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Being introverted doesn't mean you're simple, and being introverted doesn't mean you're gullible to being deceived.
The reason why some people are introverted is because they think about more things, they have low self-esteem, they see through some things and think, and they are more refined in their hearts. Just because introverts are introverts doesn't mean they're very simple. Some people are introverted because of their environment, for example, their family is very poor, and their family has been discriminated against by others since childhood.
He also looked down on himself for various reasons. Such a person sees through the sophistication of human feelings, he thinks more than normal people, and he will not trust others so easily.
Introverts have seen more things and are less likely to trust people, so they are not easily deceived.
Introverts are generally more complex in their thinking, they will think more about things, and their minds are less pure. People who are easily deceived are generally relatively simple people, and this kind of person is generally held in the palm of their hands and has not faced some ups and downs. Introverts have experienced a lot of things, they will not trust people so easily, and they will not be so easily deceived.
There are some introverts in life who actually have a lot of eyes. Although they look taciturn on the surface, they look harmless to humans and animals, and they look quiet, but in fact they hide dirty thoughts in their hearts, and their hearts are also very vicious, always calculating others behind their backs.
Introversion and simplicity are completely different things, and simple people are easily deceived. You are introverted, but it doesn't mean that you don't know the world, it doesn't mean that you are simple-minded.
Whether you will be deceived or not also depends on your heart, whether you are easy to trust others, and whether you have plans for others。Many people are deceived because they want something from others, such as wanting to cling to rich people or taking advantage of those small advantages.
Such talents are more likely to be deceived if some people are like mirrors.
Even if he is introverted, he will not be deceived, and he can protect himself very well.
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Personally, I don't think so, introversion does not mean that there is no assertiveness, it can only mean that a person does not like to interact with others, and it has nothing to do with being deceived.
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It's not like that, as long as we are vigilant, even if we are introverted, we will not be deceived, and we should always be vigilant when we wander in society.
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In fact, people grow up from stumbling along the way, and I have been deceived many times since I was a child. Until now, I am so firm, mature and confident, because I have been deceived a lot. If you have a simple personality, it is inevitable to be deceived.
But don't be afraid of being cheated, because being cheated by others a few times will make you truly mature and grow up.
Therefore, if you are deceived in some small things, you will be deceived, but in major matters, you must consult your relatives and friends, and after consulting their opinions, it will be much better to make a decision.
After all, the parents are from the past, and they have encountered a lot of experience, so they have a strong ability to identify **. If your parents are against it, don't be self-righteous, and listen to the advice of adults. As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.
The old people have encountered many more things and suffered losses than us, and they are afraid that we will suffer if they stop us.
Remember that there is no such thing as pie in the sky, how can a stranger give you benefits for no reason? He must have done this with a purpose, and he wanted to get greater benefits from you.
Ordinary simple people who have not experienced such a thing may feel that the other party can give him such benefits because they are kind-hearted. So they think too well of everyone, which is why they are easily deceived.
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If you want to avoid being deceived in society, you must keep your eyes open, keep an eye on everything, and don't trust others easily.
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You must be cautious in your words and deeds, and you must know more about the ** in society, so that you can avoid being deceived.
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It is to constantly strengthen one's own heart. And keep a sane mind when encountering things. In this way, you can avoid being scammed.
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When you are outside, you must pretend to be very mature, so as not to be seen by others, so as to avoid being deceived.
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You must be cautious and don't trust anyone except those around you, so that you can avoid it.
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Then you have to make yourself more mature, and you must also understand a lot of human feelings and sophistication, and you must have a sense of prevention.
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In this society, don't trust anyone except your parents, no matter what others say, just listen to it, don't believe everything. This way you can avoid being scammed.
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It's good to be deceived too much, it's like fighting, it's good to fight too much.
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1) Stiff facial expressions.
When people lie, they tend to deliberately make a "suitable" expression, which in turn exposes their problems.
For example, a normal smile requires more than 30 facial muscles. And the "fake smile" will only mobilize the facial muscles that are no more than 10 fast.
The most typical smirk is often very subtle in the mouth, but there is no movement in the eyebrows, corners of the eyes and other parts, which is obviously abnormal. That's why it gives you a feeling of smiling and not smiling.
Most people are good at manipulating muscles near the mouth, while manipulating muscles near the eyes is more difficult. Therefore, just by looking around the eyes, you can tell if a person is making a false expression.
In fact, human beings are quite sensitive to other people's expressions, and all expressions that make you feel "discordant" are likely to be false.
2) Actions of a weak heart.
People feel nervous, stressed, and weak when they lie, so they will show something different.
The first thing that these states of mind can lead to is muscle tension, which gives the appearance of movement, and the posture is very stiff. At the same time, when people are weak in heart, they often have the following actions.
Touching or tugging at the ears, stroking the forehead, chin, body shaking, etc., are all typical stress-relieving actions. If you don't put any pressure on the other person, then the pressure may come from the insecurity of the other person when they cheat on you.
3) Distortion of tone.
In addition to facial expressions, there is another part that we can't control, and that's the sound. In general, the tone of voice changes depending on the mood and mental state.
For example, when people are angry, their voices will unconsciously become sharper and thinner, and when they are sad, they will become low.
And when lying, people's tones tend to become erratic, and this situation reflects the restlessness of the other person. At the same time, the other person's speech speed will become faster and his voice will become sharper.
Conclusion: The above 3 types of physical realization often reflect a person's uneasy, panicked, and nervous psychological state. If there are no other distractions.
You should have a normal heart, this is a pluralistic society, we should respect the lifestyle that others choose, if you really can't look at this kind of person, you don't care about them, they love it, if you want to scold them and get angry, I advise you or not, because then in the eyes of others it will seem that your quality is not high, don't worry about those things that matter to me, make your body and mind better, you should learn to be generous, In this way, it seems that our cultivation is very high, adjust your mentality, and wish you a good mood every day.
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