there is not enough room in the other party's house, and you have no place to sleep when you go to Zen Wang. Then you can consider sleeping in a hotel outside. And even if this is the case, the other parent will take the initiative to explain the reason for you to go out to live.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello dear. There are several situations: 1. His parents don't know about your existence, and you or your boyfriend also feel that the conditions are not mature and don't want them to know your existence, then it is recommended that you move out immediately and rent a house by yourself to avoid future troubles.

    2, the relationship between you and your relatives has passed the clear road, which means that your parents have recognized your relationship, and the bridge is noisy and his parents have no opinion, and you can continue to live. 3. If his parents are the kind of people who are very conservative, then even if you have been recognized by each other, as long as you are not married for a day, you should not live together in front of his parents for a day.

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